No la pongas en segundo lugar si ella siempre te pone a ti primero

Let’s face it, you are a guy, and like many others you are not really the one seeing her point of view. If you think I am wrong, you can just stop reading this, but I advise you not to.

You will find a lot of interesting things in this particular article, so let’s start.

¿Cuántos hombres odian ir de compras con ella, hacer tareas domésticas o ayudarla a elegir el vestido perfecto?

The real and disappointing answer is too many. There are some men excluded and you might be one of them, but if you aren’t, I shall tell you a few things about women.

Women are beautiful, strong, and independent beings, yet very fragile. Even though they are presented this way, it doesn’t mean they are there to do your work for you.

Women are more than capable of doing everything you’re capable of doing, but put simply, it’s kind of a gents way for you to help them out. And if you help them out, they will appreciate it—trust me.

Dude, let’s face it, when los días come, it’s really tough for both of you to deal with the mood swings, but you are not the one in pain. Help her out, make her dinner, buy some sweets, cuddle her.

She would do the same if you were ill, and we all know how guys get when they’re ill. Do your part of the chores and do hers as well when she needs you to. And don’t ever let her do things alone.

Nunca dejes que se sienta sola. Nunca la hagas sentir que no tiene a nadie a su lado.

One day, she could be your wife and the mother of your children. And you can’t expect a healthy marriage if she feels alone when she’s with you.

¿Cómo puedes estar ahí, aunque no estés? How can she feel she has a place in your life even when you’re away from her? It’s easy; before you go away, she needs to know that she is your special one.

Instead of just saying it, prove it. Show her that you’re always there with her.

Si vas a algún sitio, no hay mejor manera de demostrar tu afecto que con un abrazo fuerte y largo o un beso muy suave en la mejilla. Cualquier caricia dice más que las palabras.

Se sentirá querida, segura y, lo más importante, no estará sola. Y si te vas por trabajo o de viaje, se quedará con la sensación de que la llevas en el corazón vayas donde vayas.

Entonces no te molestará con celos, no te llamará mil veces durante la noche ni te dará rabietas. Sabrá que es la única en tu vida.

Think about where you stand in her life. She always puts you first, so don’t gamble with that.

Ahora que eres un ganador al cien por cien por estar en lo más alto de su lista de prioridades, no hay necesidad de probar suerte intentando conectar con otra chica.

Pero existe la necesidad de tratarla de la misma manera, existe la necesidad de ponerla en primer lugar porque se lo merece.

Ponla primero . No en segundo lugar. ¿Quieres oír una historia de un chico que pone a una chica en primer lugar?

Mejor aún, ¿quieres vivir esa historia? Hay finales felices también en los cuentos de hadas.

You could be her Prince Charming. Call her sometimes just to hear her voice, to see how her day is going and how she’s feeling. Surprise her as much and as often as you can, she doesn’t need much to be happy anyway.

Regálale una flor, escríbele una pequeña carta de amor, cómprale comida, compra una botella de vino sólo para vosotros dos. Y cuando estés con ella, mírale a los ojos, observa cómo se mueven sus labios, disfruta de las pequeñas cosas.

Listen to her even if she’s talking about the same thing for the hundredth time, or even if she’s being silly. By giving your attention, you’re showing your affection.

Never, but never, let her struggle on her own. If you can’t help her, at least be by her side. Support her and my friend, that’s the way to a happy ending.

Póngala a ella en primer lugar y todo lo demás encajará.