El amor unilateral no es lo que mereces
“…unrequited love does not die; it’s only beaten down to a secret place where it hides, curled and wounded. For some unfortunates, it turns bitter and mean, and those who come after pay the price for the hurt done by the one who came before.” – Elle Newmark
Dear “Whoever is reading this”,
A love that is a one-way street in which you are steering the wheel is not what you deserve. It’s not what anyone deserves.
Maybe it’s hard for you to understand and admit to yourself that you are el único en tu relación al que le importa un bledo. I get it. I’ve been there. I’ve felt that.
En IS hard, but as soon as you stop fooling yourself into believing things are great and that they couldn’t be better, it is going to be easier for you to finally understand you’re MISERABLE.
Cuanto antes te des cuenta de esto, antes te librarás del dolor paralizante del amor unilateral.
Si crees que estás atrapado en ese círculo vicioso de dar amor y no recibirlo de vuelta, sal de él y abre los ojos.
Te mereces algo mejor que eso.
El amor unilateral es una tortura.
It’s giving yourself entirely to someone who is totally indifferent. It’s the constant fear that someone will leave you because their eyes are blank, empty when they look at you.
Everyone’s eyes are windows of their souls and one simple look will tell you how they actually feel about you.
Don’t deceive yourself into thinking they care for you when you see they don’t. By doing that, you are only torturing yourself.
Hablando desde mi experiencia, sé que es duro enfrentarse al hecho de que tu relación no va a ninguna parte. Estás dispuesta a hacer todo lo que esté en tu mano para que funcione, pero, por desgracia, eres la única.
Te mereces algo mejor que eso.
El amor unilateral es desamor.
It’s seeing people are as cold as ice while you are burning up with all the love you have to give.
Tú estás dispuesto a hacer un esfuerzo adicional por ellos, mientras que ellos se niegan a dar un pequeño paso. Isn’t that selfish?
You are left with the void in your heart and there’s no one there to fill it. It’s as if they are so bored, so they decided to kill some time by being in a relationship with you.
That leaves someone crying (you) and someone smiling (them). You are the one left to cry and you know they are not worth your tears, but you still don’t give up on them and your relationship because you care too much when you shouldn’t.
Te mereces algo mejor que eso.
El amor unilateral está destruyendo tu confianza en ti mismo.
You might deny this while it’s happening, but when it’s all over, you are left broken and alone. You will probably not be able to love someone that way anytime soon.
Debido a su falta de aprecio, te quedas cuestionándote a ti mismo, “What did I do wrong? I gave him everything, why couldn’t he love me back?”
Les enviaste mensajes de texto, les llevaste a cenas románticas, les compraste regalos y les dejaste bonitas notas y todo lo que obtuviste a cambio fue un afecto lastimero que duró unos 3 segundos.
Después de eso, su indiferencia volvió a la vida. Así es como te aprecian.
Me pregunto cómo reaccionarían si probaran su propia medicina. Si hay justicia en el universo, tendrán la oportunidad de probarla, sólo para ver cómo te sentías y por lo que estabas pasando.
Por lo que a ti respecta, congela su indiferencia y aplástala porque nadie tiene derecho a hacerte dudar de ti misma.
Te mereces algo mejor que eso.
El amor unilateral es una calle de sentido único.
There is always one person who is doing all the work and the other one who lays back and enjoys. It shouldn’t be like that. The two of you should be equals. It’s the only way for a relationship to work—to grow into a life-time partnership.
You are the one who is left to choose where you are going to go on a date. You are the one who is initiating all your conversations because if it weren’t for you, uncomfortable silence would dominate.
They aren’t able to feel the awkwardness between the two of you because they couldn’t care less.
Tú eres el iniciador en esas relaciones cuando, en realidad, los dos deberíais trabajar juntos.
Te mereces algo mejor que eso.
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El amor unilateral es una obsesión.
Being in a one-sided relationship is a 24/7 job. You won’t quit because you love them and you are giving your best to prove it to them, hoping that things will change. But they won’t and somewhere deep inside, you know that, but you won’t admit it.
They have you by their side, but they don’t respect you. They don’t have a problem with making you lose your mind over the success of your relationship. They are turning you into an obsessive maniac.
Real love is not one-sided, it’s reciprocated. Save yourself the trouble if that isn’t the case in your relationship.
You will end up obsessing over the fact your relationship is getting sick and you haven’t got the cure to heal it.
Tu relación es un barco que se hunde y tienes que abandonarlo para salvarte.
Te mereces algo mejor que eso.
El amor unilateral te está haciendo perder la fe.
How can it be that one person would sacrifice anything to make a relationship work, while the other one couldn’t care less?
¿Por qué se comprometen contigo esas personas insensibles si lo único que te van a dejar es una pérdida de fe en la gente?
¿Cómo puedes confiar en alguien después de que alguien te tomara por tonto?
Tienes que reaccionar a tiempo y poner fin a la relación antes de que te paralice.
Te mereces algo mejor que eso.
El amor unilateral es una batalla.
It’s your battle—the one you are struggling with on the inside. One moment you feel you are about to win, and the next moment you are surrendering and counting your dead.
You’ve finally realized they don’t reciprocate your love, but you can’t help yourself from trying because you love them.
At the end of the day, the ball is in your court. You have the power to end it, so you won’t suffer, but do you have the guts to do it?
Claro que sí, porque tú eres mejor que eso.
