Los 10 peores errores al besar que arruinarán por completo el ambiente

¿Has notado que tu novio (o novia) se comporta de forma un poco extraña cada vez que empezáis a besaros? ¿O los demás chicos (o chicas) muestran algunos signos de no estar satisfechos con tus habilidades para besar?

A good kiss can definitely speak volumes. But sometimes when we’re really loco por esa persona, we don’t really pay attention to those little details that we definitely should.

Sometimes we become too anxious to do everything perfectly which influences us to make the worst kissing mistakes and end up looking like a newbie. To prevent all these things from happening, it is important to stay relaxed and accept the fact that no one’s perfect (but really) and you also need to be willing to improve things.

Aquí tienes una lista de los 10 peores errores al besar que arruinarán por completo el ambiente, así que ¡abróchate el cinturón!

1. 1. Mal aliento

There’s nothing worse than starting a kissing session only to realize halfway that your breath is not really that great. And worse than that is your kissing partner realizing it. You certainly don’t want him or her to think that you have poor hygiene.

So, always make sure to refresh your breath with a mint or some gum (if you can’t really brush your teeth at that moment). You can also ask your partner if they would like to have some.

2. Demasiada lengua

Many people think that the more they use their tongue, the better the effect will be. But this is totally untrue. If you use too much tongue, your kissing session will turn into a wrestling match and you really don’t want that.

Follow your partner’s movements and circle gently while exploring with your tongue around theirs. But remember not to overdo it. You don’t want your tongue all over the place.

Además, cambia de vez en cuando a besar sus mejillas o su cuello, juega con su pelo, etc. El secreto está en combinar todo lo anterior y no poner todas tus esperanzas sólo en tu lengua.

3. Sin lengua

What is worse than too much tongue? No tongue at all. If you keep your tongue still without showing any intention of moving it around, your partner might think that you’re not really interested or that they are doing something wrong.

So, don’t be afraid to move your tongue and show them how passionate and skillful you are. After all, kissing is all about exploring each other, feeling alive and enjoying every single second of it. (So, make sure that you feel that way.)

4. Rígido

It is totally okay to be stiff on your first date ever but if you do it every time you’re about to kiss someone, then you actually have a problem. Being stiff means not being able to relax and enjoy the moment, which is a huge asesino de la pasión y una buena sesión de besos.

If it will help, you can always have a drink or two to relax a little bit and then indulge in the kissing session like a pro. Also, keep in mind that kissing should come totally naturally and if you’re not feeling that comfortable while doing it, there must be a reason behind it (so consider checking what it might be).

If it is linked with low confidence, you shouldn’t worry about that because after learning some tips and tricks, you will become a kissing pro in no time.

5. Sin manos

Imagina a dos personas besándose, con las manos flácidas o a la espalda. La gente olvida a menudo que besar no consiste sólo en que la lengua y la boca establezcan una conexión. Incluye todos los movimientos corporales y cuantas más partes del cuerpo incluyas, mayores serán los resultados.

While kissing, you should always remember to use your hands to touch their face, shoulder, hair or something else (if you’re ready to get steamier with them). Whatever you do with your hands, you can’t do it wrong because the only mistake you could make is if you don’t use your hands at all.

6. Demasiada saliva

Vaya. ¿Alguna vez has besado a alguien con la boca llena de saliva y has pensado que te ahogarías en su boca como lo hizo el Titanic en el océano? Demasiada saliva puede ser realmente repulsivo a la hora de besar porque nadie quiere nadar en tu boca en lugar de besarte.

Para evitar que esto ocurra, siempre debes tragar el exceso de saliva antes de empezar a besar. Así mantendrás la boca perfectamente hidratada y no tendrás que preocuparte nunca más por el exceso de saliva.

7. Mirar espeluznantemente

Aunque es recomendable y deseable mirarse a los ojos todo lo que se pueda porque, al fin y al cabo, los ojos son las ventanas de nuestra almahacerlo de una forma espeluznante podría asustar a tu pareja.

Don’t just stare at them creepily like you’re going to kill them every second. When you look them in the eyes, smile lightly and wait for them to smile back at you. Make sure that everything you do feels natural because that’s the safest bet.

8. Labios agrietados

No one wants to kiss a person whose lips are chapped because it just doesn’t feel nice. In times when there are hundreds of different lip balms on the market, there is really no excuse for having chapped and non-moisturized lips.

Asegúrate de llevar siempre un poco de bálsamo labial en el bolsillo (especialmente durante los días de invierno) y demostrarás a tu pareja lo cariñoso que eres. Además, cuando empecéis a besaros, hidratarás también sus labios y será una base perfecta para un apasionado y... sesiones de besos apasionados.

9. No poder respirar

Cuando beses a alguien, recuerda que tú también necesitas respirar (y que tu pareja también necesita un poco de aire). Cuando uno se excita demasiado, es fácil olvidarse de esto, así que nunca hay que tener prisa a la hora de besar. Haz pausas de vez en cuando para respirar un poco de aire fresco.

10. Chicle

This one is negotiable. There are some people who like to kiss while having bubble gum in their mouth but there are some people who really don’t like that idea. Some people are appalled by the fact that the bubble gum has probably collected all the stains from your teeth and now you’re sharing it with them. So, it is always wise to check with your partner first if they comfortable with ‘gum kissing sessions’.