Quando tornerà da voi, non lo vorrete più

Quando l'uomo che amate si allontana da voi e se ne va dalla vostra vita, penserete che sia la cosa peggiore che vi possa capitare.

You spend your days waiting for him to come back to you and thinking about ways to make this happen. You literally put your life on hold, and you don’t see a way for yourself to move on.

Mentre questo accade, ricordate solo le cose belle. Dimenticate tutto ciò che di brutto vi ha fatto passare questo ragazzo.

All'improvviso, dimenticate tutto il dolore e le lacrime. Dimenticate quanto vi ha fatto sentire infelici e miserabili durante tutta la vostra relazione.

All'improvviso, vi sentite come se voi due poteste risolvere tutti i vostri problemi e superare tutte le vostre divergenze se solo le cose tornassero come prima.

Pensi che la tua relazione e questo ragazzo meritano una seconda possibilità e che questa volta voi due riuscirete a far funzionare le cose.

Pensate che la vostra vita sia più forte di ogni ostacolo e volete solo avere di nuovo quest'uomo nella vostra vita.

Vuoi solo baciarlo ancora una volta. Volete addormentarvi tra le sue braccia e svegliarvi accanto a lui.

But that isn’t happening, despite all of your wishes and efforts.

And I know I you don’t think this way now but trust me, it’s better this way.

I know you won’t believe me, but you only think that having this man back in your life would put you out of your misery.

You only think you want him back but trust me—you don’t. And you would understand all of this the moment he came back to you.

The truth is that you idealize this guy just because you don’t have him anymore.

The truth is that you’ve managed to forget all about his flaws and negative sides and that you’ve focused on his positive qualities just because you miss him.

The truth is that you romanticize him and your relationship and that you don’t look it realistically.

But the two of you took separate ways for a strong reason. And that reason won’t go away overnight.

Because you are still the person you’ve always been and è ancora lo stesso uomo. And any time apart won’t change that.

Se lui torna a voiTutte le vostre differenze e i vostri problemi riappariranno in superficie prima che ve ne accorgiate.

If he comes back to you, you’ll see that you never wanted this to happen and that him leaving you was the best thing that could occur.

You’ll see that he is not the man for you and that you probably just miss the feeling of belonging to someone and the feeling of partnership.

You’ll see that your ego was more hurt than your heart; that you just couldn’t stand this man you think you love not wanting to be with you anymore.

You’ll realize that you’ve spent all this time trying to get him back simply because you wanted to prove to yourself that he is still yours.

Perché volevi dimostrare a entrambi che puoi averlo quando e come vuoi.

If he comes back to you, you’ll see that you should have never given him a second chance; that he hasn’t changed his ways and that he’ll always be the man who caused you emotional pain.

Se torna da te, pensi solo che lo perdonerai per tutto quello che ha fatto.

But trust me—-you’ll always hold grudges. You’ll always resent him for leaving you, without taking your feelings into consideration.

You’ll always question his reasons for walking away, and you’ll always doubt his love for you, even if he makes an effort to prove it to you.

You’ll want to know every single detail of his bachelor life. Has he been seeing some other girls?

Che cosa faceva? Come trascorreva le sue giornate, mentre voi aspettavate il suo ritorno?

Se torna da te, you’ll see that the two of you have no future and that things should have stayed the way they were.