Así es como te conviertes en una mujer a la que él no puede dejar

El verdadero trabajo comienza justo después del fase de luna de miel de una relación. Todos nos enamoramos de forma natural, sin esfuerzo, pero mantenerse enamorado y sostener una relación es algo completamente distinto.

To start things on a clear note, being a woman he can’t afford to leave means being a woman who adds value to his life, a woman he knows he would miss terribly if she isn’t a part of his life.

That doesn’t mean you have to stop being yourself and change to fit his needs. That means you can start looking at certain things from a different angle and become the best version of yourself.

Si quieres saber cómo conseguirlo, sigue la siguiente lista:

1. Evitar el drama

There is not a man on this planet who can stay long with a drama queen. And there is no woman who doesn’t make her life bitter by being one.

Causar problemas donde no los hay y sacar las cosas de quicio es una pérdida de tiempo. Afronta los problemas reales, sé racional y tómatelo con calma. Un hombre lo apreciará.

2. Encuentra siempre un motivo para reír y hazle reír

Life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows, and neither are relationships. They come with a lot of problems and a lot of stress.

You will get through everything much more easily if you maintain your sense of humor. It’s something that relaxes both of you and makes you more connected. Whatever happens, it’s important to treasure the times in which you laugh together.

3. Respetar su intimidad

Don’t push him to talk about something that’s bothering him when you see that he can’t open up right away. He will when he feels the time is right. Let him be, and just be there.

Don’t snoop through his phone; show him you trust him. If there’s something shady going on, you will know sooner or later. The truth always has a way of showing its face.

Guarda para ti los secretos que te confíe, así como las cosas íntimas que sólo os conciernan a él y a ti.

4. Ser transparente

Seguro que hay cosas que querrás guardarte para ti, pero todas aquellas que tengan algún efecto en vuestra relación deben decirse, sin excepciones.

You have to be trustworthy if you expect him to be as well. Don’t hide your emotions, your past or your present. The more you open up and trust each other, the stronger the bond you are forging will be.

5. Ser su mayor apoyo

It’s invaluable to a man to have a woman who has his back at all times. The one who genuinely believes in him and lifts his spirits up when he thinks everything is hopeless.

Nunca tiene que decírtelo, ni cantarte una oda, porque tú estás ahí para él. Te demostrará su agradecimiento devolviéndote el apoyo.

6. Don’t be afraid to show him your love

Si decidís hacerlo, podréis enamoraros el uno del otro una y otra vez cada día. Fijaos en las pequeñas grandes cosas que hacéis el uno por el otro y agradecedlas.

Don’t deprive him of sweet words, tenderness, and care. Be romantic. Be spontaneous. Follow your feelings. Men need warmth just as much as women, but they will never say it in so many words.

7. Don’t fall into the trap of losing yourself

Love is so powerful that without being aware of it, it can turn another person into the sole focus of our lives. That’s also one of the mayores errores que una mujer puede hacer dentro y fuera de una relación.

Aprecia tu vida fuera de la relación. Persigue tus intereses. Pasa tiempo con tus amigos. Lleva una vida interesante, y siempre tendrás también su interés.