33 grandes decepciones que no se pueden pasar por alto

1. Cuando tu pareja espera que estés a su lado siempre que te necesita, pero nunca piensa en hacer lo mismo por ti. Tener que pedirlo todo es muy desagradable.

2. If they are unable to say they’re sorry. If someone is unable to apologize when they do something wrong, it’s childish and unattractive.

3. Cuando una pareja parece tener delirios sobre su propia personalidad. Piensan que son un tipo de persona cuando en realidad son completamente diferentes.

4. Cuando hablan demasiado de sí mismos y nunca escuchan realmente tus historias ni nada de lo que tienes que decir sobre tu vida. When they don’t let other people speak in general or show no interest in anything unless it has come out of their own mouth.

5. When a partner is too needy. I love being there for my loved one, but if they expect me to be there for them all the time and whine if I’m not, it’s a huge turnoff. Have a life even when they aren’t around, and I intend to keep it that way.

6. Cuando dicen cosas sólo por decirlas. 7. Cuando hacen promesas porque suenan bien, pero en realidad nunca hacen nada de lo que prometen.

7. When they share the most intimate details of your relationship or stuff you’ve told them in confidence with their friends or family.

8. When they stereotype. If someone judges others based on their skin color, sexual orientation, religion, or gender – that’s unacceptable to me.

9. También cuando juzgan a los demás con demasiada dureza sin mirarse primero a sí mismos.

10. When you’re excited about something or in a super amazing mood – whether you have a reason for it or not – and they put you down. ¿Por qué lo harían? ¿Les molesta tu felicidad?

11. When they have low self-esteem it’s a huge turn-off. If you feel like you always have to carefully watch every word you say so you don’t hurt their feelings, that’s way too much drama.

12. When they don’t know how to have an adult conversation or argue in order to resolve an issue. Cuando siempre gritan o se marchan inmaduramente cuando las cosas van mal.

13. When they’re so full of themselves and think that you’re lucky to have scored them at all.

14. When they don’t act like you’re a team. Also, when they don’t support you in front of others or don’t defend you if others talk about you behind your back.

15. Cuando engañan o creen que engañar está bien. También cuando mienten.

16. When you think about your relationship and realize that you’re the only one making plans and initiating things, and they just let go and don’t really do any work.

17. When they always have to talk or do something. If a person can’t be with you sitting silently and doing nothing from time to time, it just gets annoying.

18. Cuando son excesivamente negativos. Todos nos quejamos a nuestras parejas y compartimos nuestras emociones negativas, pero tener constantemente una actitud negativa hacia todo es demasiado.

19. When they have no clear opinions about anything. It’s okay not to have an opinion on everything, but having no thoughts at all about the world is such a turnoff.

20. Cuando hablan demasiado de sus ex. If a partner insists on discussing their past relationships and just goes on and on about them, there’s your red flag right there.

21. When your partner is that kind of person who’s willing to cause a fight intentionally because they are bored at that particular moment and that is their way of bringing a spark and passion into the relationship.

22. When they think it’s okay to call you names. I just find this to be a huge turn-off: if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.

23. When they don’t give their partner time alone. It’s okay to want to be with that special someone all the time, but if your partner gets mad because you went out with friends, or decided to watch a movie with family, that’s just a huge turnoff.

24. If they don’t have any ambitions in life. Being casual and free I get, but having no ideas and dreams about how your life should look is not attractive. I sure can’t imagine myself in your future if you can’t imagine me there.

25. If they don’t have a sense of humor and don’t know how to take a joke. Taking stuff way too seriously is not fun.

26. Cuando mastican demasiado fuerte y no tienen modales al comer o en su comportamiento en general.

27. If they are unable to express their emotions at all. Some people can be more of a closed book and that’s fine, pero el hecho de que nunca compartan contigo nada de lo que sienten hace que te sientas completamente fuera de su mundo.

28. When they don’t take care of personal hygiene. Seriously, what’s with that?

29. Cuando una persona está tan obsesionada con el dinero, o gasta demasiado para presumir o es demasiado tacaña con su dinero y nunca paga nada.

30. Cuando son aburridos. If there’s nothing about a person that’s special or out of the ordinary, I just can’t see myself being attracted to them.

31. Cuando son groseros con el personal de servicio. Esto es muy vergonzoso y hace que no quieras volver a tener una cita con ellos.

32. When your partner thinks it’s okay to make fun of others. Being a bully is not attractive.

33. When they try to make you jealous, and it’s so obvious they are doing it on purpose.