¿Cuándo te pedirá matrimonio? 13 señales de que está listo para pedirle matrimonio
Open your eyes wide and engage every possible sense you have. Only then will you get the answer to your question of when he will propose, and might I add, you’ll get the correct answer to a very important question.
¿Por qué es tan importante reconocer los signos correctos? You don’t want to get yourself into a situation where you’re ready to be proposed to and furthermore, you’re convinced hará la preguntapero nunca pasa nada.
Seguro que leíste mal sus sutiles señales e imaginaste que se avecinaba una proposición de matrimonio.
Incluso te has hecho la manicura y te has imaginado ese anillo de tu joyero favorito en el dedo anular. Incluso has elegido a tus damas de honor.
Imagine the heartbreak and disappointment you’d be faced with just because you thought something was a sure sign and it turned out to be nothing.
That’s why it’s important to recognize all the subtle ways he lets you know something’s up, and he’s getting closer to revealing an engagement ring.
Cualquiera puede sorprenderte en cualquier momento y normalmente cuando menos te lo esperas.
Just make sure you don’t make a terrible mistake by assuming a romantic proposal is going to take place, if you’re not sure.
Eso puede crear una situación incómoda o incluso provocar una ruptura repentina.
For example, I had a friend who took his girlfriend on a romantic getaway to Paris on Valentine’s day.
I get it, Paris is the most romantic city in the world (at least that’s the city’s reputation), so crazy ideas start running through your mind and you can easily get carried away.
He took her to the Eiffel Tower and she thought, ‘there it is, he’s going to pop the question’, already imagining the ring size and thinking about calling her family members.
Of course, he didn’t plan on proposing to her, he just wanted them to have a nice trip and enjoy a few date nights in a romantic city to the fullest.
I cannot stress enough that the ride from the tower to the hotel was a very awkward one, since she was convinced he was going to propose to her, and he hadn’t.
Después de que él le preguntara qué le pasaba, ella se limitó a decir, muy decepcionada, que todo iba bien, pero era tan evidente que estaba terriblemente decepcionada.
Unas semanas más tarde, rompieron porque su relación dio un giro inesperado a peor tras ese pequeño incidente.
Read the signs right and you’ll get the correct answer to your question of when he will propose (or whether you should deja de esperar a que se declare)!
¿Cuándo te pedirá matrimonio? 13 señales de que está listo para pedirle matrimonio
1. He’s seriously thinking about marriage
Sus conversaciones contigo empiezan a tener un tono más serio. Sus preguntas están relacionadas con el futuro.
He’ll suddenly be interested in what you want to do in five years, where you want to be.
He is interested in topics related to kids and parenting. He’ll ask about more serious topics than he usually does.
Tus ideas políticas y tu visión de la vida en general le interesarán mucho de repente.
Not only will he be more interested in your life by asking you a ton of questions, he’ll talk to your family and friends more.
No guy will ask you to marry him unless he is absolutely sure you’ll fall into his arms with a big fat, “YES!”.
So, in order to be sure you’ll say yes, every guy will do everything in his power to get a positive vibe on the marriage issue.
2. El momento es perfecto
This sign you have to figure out on your own, but be careful not to ‘imagine’ things which are actually not happening just because you want to tie the knot so badly.
La principal razón por la que los hombres deciden sentar la cabeza y casarse es que es el momento oportuno y están seguros de estar con la persona adecuada.
Llegan a cierta edad en la que ya no tienen la necesidad de perseguir a diferentes mujeres y evitar el compromiso, y en realidad quieren todo lo contrario.
Han pasado mucho tiempo de juerga y ahora quieren sentar la cabeza, encontrar una buena mujer y pasar el resto de sus vidas juntos.
Usually, they won’t settle down before they have their life planned out, before they have a secure future with a steady job.
And if your man checks these boxes, that is indeed a good sign he’s getting ready to propose.
3. Se toma en serio lo de ahorrar dinero
Las bodas cuestan dinero, todo el mundo lo sabe. También la vida en común y formar una familia cuestan dinero.
Antes de decidirse a sentar la cabeza y pasar al siguiente nivel, todo hombre quiere asegurarse de que su futuro está planificado desde el punto de vista financiero. Al fin y al cabo, tienen que comprar el anilloque no es una inversión pequeña.
So if you’ve noticed your significant other is starting to put some money aside without hiding it but he’s not telling you why he needs that money and he kind of avoids that topic in general, he’s most probably going to ask you to marry him.
4. Se atraen mutuamente
Puedes decirte lo que quieras, pero la apariencia importa. Tiene que haber algún tipo de atracción física entre los dos si quieres pasar el resto de tu vida en un matrimonio feliz.
Just liking each other on the first date isn’t going to cut it. You really need to feel a great atracción sexual y de esa atracción nacerá el amor.
Having said that, hotter people don’t easily get married like average-looking people.
Maybe this sounds a bit too harsh but it’s true. The reason for that is perfectly logical. Hotter people don’t look like people who will stay faithful.
Sus opciones son más amplias porque, técnicamente hablando, sus posibilidades de seducir a alguien son un poco mayores.
Por supuesto, su aspecto es sólo una parte del conjunto que cada persona busca en alguien.
Coge su personalidad y todo lo demás, además de su aspecto, y tendrás a la persona perfecta para ti.
The most important thing which can assure you that someday you’ll get married is the attraction—it always has to be present.
5. He says you’d be a great mother
He’s sending you a huge sign that he’s definitely ready to be a father. If you didn’t know, men also have a biological clock, and it’s ticking.
At some point in a relationship, most men will feel the need to become a father, to become someone’s role model and take care of somebody who depends on them to survive.
Tener hijos es la principal razón por la que la mayoría de los hombres deciden casarse.
Otherwise, commitment is a big issue that’s always very much present.
6. His friends claim he’s different around you
Not bad different but just different—meaning considerate and loving, careful and gentle.
He most surely isn’t the same person they are used to having around.
None of them have seen him as happy as when he’s with you, and he never treated any of his past girlfriends the way he treats you. One other important thing.
Before you, he would never mention marriage, but now, it’s a frequent topic of discussion.
7. He comments on your friends’ engagement rings
It would be super strange if he came to you all of a sudden asking you what type of engagement ring you’d like one day.
It would raise questions, and you’d definitely suspect he was preparing to propose to you.
Research says that 66% of grooms report picking out the perfect ring for their better half by commenting on other people’s engagement rings whenever they post it on their social media.
That’s how they get the general idea of what you like and what you don’t like.
If you notice your partner trying to get some clues as to what kind of jewelry you like, especially engagement rings, you can be sure he’s going to ask you to marry him very soon. Play it cool. Don’t show you know, it will ruin the surprise.
8. Sale con tu familia y amigos sin ti
Is he sneaking out without you knowing to meet your family or your best friend? If you ask me, that’s a particularly shady behavior, and there must be something hidden behind it. But don’t worry, it’s nothing bad, it’s the complete opposite.
He’s gathering information about you, so that the proposal he’s planning sweeps you off your feet.
Enviar un mensaje de texto a tu mejor amiga cada vez que se le ocurra una idea para comentársela y hablar con tu familia son las mejores formas de hacerlo. ¿Quién te conoce mejor que ellos?
9. Insistió en el compromiso desde el principio de la relación
If this isn’t a sign he’s going to marry you, I don’t know what is.
We all know at least a few men who’ve been in long-term relationships which failed and right after their relationship, they met someone else and got married very soon. There is only one simple reason for that.
When you meet someone you know is right for you, you don’t wait; you go all in because you don’t want to lose them.
If your guy insisted on commitment early on, you can be almost positive about what the next step is—it’s marriage of course.
10. Quiere conocer tus planes de antemano
En lo que a ti respecta, la propuesta surgió de repente y fue una gran sorpresa.
What you don’t know is that his every move was carefully planned with the intention of keeping you clueless.
No es consciente del esfuerzo realizado para que la propuesta fuera una sorpresa.
Sólo después de que te haga la gran pregunta empiezas a pensar en cómo lo hizo.
Y luego vuelves atrás y recuerdas todas las preguntas sobre tus planes, dónde ibas a estar, qué pensabas hacer y cuándo.
All those questions weren’t in vain. They were part of making the plan.
11. Tus amigos de repente están muy interesados en tu pareja
Como ya sabrás, si tu pareja empieza a salir con tus amigos y, sobre todo, con los miembros de tu familia, es que está tramando algo, lo que también significa que tus padres y tu familia saben lo que está tramando.
If you’re suspecting he might pop the question, the best way to be sure he’s going to propose is by paying attention to how your family treats him.
Let’s say they weren’t so keen on him at the beginning of the relationship, but now all of a sudden, they show interest in everything about him. Isn’t that a bit strange?
12. He’s a bit edgy and nervous
Of course he is, he’s about to make the biggest decision of his life. No one would stay indifferent before making a decision like that. The general change in his attitude is a huge sign that something is about to happen.
If your relationship is going exactly how you want and there aren’t any problems, then the reason why he’s tense is obvious—he’s going to ask you to marry him.
There are two biggest moments in every guy’s life, and those are asking a girl out on a primera cita y proponerle matrimonio a alguien.
If you see he has changed and is constantly asking for confirmation of your love (assuming that your relationship is not in crisis), prepare yourself to say, “Yes,” when the right time comes along.
13. He’s interested in other people’s weddings
Las bodas suelen ser algo que los hombres intentan evitar, sobre todo si no van en serio contigo.
But if your partner shows interest in going to a wedding with you for some reason, I say it’s a huge sign, and you should go in search of a wedding dress.
Piénsalo de este modo. Quiere ir a una boda contigo porque quiere ver tus reacciones ante la música, la decoración o quiere conocer tu impresión general.
Quiere saber qué te gusta y qué te haría feliz.
Don’t be hasty, and don’t form a conclusion before you are absolutely sure he’s going to propose to you.
On the other hand, just be patient and you’ll see, but don’t be crazy and wait for one guy your whole life.
