Estar con alguien que tema perderte

Thantophobia (n. f.) fobia a perder a un ser querido

In the world of 7 billion people, it’s almost impossible to guess your soulmate. It’s impossible for you to date them all and decide who suits you the best.

But what’s possible is to find somebody who’s worthy of your time and your attention.

Puedes estar con quien quieras, pero la idea es encontrar a la persona con la que quedarte. ¿Por qué pasar por todo el proceso de dejar entrar a alguien sólo para acabar otra vez con el corazón roto?

El problema es que tienes que dejarle entrar. Tienes que estar dispuesta a desnudar tu alma delante de él.

I know it sounds scary after everything you’ve been through, but trust me on this one.

Enséñale tus cicatrices, muéstrale tus heridas y deja que las bese para que cicatricen. Puedes divertirte con cualquiera, pero ¿puedes mostrar tu verdadero yo también a todo el mundo? Yo pensaba que no.

Give up on chasing players, give up on giving time to wrong men, go for the goofy guy who’s scared to lose you. This guy is not like the rest.

The one who’s asustado de perderte nunca podrá estar enfadado contigo demasiado tiempo. Puede que se enfade por algo, pero su miedo a perderte siempre será más fuerte que su enfado.

Instead of being with someone who’s letting you go so easily, be with someone who’s scared to see you by someone else’s side.

Be with someone who can’t stand not talking to you or not knowing what is going on in your life.

Be with the guy who’d do anything to keep you, who’s proud of you and your accomplishments;
con el tipo que sabe lo que vales incluso en tus peores días.

Stay with somebody who knows your demons, but isn’t afraid of them.

Elige estar con el chico que te respeta más que nadie en este mundo y que valora tu opinión.

Keep the guy who won’t get tired of you and who’ll keep seducing you even when you are wrinkled and old. Be with the guy who’ll never get tired of telling you how beautiful you are or how much he loves you.

Make him courageous and let him fight for you—you deserve it.

You deserve someone who’d go to war just to have you by his side. Many kings fought wars to have their love. You are just as worthy of such a fight.

Forget about wasting your time on men who just see your exterior. Go for the guy who’s ready to break your walls down so he could see your scars and love you for them too.

Be with someone who kisses you wholly—your body and your soul; with someone who is proud to have you in his life and who thinks you’re the biggest blessing in his world.

For someone who’s putting you at the top of his priority list, someone who actually gives a damn for you.

Be with the guy who’s scared to lose you. With the guy who can’t imagine spending the rest of his life with anyone else but you.

With the guy who isn’t letting you go no matter how hard you push him away.

Quédate con el tipo que lucha por ti.

Because in life, it’s all about consistency. And the guy who’s afraid to lose you will never do anything to hurt you.

He won’t give you empty promises, he’ll put his money where his mouth is, and he’ll do everything in his power to make you the happiest woman alive.

The guy who’s scared to death to lose you is going to stay, for you, for him. This guy will choose you day after day, year after year, life after life. Stick with this guy.

Te mereces que te quieran como es debido, te mereces que te quieran así.

And even though he might be afraid of losing you, I can promise you that you don’t have to be afraid of losing him. He is not going anywhere.