Eres demasiado bueno para alguien que no está seguro de ti

When you’re looking at the ceiling now, you can see him in every crack.

You see all the effort you’ve made, you see all the rules you’ve broken to be with him. And still, he isn’t really sure if he wants to be with you.

Querida, ¿alguna vez dependió de ti?

You can’t make him be with you if everything he wants is fun and everything he’s interested in is keeping you as an option besides all those other women who are standing in line, just like you are, to see which one he’s going to pick.

¿Es justo?

Is it fair to make him your priority, when he’s just keeping you as an option? ¿Es eso lo que querrías de un hombre que significa tanto para ti?

Este es el mismo hombre que pensaste que era tu alma gemela, desde el momento en que entró en tu vida.

Te mantuvo en su vida todo este tiempo sólo para hacerte creer que eras la única, cuando eras una de tantas. Tuviste que luchar para llegar a su corazón, cuando él tomó el tuyo por asalto.

You didn’t even think twice about making him happy, showing your affection and giving him all of your attention.

¿Recuerdas cuando te desvivías por estar a su lado cada vez que te necesitaba, a pesar de que él nunca quiso estar a tu lado?

Igual que tú quieres que te quieran, pensabas que era lo mismo que él quería. Nada podía hacerte creer lo contrario.

But look around yourself, realize that it’s not like that. He made you put so much effort in without giving you anything in return.

He didn’t try to make you feel loved, he made you feel needed. Te hacía sentir necesario cada día cuando te pedía algo, cuando te hacía hacer el trabajo sucio.

He didn’t ask you to kiss him, he didn’t ask you to love him. He asked you to stand around waiting.

It’s always like this with these hombres inseguros.

They want to see women fighting for them, they want to see them suffer in his name. Don’t give him the pleasure of doing so.

Duele, lo sé, créeme, lo sé.

But when it comes to him, the man who can’t see what you’re doing for him, the man who isn’t able to make you feel loved, the man who can’t keep it in his pants, ¿por qué lloras?

You are beautiful, and there is nothing you can’t do in this world. You don’t need him to accomplish your dreams and reach your goals. You don’t need him to be happy.

Si te pide que vuelvas, la mejor forma de resistirte a él es ver la felicidad de estar sola.

La vida sin él es clara y llena de sol. Entonces, ¿de verdad quieres que él haga que tus días se nublen como antes?

¡Adelante, vete! Te mereces algo mucho mejor en tu vida, te mereces la perfección.

You deserve love and appreciation and if, for the time being, you’re the only person who can give yourself that, then you don’t need anyone else.

People are selfish and they can’t comprehend if someone is as pure as you are. You don’t deserve to stand in a row of women waiting for your turn.

Don’t bother with these people. Don’t bother with him. You’re too good for someone who isn’t sure about you.