Cuando vuelva a ti, no lo querrás

Cuando el hombre que amas se aleja de tu lado y se marcha de tu vida, pensarás que es lo peor que te puede pasar.

You spend your days waiting for him to come back to you and thinking about ways to make this happen. You literally put your life on hold, and you don’t see a way for yourself to move on.

Mientras esto sucede, sólo recuerdas las cosas buenas. Te olvidas de todo lo malo que este tipo te ha hecho pasar.

De repente, te olvidas de todo el dolor y las lágrimas. Te olvidas de lo desgraciada e infeliz que te hizo sentir durante toda vuestra relación.

De repente, sientes que los dos podríais resolver todos vuestros problemas y superar todas vuestras diferencias si las cosas pudieran volver a ser como antes.

Crees que tu relación y este tipo merecen una segunda oportunidad y que los dos harían que las cosas funcionaran esta vez.

Crees que tu vida es más fuerte que cualquier obstáculo, y sólo quieres volver a tener a ese hombre en tu vida.

Sólo quieres besarle una vez más. Quieres dormirte en sus brazos y despertar a su lado.

But that isn’t happening, despite all of your wishes and efforts.

And I know I you don’t think this way now but trust me, it’s better this way.

I know you won’t believe me, but you only think that having this man back in your life would put you out of your misery.

You only think you want him back but trust me—you don’t. And you would understand all of this the moment he came back to you.

The truth is that you idealize this guy just because you don’t have him anymore.

The truth is that you’ve managed to forget all about his flaws and negative sides and that you’ve focused on his positive qualities just because you miss him.

The truth is that you romanticize him and your relationship and that you don’t look it realistically.

But the two of you took separate ways for a strong reason. And that reason won’t go away overnight.

Because you are still the person you’ve always been and sigue siendo el mismo hombre. And any time apart won’t change that.

Si él vuelve a titodas tus diferencias y problemas volverán a salir a la superficie antes de que te des cuenta.

If he comes back to you, you’ll see that you never wanted this to happen and that him leaving you was the best thing that could occur.

You’ll see that he is not the man for you and that you probably just miss the feeling of belonging to someone and the feeling of partnership.

You’ll see that your ego was more hurt than your heart; that you just couldn’t stand this man you think you love not wanting to be with you anymore.

You’ll realize that you’ve spent all this time trying to get him back simply because you wanted to prove to yourself that he is still yours.

Porque querías demostrarles a los dos que puedes tenerlo cuando y como quieras.

If he comes back to you, you’ll see that you should have never given him a second chance; that he hasn’t changed his ways and that he’ll always be the man who caused you emotional pain.

Si vuelve contigo, sólo piensas que le perdonarás por todo lo que ha hecho.

But trust me—-you’ll always hold grudges. You’ll always resent him for leaving you, without taking your feelings into consideration.

You’ll always question his reasons for walking away, and you’ll always doubt his love for you, even if he makes an effort to prove it to you.

You’ll want to know every single detail of his bachelor life. Has he been seeing some other girls?

¿Qué hacía? ¿Cómo pasaba los días mientras tú esperabas a que volviera?

Si vuelve a ti, you’ll see that the two of you have no future and that things should have stayed the way they were.