Cómo mantener a un chico interesado en ti para siempre
¿Cómo se haz que te persiga? ¿Cómo hacer que se comprometa contigo?
Even though these two questions are pretty much complex and difficult to answer, here’s one even more challenging question: Cómo mantener el interés de un hombre en ti?
It’s a universally acknowledged fact that men can lose interest in the blink of an eye.
You master the art of making him chase you and letting him know that you’re an inspiring, divine woman whom any man would die to be with.
Sus esfuerzos se multiplican y por fin conquista tu corazón y se siente el hombre más feliz del mundo. Y, al cabo de un tiempo, de repente pierde el interés y no tienes ni idea de cuándo ni cómo ha ocurrido.
Déjenme decirles una cosa, mis queridas señoras: The only reason why a guy would lose interest in you is because you’re letting him do so.
Allow me to elaborate on this humble hypothesis of mine: When he was chasing you, you were doing everything right. You gave him some space to court you and you didn’t tolerate a lack of effort. Because of that, he knew that you were a high-value woman, and if he wanted to win you, he’d have to step up his game.
Now, many men think that after winning a woman’s heart, there’s no need to keep making a tremendous effort because they have already “won” and the game is over.
Escuchen con atención, señoras: Tu tarea consiste en recordar a los hombres que, una vez que te ganan, el juego no ha terminado y que pueden perderte en cualquier momento si te dan por sentada.
If you want to keep a guy interested in you forever, you need to let him know that if he doesn’t treat you the way you deserve, there are plenty of other men who will.
Mantener el interés de un chico no tiene que ver con ÉL, sino contigo.
Many women think that the only way to keep a guy interested is to be that perfect woman every guy is dreaming of being with. Allow me to “disappoint” you by saying that such a woman doesn’t exist.
There’s no perfect woman, perfect hair, perfect body, or anything else. Perfection doesn’t exist. It’s a term invented by modern media to force us to play by their rules.
What I’m trying to say (read: type) is that keeping a guy interested is not about how he’s perceiving you, but about how you’re seeing yourself.
¿Elogias tus rarezas, defectos e imperfecciones? ¿Tienes confianza en ti mismo y en lo que haces? ¿Estás enamorado de ti mismo?
Una mujer que se respeta y se quiere a sí misma nunca permitirá que un hombre la trate mal ni tolerará sus repetidos errores. Mantener el interés de un hombre no tiene que ver con él, sino contigo.
Un hombre que piensa que no importa lo que haga será perdonado por su mujer no la apreciará.
A guy who thinks that his woman is clingy or needy will not be motivated to be with such a woman because she’s no longer a “high-value prize that he won”, but a “burden”.
Now, don’t get me wrong… this is not about men or how they see you. It’s about how you see yourself.
Si te valoras y le exiges que te respete, no perderá interés en ti porque le motivarás constantemente a ser la mejor versión de sí mismo.
Si le das a un hombre espacio para cortejarte cada día, le motivarás constantemente para que siga persiguiéndote.
Una cosa es segura: Un hombre ocupado en perseguir a su mujer nunca puede aburrirse ni perder el interés por ella.
Seguirá viéndola como una flor que hay que regar todos los días para que siga floreciendo. Si un hombre te ve de esa manera, entonces puedes estar segura de que NUNCA perderá interés en ti.
Más consejos sobre cómo mantener el interés de un chico en ti:
- Sea innovador (encuentre un bonito nombre de contacto para él)
- Tenga confianza
- Haz que se sienta importante
- Permítele que te siga persiguiendo
Mantener el interés de un chico no consiste en prepararle sus comidas favoritas, llevar ropa sexy 24 horas al día, 7 días a la semana, o cosas similares.
It’s about living an interesting life. It’s about having a life and nourishing other connections outside your relationship.
El momento en que un hombre pierde interés por una mujer es cuando ella se vuelve demasiado dependiente de su relación con él.
A man needs to know that you’re still that inspiring woman whom he was chasing and fighting to win her attention. He needs to know that you’re still YOU and you’re living your best life with or without him.
“Don’t make him your entire world, rather, make him just a part of your life.” – Dr. Umme Bilkis Ahmed
It’s so easy to lose yourself and start prioritizing another human being more than yourself or anyone else. It’s so easy to become a slave to your own affection and love for him. But, you shouldn’t do that.
Here’s one of my favorite consejos para mantenerlo interesado en ti para siempre: Don’t make him your entire world because if you do, he will lose interest in you.
Si un hombre sabe que todo tu mundo gira en torno a hacerle feliz, dará por sentada tu felicidad.
If he knows that you don’t value yourself, he will not value you either.
If he knows that you’re not in love with yourself, he will not be able to love you back.
Don’t make him your entire world because by doing that, you’re placing your happiness into his hands.
Let him know that you’re still that strong, bold, and powerful woman who can be equally happy with or without him and that’s how you’ll keep him interested in you.
Un hombre que está realmente interesado en ti actuará así.
Si Cómo mantener su interés is not enough of a challenging question for you, here’s one that will surely make you think: ¿Cómo saber si un hombre está realmente interesado en ti??
Do you think that saying those three words a million times a day (I know I’m exaggerating) means that he’s genuinely interested in you?
Or, do you think that frequently texting you means that you’re the only thing on his mind and he’ll never get bored of you? If yes, think again.
Un hombre que está realmente interesado en ti no sólo te lo dirá, sino que se asegurará de actuar como tal. Intentará impresionarte con sus habilidades, su creatividad y sus gestos románticos.
No se repetirá y no repetirá los errores que cometa (si es que los comete). Un hombre que está realmente interesado en ti siempre buscará nuevas formas de cortejarte.
Regardless of whether it is your first date, thirtieth date, or you’re in a long-term relationship, a man who is genuinely interested in you will make sure to show it with his actions and not only his words.
Cortejarte no será algo que deba hacer, pero disfrutará cada segundo. Su prioridad será hacerte sentir especial. Verte feliz será su principal objetivo.
