8 adorables razones por las que a los hombres les encantan los mimos
Los hombres son completamente iguales a las mujeres. Todos estos estereotipos sobre los hombres que odian mimos son simplemente ridículas.
Por experiencia propia, a los hombres les encantan los mimos. Cuando sienten algo por ti y les gustas, aprovecharán cada momento contigo para tocarte y... un abrazo. It’s a completely normal way of displaying affection.
On the other hand, if a guy doesn’t want to cuddle, don’t label him as ‘not a cuddling type’ because there is no such thing.
Instead of that, he is probably just not interested in you or is not yet sure where your relationship is going, so he doesn’t want to give you false hope.
So, we’ve agreed that guys love to cuddle, but do we know why? Here it goes:
Te hace sentir seguro
It is in a man’s nature be protective and by hugging you, they are showing you they care for you. They don’t want anything bad happen to you, and they are showing it by cuddling.
They want to keep you by their sides, hold on to you tightly and never let you go. In his arms, you’ll feel safe and loved, just the way he wants you to.
Se siente lo suficientemente hombre
Whether they like to admit it or not, men love control. They love to be in charge of things, and one of the things they’d love to be in charge of is your relationship.
Les gusta pensar que son los responsables de ello. Así que quieren sentirse masculinos.
They want to be the type of man you’ll come to when you feel down and sad.
They want to hold you in their arms, and tell you it’s going to be alright. They want to give you comfort when you need it.
Quiere hacerte feliz
Is there something more beautiful than a warm and nice hug at the end of a hard day? Well, that’s how much he loves you, and that’s what he wants to give you.
Quiere estrecharte entre sus brazos y abrazarte para relajarte. Quiere que te sientas protegida y te abras a él.
Cuddling is not just an ordinary thing to him. It’s a chance for you to open up in a safe space and be vulnerable without judging. It’s a chance for you to feel happy.
Quiere sentir el contacto
No sólo quiere que seas feliz, sino que quiere ser feliz él mismo.
Y tocar a alguien y establecer un contacto estrecho le proporciona precisamente eso.
El cerebro produce hormonas de la felicidad cuando se toca a una persona querida.
That’s why he has the need to cuddle with you. He wants to feel the physical contact which brings forth happy thoughts.
It’s not sex, but it’s intimate
You’d think that all guys are just about sex. Well, believe it or not, they are not.
Some guys want to show you affection, but they don’t want to insult you by taking you to bed too early.
Instead, they will cuddle because it’s another way of being intimate with the person you care about without taking your clothes off.
No hay presión
El sexo puede ser muy estresante para los hombres. Tienen que dar lo mejor de sí mismos.
They don’t want to disappoint you. Sometimes this pressure has a great impact on their performance.
Pero una de las razones por las que a los hombres les encanta abrazar es porque pueden ser ellos mismos.
Pueden disfrutar de su cercanía sin sentirse presionados. Pueden ser simplemente ellos mismos.
Puede llevar al sexo
Once again, it doesn’t have to and no pressure, but it can. If the cuddling goes one step further, than the sex is guaranteed. It all depends whether you are in the mood or not.
Pero ten en cuenta que a los hombres a los que les gusta abrazar lo hacen porque disfrutan con ello, no porque pueda conducir al sexo.
But that doesn’t mean that the possibility isn’t hanging somewhere deep in the back of their minds, just in case.
Pueden ser vulnerables
Not only are they making you feel safe and letting you be vulnerable, they are opening up to you, too. They are also being vulnerable when you’re cuddling.
They usually love to be heroes who protect and are always there when there’s trouble.
Pero en realidad, los chicos son tan vulnerables como nosotras. También son seres humanos con sentimientos. Se entristecen, se hieren.
Y mientras se abrazan, pueden compartir todas esas cosas contigo.
Si quieren, pueden abrirse y pedir consuelo. Los mimos son el momento perfecto para ello.
