No está emocionalmente indisponible, sólo protege su corazón

Quieres acercarte a ella pero te rechaza. Quieres mostrarle afecto pero ella se asusta y huye.

And the first thing that comes to your mind is that she is emotionally unavailable. But I’m sorry to tell you that she’s anything but that!

Es una chica que ha pasado por mucho y por eso le cuesta confiar tan fácilmente en otras personas.

Ha probado el sabor amargo de sus lágrimas, ha probado el amor no correspondido y lo que se siente al no poder hacer nada.

And that is why she is no longer able to give all of herself to someone if she’s not ensured that she’s doing the right thing.

She’s not afraid of falling in love, she’s just cautious to whom she’s giving her heart.

She’s not afraid to fight with every atom of her being for the things she believes in. No, she is not afraid to fight for love.

As a matter of fact, she fought many battles before and now she’s just cautious about choosing them.

No teme enamorarse de otro corazón, sólo quiere estar segura de que su amor será correspondido.

She has learned many lessons the hard way and that is why she’s eager to protect her heart above everything else.

She’s not emotionally unavailable, she’s just protecting her heart from potential narcissists and toxic manipulators, their selfishness and lies.

She’s protecting herself from always being the one who cares more.

When she loves, she loves with all of her body and heart or she doesn’t love at all and she has paid a high price for that.

She realized that she needs to protect herself from any potential harm because if she doesn’t do so, no one will do so for her.

Se dio cuenta de que si quiere ser verdaderamente feliz, tiene que empezar a cuidar también de sí misma y no sólo de los demás.

So, don’t you dare call her emotionally unavailable or blame her for playing hard to get!

She’s not the same girl who used to wear her heart on her sleeve.

If you want to win her, you will have to fight hard to prove that you’re worthy of her.

Tendrás que luchar duro para hacer un esfuerzo en lugar de simplemente poner excusas.

If there’s one thing she got tired of, that is excuses. She can no longer afford to tolerate other people’s bullshit because she owes that much to her heart.

Ya no puede permitirse estar en deuda consigo misma porque merece ser tratada con aprecio y respeto.

And if you’re willing to be a part of her life, the only way to her heart is by fighting hard to prove to her that you’re not like the rest of them.

That you won’t make her sad, treat her for granted or make her feel less worthy.

Si te esfuerzas por hacerla sentir especial, ella lo notará.

If you make sure that you’ll always be there when she needs you, she will notice it.

Si tratas su corazón con cuidado, ella lo notará.

Y sólo entonces te creerá que tus intenciones son puras.

Te creerá cuando le demuestres amor con tus actos y no sólo con palabras.

She will decide to be fully someone’s only when her heart tells her that it feels loved and safe in their arms.

Y hasta que eso ocurra, seguirá protegiéndolo porque su corazón es lo más valioso que posee.

Las lágrimas pueden enjugarse, las noches agitadas pueden sustituirse por noches de felicidad, pero su corazón nunca podrá recuperarse por completo de todo el dolor de su pasado.

No, she’s not emocionalmente no disponible, she’s just protecting the last pieces of her broken heart so that she can be able to love again.

She’s just waiting for someone who will make her feel comfortable being vulnerable again.

Someone who will protect her heart the same way she’s protecting it now. Someone special.