Cómo ser un buen novio (55 maneras infalibles de hacerla feliz)
I think all men would like to solve the ‘perfect boyfriend’ mystery.
Bueno, déjame decirte algo: the perfect boyfriend doesn’t exist. However, we’ll share a secret with you and tell you how to be a good boyfriend and win over your girlfriend’s heart para siempre.
Women aren’t as mysterious and complicated as most men think. They know what they want from life, from their relationships, and they’ll be direct about those things.
Sólo tienes que escuchar con atención. Being a great boyfriend isn’t a Sisyphean task. Con un poco de esfuerzo, puedes convertirte en un novio mejor y hacer mucho más feliz a tu novia.
Si crees que has encontrado a tu media naranja, a tu alma gemela y a Miss. Derecho, usted debe tratar muy duro para ser un hombre mejor para ella.
Love isn’t easy; maintaining a romantic relationship will always be challenging, but those things will always be worth fighting for.
Cómo ser un buen novio: 55 formas prácticas
Intentar ser mejor novio también te ayudará a establecer y mantener una buena relación con la chica que te gusta.
¿Qué hace falta para ser un buen novio? Descúbrelo a continuación y aprende a convertirte en el hombre de sus sueños.
Ámala también con acciones, no sólo con palabras
It’s okay to express your love with words and tell her more often how much you love her and how much she means to you. But the thing is that tus palabras tienen que estar respaldadas por tus acciones.
Don’t make her jealous. Don’t take her for granted. No matter how angry you are with her, don’t call her names or do something you’ll regret later.
Simplemente, don’t do things you know will hurt her because that would only show that your feelings aren’t as honest as you say. Send her one of those cute párrafos de buenas noches para ellaHacerla reír y simplemente estar a su lado.
Acepta todos sus defectos e imperfecciones
If you love someone, you have to accept and embrace them for who they really are. The fact is that we all have flaws and imperfections, and if you love someone, you’ll love those not so perfect parts of them too.
Recuérdale lo mucho que significa para ti más a menudo
Don’t just express your love on special occasions or when she asks you if you love her.
Hay muchas formas diferentes de demostrar tu amor a alguien, y deberías intentar sorprenderla con algo nuevo que le demuestre lo mucho que significa para ti cada día. Prueba a decirle una de esas cuentos románticos para dormir que le derretirá el corazón.
Aprende a hablar su lenguaje amoroso
If you’re in a long term relationship, then you probably already know what her el lenguaje del amor es. If you don’t, try to figure it out because it’s very important.
It’ll help you understand her passions and the way she functions in a relationship. You’ll also be able to meet all of her emotional needs, which will make you perfect in her eyes.
SIEMPRE ser honesto
Don’t hide things from her even when you want to protect her from bad news or similar. Always be sincere and speak honestly with her.
That’s how you’ll build trust between you, which is one of the most important building blocks of every relación sana.
La lealtad es la cualidad más importante
Do you want to know how to be a good boyfriend? It’s quite simple; don’t even think about betraying and cheating on the girl you’re dating.
Lealtad es precioso y sagrado para las mujeres. Recuerda, ser fiel a una sola mujer te convierte en un hombre de verdad.
Pasar más tiempo juntos
Planifique una cita romántica o, mejor aún, un viaje aventurero sorpresa para los dos solos y pase algún tiempo a solas.
It’s never about the amount of time you spend together; it’s how you spend it. It’s always quality over quantity when it comes to spending time together.
Ligar con otras chicas es un gran NO
Even if you just want to make her feel jealous because she looks cute when she is, you should never do it, and you especially shouldn’t do it in front of her. You’ll only lose her trust, and it’ll harm your relationship.
Haz de ella tu prioridad número uno
Debes conocer las prioridades de tu vida, y en lo más alto de esa lista deben estar tu relación y la chica a la que quieres.
El amor es lo más preciado de la vida, y deberías considerarte afortunado si tienes el privilegio de conocer a tu verdadero amor.
Cumpla sus promesas
If you give her your word on something, you should keep your promise no matter what. Prove to her that you’re an honest man she can trust completely.
Escuchar activamente
Para tener una buena relación, hay que aprender a comunicarse de forma sana. ¿Qué significa esto?
Significa que debes sentirte lo suficientemente cómodo como para contarle todo a tu pareja, y también debes escucharla atentamente cuando te hable.
Remember the things she tells you because it’s how you’ll prove to her that you honestly care.
Prove you’re trustworthy…
Para mantener un relación sana, you must build trust. Be her confidant. Show her she can trust you with anything and don’t ever tell someone something she has told you in absolute confidence.
Don’t lie because sooner or later, the truth comes out, and you’ll lose her trust and her respect. It’s not worth it, believe me.
Pero también, confía plenamente en ella
Ella es tu otra mitad, esa parte de ti que te conoce quizá incluso mejor que tú mismo. Deberías sentirte lo bastante cómodo como para contarle todo.
She needs your trust, and she’ll probably try hard to prove to you that she would never betray you or your secrets.
Siempre a su lado
Show her that in any situation, no matter what, you’ll always have her back. A girl needs to feel protected and safe.
Necesita saber que siempre puede contar contigo y que siempre estás ahí cuando te necesita.
Don’t try to control her
Let her maintain healthy independence in your relationship, and you should do it too. If you try to control her, you’ll only lose her.
Don’t let your fear of losing her lead to comportamiento controlador. Si tienes algún motivo para estar celoso, sé directo y habla con ella de ello.
Sea sorprendente y espontáneo
Don’t let the spark die in the relationship. If it dies, your relationship dies with it. Si no hay espontaneidad en una relación, toda la diversión, la pasión y, finalmente, el amor saldrán volando por la ventana.
Ponle nombres bonitos
Don’t call her by her name as if she is your co-worker or roommate. There are so many lindos apodos a haz que se sienta especial y aún más amada de lo que ya es.
Trust me, calling her cute names is a great way to show her how much she means to you and how much you appreciate her. It’ll bring a smile to her face every time.
Respetarla
How can you be a good boyfriend? It’s simple, actually. The most important thing is to treat your girlfriend with respeto porque toda mujer necesita sentirse respetada en una relación.
Trust her, ask her for her opinion and value it, support her and her choices, laugh with her, not at her… these are all simple ways to show how much you respect her.
Muestra respeto también por su familia y amigos
You want her to respect your family, right? Well, it goes both ways because she’ll want you to treat her family and friends with respect too.
Even though you may not get along with them well or you don’t agree with them on everything, you should never disrespect them because, in a way, you’ll be disrespecting her, too.
Intenta ganártelos
Para ganarte su corazón por completo y para siempre, primero debes intentar ganarte a los miembros de su familia.
Queramos admitirlo o no, nuestra familia y amigos tienen un gran impacto en nuestra vida amorosa. Así que sal con ellos, demuéstrales que tus intenciones van en serio y haz que te quieran y te aprueben.
Hacer sitio para el espacio personal en la relación
It’s good and healthy for both partners to have personal space in a relationship. Sometimes we all need some time alone.
Don’t nag her when she asks you to leave her alone for some time. She is a woman, and her needs are different from yours. You should accept it and show understanding.
Sus necesidades deben ser iguales a las tuyas
In a healthy relationship, it’s all about equality. It’s putting your partner’s needs above or right next to your own. Prioritizing their needs is a true sign you deeply and honestly care for them.
Don’t take her for granted
She should never doubt your feelings. Don’t ever treat her any less than she deserves. Yes, there might be plenty of other fish in the sea, but there is no other woman like her because she’s truly unique.
If you take her for granted, if she starts feeling neglected, she’ll close the door on you and leave you with regrets for the rest of your life.
Sé su mayor fan
You need to be her number one fan. Even when you disagree with her choices and decisions, you need to support her and show her you’re always rooting for her.
Demuéstrale lo mucho que crees en ella y lo orgulloso que estás de todo lo que es.
Anímala a seguir sus objetivos y sus pasiones
Una de las mejores cosas y de las partes más especiales de estar en una relación es la posibilidad de crecer junto a la persona que amas.
You don’t need to have the same goals for the future. You should only respect and support each other’s choices.
A veces todos dudamos de nosotros mismos, pero una pequeña palabra de aliento de nuestros seres queridos puede disipar todas esas dudas.
Toma la iniciativa
Think of your relationship as a dance. When dancing, one partner always has to lead the other. You’re the man, and that role belongs to you.
It doesn’t mean you should be dominant;
sólo significa que debes establecer unas expectativas de relación saludables y, junto con tu novia, esforzarte por cumplirlas.
Don’t avoid conflict
Provocar una pelea por cosas irrelevantes y estúpidas no es sano, y deberías evitar ese tipo de discusiones.
However, you have a few differences, and it’s perfectly normal that you’ll disagree on certain things.
Don’t avoid confronting her about these issues. If you choose to keep silent on those things, it’ll only raise bigger problems between you and make you grow apart.
Comunique sus necesidades
Don’t ever allow her to wonder if there is something wrong with you or your relationship just because you are more quiet than usual.
If something is bothering you, tell her. There is no obstacle you can’t overcome, and there are no issues you can’t solve with healthy and honest communication.
Prepárate para hacer concesiones
Si desea haz feliz a tu novia y la relación sea sana, tienes que estar dispuesto a hacer algunos compromisos de vez en cuando.
A veces es necesario renunciar a ciertas cosas para llegar a un entendimiento. Una de las mayores cualidades de un buen novio es estar abierto a compromiso en ciertas cosas en una relación.
Don’t stop investing in yourself
Just because you’ve been contactos for a long time and you’ve already won over her heart doesn’t mean you should stop working on yourself.
Para tener una buena relación con otra persona, primero hay que tener una buena relación con uno mismo.
Apreciar sus esfuerzos
Ella se esfuerza cada día por ser una novia mejor para ti, y tú deberías mostrarle gratitud por todas las cosas que hace por ti cada día.
Say ‘thank you’ more often because it means a lot to a woman when she knows that even those small efforts are appreciated.
Don’t ask her to change
If you love her, you’ll accept her just the way she is. Of course, we all have some flaws, but the point is that you shouldn’t make her change those imperfect parts of her.
Debes animarla a aceptar sus imperfecciones, no hacer que se sienta insegura.
Ser indulgente
We all make mistakes. It’s a part of human nature. The ability to forgive is key to a healthy and successful relationship.
Si sientes que está profundamente arrepentida de algo que ha hecho, encuentra la fuerza para perdonarla y dejarlo pasar.
Also, if you’ve decided to forgive something, there is no point in going back to that topic. You chose to move on, and you should leave it in the past.
Sea comprensivo y paciente
Si alguien tuviera que preguntarme cuáles son las cualidades de un buen novio, sin duda diría comprensión y paciencia (sobre todo en esos días del mes, ¿verdad?)
Don’t hide your feelings
Learn to communicate and express your feelings in a healthy way. You shouldn’t suppress your feelings, even the negative ones, because they will come to the surface sooner or later.
They’ll explode and damage your relationship greatly.
Preséntela a su familia y amigos
This is something all women want when they’re in a serious relationship. If you introduce her to your family and friends, it’ll show her your intentions are serious and make her feel respected.
Don’t compare her with your ex
Don’t bring up your exes, and don’t ever compare your girlfriend to other girls. It’s not fair, and you’ll only make her doubt her self-worth.
She’s not like other women and never will be because she’s a unique, one of a kind girl.
Ser más cariñoso
Una chica necesita sentirse querida, y tú debes demostrarle cuánto la quieres cada día.
Give her a back rub after a difficult day at work, schedule cuddle time, hold hands in public, hug her from the back and kiss her by surprise, give her daily affirmations…
Hay muchas maneras de ser más cariñoso y expresar lo mucho que ella significa para ti.
Se merece que la mimen
Don’t buy her a gift only on special occasions. Don’t write her a mensaje romántico only on Valentine’s Day. She deserves the joy of being spoiled with little things every single day.
Empatizar con ella
Todos pasamos por malos momentos en la vida. Nuestras vidas están llenas de altibajos. Pero lo más importante es tener a alguien con quien compartirlo todo, la belleza y el dolor de la vida.
If your girlfriend is going through rough times, you need to be there for her and sympathize with her. It’s so much easier when you have someone to share all of your worries with.
Try to make her feel better while she’s on her period
Durante esos dos días del mes, tu chica está pasando por muchas cosas, tanto física como mentalmente, y necesita que estés ahí y seas comprensivo.
It’s simple, really; you just need to buy her enough chocolate and ice cream and watch a few heartbreaking, romantic movies with her.
Sé romántico
Every lady deserves a gentleman. This is probably the best answer to the question, ‘How can I be a good boyfriend?’ Just be a gentleman, respect her, express your love, and spoil her with romance and affection.
Elogiarla más a menudo
Las mujeres aprecian los cumplidos sinceros más de lo que usted cree. Hacerle cumplidos mejorará su autoestima y su imagen de sí misma, lo que también afectará positivamente a vuestra relación.
Haz que se sienta especial
She is your one and only, right? That’s exactly how you should make her feel. Haz que se sienta especial, important, and wanted, and she’ll fall for you even harder.
Ayuda con las tareas domésticas
I don’t have to explain this one, right? Don’t allow it to become a ‘chore war’ and damage the relationship between you when it’s not difficult at all. Most importantly, it means a lot to a woman.
Cocinar para ella
Sorpréndela con una cita romántica y prepárale su plato favorito. Ella cocina para ti todos los días, y estaría bien sorprenderla con su plato favorito de vez en cuando.
Interesarse más por las cosas que le gustan
I’m not saying that you should do everything together. However, it would be nice to be more interested in her hobbies and things she likes. It would show her how much you care for her.
Hazla reír
If you can’t make her laugh, you won’t be able to keep her in her life. To be honest, we all need a little humor in our lives. I always say that being able to make her laugh is a sure way to win her heart.
Prepárate para salir de tu zona de confort
Aunque no te sientas cómodo probando cosas nuevas, de vez en cuando deberías salir de tu zona de confort y hacer algo que sepas que a ella le gustaría.
Don’t allow your relationship to become monotonous.
Las pequeñas cosas son las más importantes
Esto es algo que debes recordar, pequeñas cosas son lo que cuenta para todas las mujeres.
You won’t be a good boyfriend by occasionally buying her expensive gifts. You’ll be one by surprising her with small things every day.
Recuerde las fechas importantes
Oh, this one is important to remember too. We all know that men aren’t so good at remembering important dates, which frustrates women the most.
You don’t have to remember the first time you held hands, but anniversaries, birthdays, and other important dates should be memorized.
Averigua lo que le gusta en la cama
Even though physical intimacy isn’t a vital part of a relationship, it is important.
Hay algunos cosas que todas las mujeres desean secretamente en la camay para mantener a tu chica feliz y satisfecha, deberías intentar averiguar estas cosas.
Sé su héroe
A girl wants to feel safe and protected when she is in a relationship. You need to show her she can count on you no matter what, that you’ll always be there, and that you’ll never allow anyone to hurt her.
Para ser un buen novio, primero debes ser un buen amigo
Do you see the ‘friend’ part of the word ‘boyfriend’? Well, that’s important. It’s important to be her friend first, gain her trust, and prove to her you’re on her side no matter what.
You’ve chosen her; now keep choosing her above everyone and everything else
She’s the girl you’ve chosen to be with because you love her and you know she deserves it.
Now, don’t allow anyone to stand in the way of your happiness and keep choosing her despite everything and everyone else.
En conclusión
I hope these inspiring tips helped you get the answer to the question ‘How can I be a good boyfriend?’ Trust me; it’s all about small things you can do for her every day.
Si has encontrado a alguien que te gusta, deberías intentar ser mejor novio si quieres seguir mucho tiempo con esa persona.
After all, if you want a good girlfriend, you should try to be a good boyfriend first. It’s a two-way street. If you show appreciation and make her feel special, she’ll respond the same to you.
If you think you’ve found a once-in-a-lifetime girl, don’t risk losing her. Become the best possible version of yourself and make her fall endlessly in love with you.
Conviértete en un mejor novio para ganarte su corazón para siempre.
