Un hombre sorprendido de que su mujer no le suplicara que se quedara cuando le pidió el divorcio

Women are told that they’re too dramatic their whole life. We’re too sensitive when people hurt us, too emotional when something goes wrong, and doing too much when we’re happy. 

Por si fuera poco, los hombres solemos atribuirlo todo a nuestros síntomas del síndrome premenstrual y “that time of the month”, and even go so far as to declare us crazy. So, we end up being labeled just because they don’t know how to deal with our emotions!

Los hombres siempre esperan que las mujeres tengan rabietas por un divorcio y hagan un caos, but they don’t know that a divorce for some women is actually a blessing, not a curse.

When we finally hit rock bottom and can’t tolerate any more nonsense we calmly leave, then everyone’s surprised we didn’t show any emotions. So, who’s the crazy one here?

Divorcio inesperado

Imagine saying to someone you don’t love them anymore but then you feel hurt when they decide to leave. Some people are just incredibly entitled! 

Esto le ocurrió exactamente a una mujer que compartió su historia en Reddit para desahogarse. Al parecer, su marido llegó a casa un día y le dio los papeles del divorcio sin explicaciones. She didn’t even know why as she explains in her post:

“I read them over and asked why, he told me he was in love with somebody else, his co-worker, and wanted to marry her. I said ok and began the process of moving out.” 

Dijo que por suerte tenía su casa donde podía quedarse, así que decidió ir allí. Tras llevarse todas sus cosas, incluido todo lo que había pagado, simplemente se marchó. 

She was also smart enough to get herself a lawyer to represent her. Since she works at a law firm, her colleague agreed to help her in the process. You would think that this is where the story ends, but actually it’s just starting!

Esperaba que ella luchara por él

Aunque su marido fue quien solicitó el divorcio, resultó estar más enfadado que ella. Ella escribió:

“My husband contacted me a couple of weeks ago, angry that I had taken all of my things and moved out. He was even more angry that I didn’t have any emotional response and didn’t ‘fight for him.’ I explained that there was no use throwing a tantrum about divorce and that I take time to process things.”

Esto realmente hirió su ego así que la acusó de ser fría y empezó a insultarla in multiple ways. But it didn’t end there. 

Tras su comparecencia ante el tribunal, continuaron los insultos. No sólo la insultó, sino que le dijo que la engañaba... on him with her attorney. She finished her post by saying she’s happy she divorced him even though he now seems to regret it. What a surprise!

¡Manejó el divorcio como una jefa!

Recibir los papeles del divorcio no es una sensación agradable. Sin embargo, actuar como un loco y desesperado no te llevará a ninguna parte. If anything it can only make the other side more satisfied. That’s why it’s always interesting to see someone surprised because you didn’t react in the way they expected. 

This lady set an example of how divorce should be handled! Don’t give them the satisfaction of begging them to stay, because that’s exactly what they want.

Los usuarios de Reddit también apoyaron a la mujer diciendo she definitely broke this man’s fragile ego! Alguien comentó:

“He leaves you for someone else and then gets mad that you don’t scream and cry for him, not because he would consider changing his mind, but because he wanted the ego boost.”

Otros la elogiaron por su confianza y ella incluso respondió diciendo le llevó años tener la suficiente confianza actuar así y que sus colegas del bufete la ayudaron a fortalecerse. 

Al final de esta salvaje experiencia, también llegó a la conclusión de que he probablemente estaba celosa de su abogado. Añadió:

“My colleague is everything that my STBX is not. He has a stable job, owns a house, drives a nice car, is pretty conventionally attractive, and has confidence. I think my STBX is jealous and I didn’t realize that.”

Well, this surely explains a lot of things, don’t you think? I even wonder if there ever was a co-worker he wanted to leave her for or if it was part of his plan and intento fallido de hacerla no sólo celosa sino también desesperada y suplicante.

Or…hear me out! He was just testing the waters and nunca esperé que dijera sí al divorcio sino quedarse a su lado y tolerar su comportamiento de mierda como hacen algunas mujeres. 

¿Cuál es su opinión? ¿Debería haber reaccionado de otra manera?