Las chicas intentan cambiar a los hombres, las mujeres sólo cambian de dirección
Hay muchas diferencias entre una niña y una mujer.
One of them lies in the fact that when a girl loves a guy, she’ll do everything in her power to make him better and to transform him into the man of her dreams.
Somehow, she’ll always find a way to justify his behavior and excuse him so she can keep on loving him.
She’ll keep on giving him endless second chances, all in the hope that he’ll finally become the man of her dreams.
Of course, eventually, after wasting years on a guy who can’t be repaired, this girl sees that all of her efforts were in vain.
Se da cuenta de que fue una tonta por esperar un cambio que nunca llegaría y finalmente se da por vencida con este hombre, con el corazón destrozado en pedazos.
On the other hand, real women don’t do this. They know what they want and don’t plan on lowering their standards for anyone.
Un verdadero la mujer se aleja the moment she isn’t treated right or the moment she realizes her relationship with someone doesn’t have a future.
She isn’t ready to spend years of her life next to a man who she knows is wrong for her and she’ll always remain single until the right one comes along.
Verás, el único niño que tendrá el privilegio de ser criado por esta mujer es su hijo.
She’ll never waste years of her life trying to transform some immature guy into the grown ass man he should be by himself, simply because she knows something like this is not her duty.
Sabe que no debe pensar que es su trabajo guiarle por la vida o ser su ángel de la guarda con la misión de salvarle.
Sabe que no es su deber ser tu mamá o arreglar lo que otras chicas de tu pasado han roto.
No es su obligación enseñarte a vivir, ayudarte a aprender la diferencia entre el bien y el mal o convertirte en algo que obviamente no eres y no eres consciente de que deberías ser.
Don’t get me wrong—this in no way means that a woman like this treats her partner like she couldn’t care less about him.
No, ella te dará todo el apoyo que necesites, te empujará hacia adelante y será el viento bajo tus alas si ve que eres digno de sus esfuerzos y que eres un hombre que la merece.
Sin embargo, lo último she’ll do is fall for your potential. She won’t love all the qualities you might have and she most certainly won’t fall in love with the man you might become.
You see, she worked hard to become the woman she is today. She is a finished product and she won’t settle for a man who is any less than that.
Lo último que piensa hacer esta mujer es malgastar su energía en modificarte.
Sabe que valora mucho más que dedicar toda su vida a un tipo que necesita que la guíe por la vida.
Instead, she’ll look for a relationship in which both of you can improve and help each other become better.
What she wants and needs is an equal partner—a man who will have the capacity to give her back all he’s getting from her.
Un hombre que tendrá la fuerza para ir por la vida hombro con hombro con ella, un compañero de equipo y un socio en el crimen.
Así que, si esperas que una mujer como ella espere pacientemente a que te conviertas en el hombre que necesita, piénsatelo otra vez.
If you expect her to wait for you to come to your senses and get your shit together, walk away in time because trust me—you don’t stand a chance with her.
Cuidado con el hecho de que esta mujer sabe que su love can’t change a man until he decides to do so himself so she won’t even try doing it.
Instead, she’d rather focus all of her energy into working on herself and becoming the best possible version of herself.
Instead of loving someone unworthy of her love, she’d rather love herself.
