Cuando le das todo a un hombre y aún así no tiene la decencia de elegirte
Un hombre de verdad nunca te dejará adivinar el papel que pretende desempeñar en tu vida.
Un hombre de verdad siempre es sincero sobre el papel que quiere que desempeñes en su vida.
Only a toxic man plays with a woman’s feelings.
Sólo un hombre tóxico tiene la osadía de sacar lo mejor de una mujer y luego dejarla tirada.
Sólo Dios sabe a cuántas mujeres han dejado en la estacada en lo que llevan de vida. Y sólo Dios sabe a cuántas mujeres han dejado en la estacada muchas veces en su vida.
Just because there are women who are ready to wear their hearts on their sleeves, just because there are women who are more than ready to choose one man and devote themselves wholly to him, that isn’t a green light to use them and then just leave them as if they were the most irrelevant thing in your life.
¿De dónde sacan el corazón los hombres que abandonan a este tipo de mujeres? ¿Y cómo duermen por la noche este tipo de hombres?
¿Cómo duermen por la noche sabiendo que han roto el corazón de las mujeres que esperaban ser elegidas, que merecían ser elegidas?
Las excusas más cobardes siempre proceden de hombres que no están dispuestos a asumir responsabilidades por sus actos.
How many times have you heard, “She was the one who wanted to give me her all, but I never asked for it!”? This is a load of crap, excuse my French.
If he didn’t want anything from you, he should’ve made sure you were aware of that.
If he didn’t want to use you as he said, he should have stopped taking your kindness, because in his acceptance of your kindness and all the things you did for him was a silent promise that you two were meant to be something more.
When a real man wants you, he’s upfront about it. When a real man has no interest in you, he’s also upfront about it and would never send you mixed signals.
Only a coward, a poor excuse for a man, would lead you on for a long time without any intention of being with you. But it’s not your fault, as he mastered this kind of game a long time ago.
Le diste tus años. What you had going on wasn’t just blink and it’s over. It was so much more than that. It was days, weeks, months, years of your time and of your hope.
Fueron muchas noches en vela en las que esperaste a ser elegida y en las que hubo muchos indicios de que lo merecías, pero su decisión final nunca llegó.
Le diste tu amor.
Le diste tu sonrisa, tu risa, tu mano y tu corazón. Estuviste a su lado.
Eras capaz de intuir cuándo algo iba mal en su vida y siempre sabías qué decir en un momento determinado.
Siempre estabas dispuesto a salvarle cuando acudía a ti, herido por el mundo.
No importaba lo que necesitara, tú lo tenías. Incluso cuando a veces no tenía ni idea de lo que necesitaba, tú lo sabías por él.
Tú fuiste su estrella guía en la vida. Tú fuiste quien le ayudó a llegar al lugar donde se encuentra ahora.
Invertiste tanto en él ¿y qué obtuviste al final? Una bolsa llena de nada.
He never asked for any of what you gave him, but he never said he didn’t want it either.
Nunca te pidió nada en voz alta, pero aun así esperaba que le dieras lo que necesitaba.
La única razón por la que nunca lo decía en voz alta era para poder mantener la conciencia limpia cuando ocurrían esas cosas.
He wanted to be ‘clean’ when you came to him to charge him for all the good you did for him.
When you came knocking and asking for more in life, when you asked him to give you what you deserved and what you’d been giving to him all this time, he didn’t have the decency to give it to you.
He didn’t have the decency to choose you and when you got fed up, he distanced himself by saying he never asked you for anything.
He didn’t ask for it, but he sure as hell expected it.
¿Qué quiere una mujer tan devota, tan dotada, tan amable y tan cariñosa como tú de semejante excusa de hombre?
Let’s be straight up, shall we? If he had any intention of choosing you, you would have been chosen by now.
If he wanted to reward you for your loyalty and for all the times you were there for him when nobody else was, for all those times you chose him over yourself, it would be a done deal by now. But he didn’t.
Lo peor de todo es que tú mismo eres consciente de ello, pero sigues negándote a aceptarlo.
Eres una mujer inteligente. Te permitiste esta vez no ser estúpida, sino dejarte llevar por tu corazón y por la esperanza de que un día él viera lo que vales y te valorara por lo que eras y por lo que hiciste por él.
You hoped that he was a better man than he had shown you and you kept giving until the point where there was nothing more than you could give. And yet he didn’t have the decency to choose you.
En lugar de elegirte él, decidió no hacerlo.
Decidió ser cobarde y egoísta y se negó a comprometerse. Quería estar abierto a todas las opciones que había.
But that was far from what you deserved or from what suited you. He secretly hoped that you’d eventually miss him so much and that you’d be ready to settle for less.
What he failed to realize is that once a woman like you leaves, no matter how much pain she might endure, she’s never coming back.
The only thing left for you to do is to prove to him what you’re made of.
You owe it to yourself to choose yourself when he doesn’t have the decency to do it. You owe it to yourself to stop giving all of you to somebody who doesn’t value you.
You owe it to yourself to stop being exploited by a man who’s not really a man, but just a poor excuse for one.
Así que elígete a ti mismo. Elige ser tu propio héroe. Elige salvarte de la relación tóxica y elige no conformarte con menos.
A woman like you deserves the world and if the man you want isn’t going to give it to you, then stop wanting him.
Because there is somebody worthy of you and there is somebody who’ll value you for who you are.
Hay un hombre de verdad ahí fuera que te dará un lugar en su vida. Deja de elegir no ser elegido.
