¿Qué significa realmente su llamada ebrio? 4 posibilidades

I know it’s the call that is the most difficult not to pick up the phone on, but his late-night drunk call is probably the only one that you shouldn’t answer. Not at any price!

Ya sabes lo que dice Dua Lipa “Don’t coger el teléfonoYa sabes... he’s only callin’ ’cause he’s drunk and alone…”

Unfortunately, that’s the truth. The ONE AND ONLY TRUTH.

I know, he might be calling to say that he loves you and that he never stopped thinking about you. And all of it may be the truth but it could also be just the alcohol talking… That means another heartbreak for you once he sobers up and realizes what he has done.

Si quieres averiguar por qué tu ex sigue enviar mensajes de texto borracho or calling you, keep reading below. Also, I know that is preventing you from moving on and I’ll help you to navigate those llamadas de borrachos adecuadamente y déjalos en el pasado, junto con tu ex.

¿Qué significa que llame borracho?

Drunk dialing is really trending these days, especially among guys, right? Yeah, I know. It just seems that whenever your ex gets drunk, you’re the only person whose phone number he has in his phone and he just has to call you.

Do drunk calls mean anything? Why does he keep calling me only when he’s drunk? I know that you’re currently busting your head with these kinds of questions.

On the one hand, you know it’s not because te quiere. But, on the other hand, it also gives you a trace of hope that he isn’t totally indifferent to you.

I’m so sorry that I have to be the one to break it to you, but the most common reason for a guy’s drunk dialing is just to get into your pants.

Of course, it can also mean that he’s calling you because está enamorado de ti but doesn’t have the guts to admit it to you when he’s sober. Guys feel more relaxed and a lot more confident when they’re intoxicated. Well, to be honest, we all do.

If this is happening to you for the first time and you’re trying to make sense out of his drunk calls, scroll down for more possible reasons and explanations.

Llamadas de borrachos = Llamada de botín

The most probable thing is that this guy doesn’t love you the way you think. I hate to be the one to break it to you again, but it is likely that sólo eres conveniente para él cada vez que bebe.

Es posible que sepa que eres la única que coge el teléfono, independientemente de cuándo te llame.

You know you are the girl who won’t have any issue leaving everyone and everything behind just so you can run to see him or pick him up.

Sé que oír esto es doloroso, pero también es posible que piense en ti como su último recurso.

He probably isn’t drunk calling you to say “Te quiero“. As painful as it sounds, the most common case scenario is that he only wants to hook up with you in a random parking lot, have some one-night stand fun and he’ll forget about you till the next time he gets drunk.

Piensa en ti como su caja fuerte llamada de botín and nothing else. And while you keep answering his calls, you’ll keep giving him the right to think so.

That’s why you always have to be aware of your own worth. No matter how much you love someone, you should never ever let them treat you any worse than you deserve to be treated.

Véase también: Si un chico hace estas 10 cosas, no eres más que su reclamo sexual

You’re his ego booster

Whenever he goes out with his best friends, he probably tries to get into some girl’s pants and when he doesn’t succeed in doing so, su autoestima baja. Especialmente si sus amigos empiezan a burlarse de él.

So, he takes his cell phone and calls you because he thinks that you’ll never turn him down. He is just usándote como una inyección de ego.

He’s aware of your feelings and he’s just using them for his own benefit and, of course, to please his own needs and have some fun. And every time you answer that phone call, his ego gets boosted.

Sé que you’re head over heels for this guy and a simple phone call with him is a dream come true for you, but think about it… Do you really want to be used like that?

If you’re looking for lasting love, not a casual flip, then this guy clearly isn’t the right one for you. If he truly likes you, he would text you every single day, not just when he gets drunk and expects to get lucky.

You’re only his option, his plan B

Ustedes dos están en una especie de casi relación but it’s quite clear that you are the one who cares more.

Él es quien se niega a comprometerse and who always puts you on hold while you’ve clearly grown to love him.

Este hombre nunca te pone en primer lugar y siempre te trata como una más de sus opciones.

Rara vez da muestras de afecto o cariño hacia ti y la mayoría de las veces tienes que mendigar migajas de su atención.

Pero todo esto cambia de repente cuando bebe un poco más. De repente, se convierte en el hombre de tus sueños.

All of a sudden, he starts calling and texting you all the time. He becomes eager to see you and he tells you everything you’ve always wanted to hear.

Y con el tiempo, sus episodios de borrachera se han convertido en lo más destacado de tu vida.

You’ve started waiting for him to become like this because this is actually one of the rare times you get to enjoy this man’s love.

Just admit it, you were waiting for his phone call last night too, right? I know you did and you’ll wait for it the next day also and every other day, until one day it finally hits you and you realize that you’re so much better than that…

Que te mereces mucho más. Que te mereces un tipo de amor totalmente diferente. Que te mereces un tipo de hombre totalmente diferente, el que te amará igual tanto borracho como sobrio.

Despite it all, sometimes a drunk mind truly speaks a sober heart…

When you think about alcohol, one of the things you usually connect it with is honesty. You’ve always had the opinion that people are always the most honest when they are drunk.

After all, they don’t say ‘a drunk mind speaks a sober heart’ without any reason, right?

And it is simple—alcohol makes you become less inhibited and makes you lose a part of your self-control.

The fact is that people use alcohol as a social lubricant. This usually results in people telling more truth and saying things they usually wouldn’t when they are sober.

Esta es la teoría a la que te aferras especialmente cuando se trata de esa persona que va y viene de tu vida.

El hecho es que este hombre suele actúa con frialdad y desinterés durante el día, cuando está sobrio. Pero realmente parece que se convierte en un hombre completamente diferente una vez que reúne suficiente de ese coraje líquido. El que de repente es capaz de confesar todos sus sentimientos.

Yes, you’ve heard me well. Even though it’s such a rarity, the drunk dial can really mean an honest confession of love. But, don’t pin your hopes on his drunk dials until you get the confirmation of his confession once he sobers up.

Be honest with yourself…

¿Es esto realmente algo que quieres para ti? ¿Te hace realmente feliz este tipo de relación?

Sé que piensas obviamente tiene fuertes sentimientos por ti y este es el momento en que no tiene problemas para expresarlas.

Supones que su personalidad de borracho es en realidad su verdadero yo y que finge no quererte cuando está sobrio.

Sigues justificándolo y buscando excusas por su comportamiento. Y sus mensajes de texto y llamadas borracho en realidad se aferran a él.

Te dan un atisbo de esperanza de que este hombre siente algo de verdad por ti, pero que está haciendo todo lo posible por ocultarlo.

Well, even if this is true, it is obvious that he is a guy who isn’t capable of facing his own emotions because he needs some liquid courage to do so.

Y él es obviamente demasiado de un cobarde que te diga cómo se siente realmente cuando está sobrio.

¿Debes disculparte por marcar en estado de embriaguez?

Uh, esta es una pregunta difícil y para ser honesto, siento una gran ambivalencia sobre este tema.

Si llamaste a tu ex novia o ex novio borracho para echarle la bronca y le dijiste unas palabras feas de las que te arrepentiste a la mañana siguiente cuando se te pasó la borrachera, deberías llamarle o enviarle un mensaje de texto y pide disculpas.

Just say that you know that alcohol isn’t an excuse for behaving that way, you were drunk and weren’t aware of your actions.

You shouldn’t literally beg them to forgive you, because it’ll only make you look lamer. You should only apologize for those nasty words that you would never say to them nor to anyone else when you’re sober.

On the flip side, if you feel good and happy about your drunk dial even after you sober up, if you feel relieved after you’ve let it all out, don’t apologize.

En realidad, nunca debes disculparte a cualquiera por cualquier cosa que te haga sentir feliz y complacido.

Sólo deberías disculparte contigo mismo por haber guardado todos esos sentimientos dentro de ti durante demasiado tiempo y haber destruido tu propia salud emocional y mental.

Palabras finales

The bottom line is that your drunk dialer is not the kind of man who deserves a place in your life. You don’t need someone who will remember you only when he’s drunk.

En cambio, te mereces un hombre que te lleve de la mano con orgullo en todas las circunstancias y situaciones.

And you’ll never meet a man like this until you romper cosas con este tipo.

Sus llamadas y mensajes de texto borracho te aferran a este chico. Te dan un rastro de esperanza de que realmente te quiere y que el alcohol solo le ayuda a sacar sus emociones a la superficie.

One day, you’ll understand it all… You’ll understand that he doesn’t love you de la forma en que mereces ser amado.

You’ll understand that he isn’t and never was the right guy for you. And you won’t pick up the phone, no matter how long it keeps ringing.