No esperes a que un hombre cambie o madure porque estás frenando tu propia felicidad

Si alguna vez has estado en esta situación sabes lo duro que es.

You spend so much time together, you know the deepest part of each other, but something isn’t right and you just can’t ignore it anymore.

Te duele verle correr en círculos haciéndose daño y haciéndote daño.

You’ve tried over and over again but nothing’s ever happened.

It’s soul-crushing to know that you can’t help or change the person you love.

The same person who doesn’t love himself because he chooses destructive behavior instead of healing.

Los seres humanos tenemos una naturaleza adictiva. Para algunas personas, la negatividad también es adictiva.

Negativity comes in many shapes and forms. Sometimes it’s toxic behavior, sometimes it is constantly criticizing, sometimes it’s thoughts of despair.

Unfortunately, there’s just so much you can do.

What’s worse, often you want to help him but he refuses and hurts you in the process.

That’s when you know that the wounds are too deep and you’re neither a doctor nor a psychologist.

I’m almost sure you’ve done everything there is to change the situation but you’ve failed every single time.

Incluso cuando pensabas que las cosas iban mejor resultó que era algo temporal.

That’s no way to live.

Para progresar, el primero que tiene que esforzarse es él, no tú.

Constantly thinking about the well-being of another person makes us miserable in the end because we don’t have time for ourselves.

No se gana nada con que dos personas desequilibradas intenten mantener viva una relación.

If there’s nothing to give – it’s not a relationship.

By holding onto something that’s already dead you’re stopping yourself from experiencing happiness. Don’t let it slip through your fingers.

La felicidad favorece a los valientes. Sé valiente.

He won’t change. You won’t change that fact.

It’s better to move on and let him fight his own battles. In the end, he has to help himself.

Sometimes the problem is exactly the fact that you let him count on you all the time. That’s a sign of a dependent relationship – and that leads nowhere.

In order to make a change in life, everyone has to give up something. If he’s not ready now, he might never be.

You can’t sit and wait for better days. Why should you when you can actively live them?

Sometimes life isn’t a wild sea that throws you around, sometimes it’s just your emotions you haven’t learned to control.

Not everything is possible to control – but with a strong will, it’s possible to optimize almost everything in your life including feelings and relationships.

Don’t rob yourself of happiness. Let go of what refuses to change. Don’t be the victim of circumstances and other people’s decisions.

Not everything is as it seems now. You will move on. Things will get better. You’ll meet new people and life will go on.

Don’t do the same thing he’s doing – don’t be afraid to make a change. Step into your power and decide how you want to live your life.

Lo primero es dejar de culparse por las faltas de los demás.

Lo segundo es creer que puedes hacerlo mejor.

You can do what you set your mind to. Learn from other people’s mistakes and don’t give up.

Lo único que impide a una persona crecer es su incapacidad para adaptarse y cambiar, combinada con una baja autoestima.

Todas esas cosas tienen solución si tú quieres.

En el momento en que te das cuenta, te liberas.

“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.” – Maya Angelou