No salgas con ella si no puedes comprometerte con ella

Don’t date her if you can’t stay loyal. Y no me refiero sólo a acostarse con otras chicas.

Te digo que no estés con ella si piensas vivir la vida de soltero, si piensas ver a tu ex o piensas hablar con otras chicas en todas esas aplicaciones de citas.

Don’t do it if you plan on texting other girls or flirting with them. Don’t be with her if you are looking for a meaningless, casual fling or a no strings attached relationship because this is something she won’t settle for.

Don’t do it if you aren’t ready to put an effort in. If you don’t plan on making compromises and making this work.

Don’t date her if you are not aware of the fact that every healthy relationship is a two-way street. If you expect her to be the only one trying and the only one making all the sacrifices.

Porque estar en un relación unidireccional es lo último que hará esta chica.

Don’t date her if you plan on making promises you can’t fulfill. Si planeas mentirle o engañarla.

Don’t do it if you’ll promise her a future together just so you could get into her pants.

Don’t be with her if you’ll take her for granted. If you won’t appreciate her value and if you won’t see her true worth.

Don’t do it if you plan on using every opportunity to diminish her or to insult her in any way. If you’ll use her as an ego booster or someone to heal your insecurities.

Don’t date her if you plan on playing mind games with her. Si planeas actuar como un tipo duro que se hace el difícil.

No, she won’t beg for your love and attention. And she definitely won’t chase you.

Because trust me—she’ll see right through you. She’ll see what you are trying to do and she’ll beat you at your own game.

Don’t enter her life if you plan on leaving and coming back whenever you feel like it. Because you should think again if you assume that she’ll patiently wait for you to come crawling back.

Don’t waste her time if you count on her giving you endless second chances. Remember—you only have one chance not to screw things up with this girl.

You only have one strike and if you blow it, she will walk away from you and she’ll never look back.

Don’t tell her you love her if you’ll only give her la mitad de tu corazón. Don’t make her believe in your love if you won’t let her in completely.

Because you’ll lose her the moment she sees what you are doing. And you’ll regret it more than anything.  

Don’t string her along if you don’t plan on putting her first and if you plan on putting her at the bottom of your priority list.

Porque no es el tipo de chica que se queda en casa esperando a que te acuerdes de que existe.

She is not a girl you can go to when everyone else leaves you hanging or when your schedule clears up. She is not a girl who will settle being someone’s second choice.

Don’t date her if you’ll break her. Porque parece mucho más dura de lo que es en realidad. Sí, la verdad es que es una badass.

But trust me—tiene un corazón blando. Although she doesn’t show this, she is actually a vulnerable and sensitive girl who has been through a lot.

So, if you don’t think that you can fully commit to her or if you don’t think you can give her the love she deserves, don’t even try entering her life.

If you think that a serious, loyal relationship is not your thing, don’t even try anything with this girl.

Don’t raise her hopes up just so you could crush them. Don’t make her fall for you just so you could shatter her heart into pieces once she sees the real you.

Aléjate a tiempo, antes de que sea demasiado tarde.