8 cosas que debe hacer una mujer que se respeta a sí misma
Eres una MUJER. Tienes que ser consciente de lo que vales. You have to know that you’re more than good enough…For him, for everyone and everything.
You have to realize that you deserve everything you have and everything you wish for. You deserve even more than that. You deserve the world and you shouldn’t settle for any less than that.
Esto no es pura palabrería feminista. It’s a fact. Women carry so many burdens. We have to take care of so many people in our lives and we are loaded with even more responsibilities and preoccupations.
That’s precisely what makes us so brave and strong. That’s why I’m so proud that I’m a woman y tú también deberías estarlo.
Conozca su autoestima and have faith in yourself. Show the world that you’re one badass self-respecting woman! Here are some things you should do.
Nunca te compares con los demás
There will always be someone prettier than you or someone more intelligent or more successful. Don’t waste your time comparing yourself to others because you’ll get nothing out of that.
It won’t make you work on improving yourself. It will only make you bitter or envious. You don’t need that.
Think the other way; no one can be like you and that’s super awesome. Verdaderamente, hay tanta belleza en nuestras diferencias.
Sentir lástima por ti mismo está fuera de lugar
La autocompasión es tu peor enemigo, así que trabaja para superarla. Si alguien cercano a ti te hizo algo malo, perdónale, perdónate a ti mismo por confiar en esa persona y olvídalo.
Piensa en positivo e intenta ser siempre la mejor persona. La vida es bella. Siempre habrá periodos difíciles, pero nada dura para siempre. Todo puede cambiar en un minuto.
Don’t try to hide your flaws and imperfections
Your flaws are also part of you. Trust me, it is what makes you strong. Embrace them. Show others that you know you have imperfections like all human beings and that you’re okay with it.
Others may try to hurt you using your flaws because they consider them your weak point. By embracing them, you won’t allow them to succeed.
Don’t apologize for being yourself
You must have your own thoughts and opinions. You’re allowed to say how you feel. You have every right to disagree with others and have a different perspective on life.
Sabes quién eres y nunca lo lamentes. It’s called having self-respect. I know we all fear that other people won’t like it, but that’s their problem, not yours.
Don’t let your feelings control you
Amar a alguien es lo más hermoso del mundo. Pero saber que tus sentimientos son recíprocos es aún mejor. Sin embargo, a veces, permitimos demasiado a los demás simplemente porque los queremos.
Don’t put up with someone treating you badly just because you love them. Nunca dejes que tus sentimientos te controlen. Nunca acaba bien, créeme.
Don’t allow anyone to tell you what to do
Women make so many mistakes when they’re in love with someone. The most common mistake is giving their power when they are in a relationship.
Permitimos que la persona a la que amamos nos diga lo que tenemos que hacer. Pronto empezamos a pedir permiso para todo lo que hacemos.
It’s your life only and only you have the right to make decisions about it. Sure, it’s good to hear some advice about certain things, but making the decision should be up to you alone.
Nunca esperes demasiado de los demás
Sometimes people aren’t ready to do the same things for you as you would for them and you should just make peace with that.
If you think that only your partner can make you happy, you’re wrong. Only you can. If you don’t lower your expectations, you’ll only be disappointed in the end.
Nunca mires atrás
This is probably the most important thing on the list. Good things happen, bad things happen, someone broke your heart, someone left you…It just doesn’t matter.
It happened and now it’s gone. It’s past and leave it right there, en el pasado. Don’t continue hurting yourself by looking back at things that mean nothing to you anymore.
Las mujeres como tú son tan raras hoy en día. Truly, you’re like a rare diamond so continue to shine the brightest you can.
