Nunca serás demasiado para un chico que no se cansa de ti

Los chicos van y vienen, pero un hombre de verdad se queda, incluso cuando todo le dice que no lo haga.

Me tomó un mar de hombres equivocados...chicos inmaduros y absolutos imbéciles que pretendían ser hombres de verdad para darse cuenta de algunas cosas sobre el amor.

Cosas que antes eran tan poco claras y vagas.

Cosas que solía ignorar para hacérmelo más fácil cuando me dejaban.

¿Sabes esas mentirijillas que te dices a ti mismo después de una ruptura de mierda para poder superarla con más tranquilidad?

Cosas como, “Oh, it was my fault, I was being way too overbearing and needy,” o, “I should kick it down a notch with the next guy, or I’ll asustarlo just like this one.’”

¿Y sabes qué? Yo solía ser así.

Solía creer que siempre era yo.

Me dije que o bien pedía demasiado o que simplemente estaba siendo demasiado para el tipo.

¡Como si pedir amor y esfuerzo fuera algo de lo que avergonzarse!

Guess what? It’s not!

I got so sick and tired of selling myself short for weak-ass boys who weren’t man enough to handle a real woman!

 

Así que finalmente decidí que ya era suficiente.

I’m done taking a blow every time.

I’m done pinning the blame on myself for everything.

If I’m at fault, I’ll be the first to admit it but I’ll be damned if I’ll ever let a guy make me feel like I am too much of a woman.

No, eso ya no funciona.

What I’ve come to realize is very simple.

You can NEVER be too much for a guy who can’t get enough of you!

If that’s what it feels like, honey, I’ve got news for you… You’re with the wrong man!

El hombre adecuado nunca te haría sentir como una carga.

The right man would never make you feel like you can’t be yourself around him.

Y el hombre adecuado seguro que nunca se aburriría de ti.

Porque cuando amas a alguien, y quiero decir realmente love someone… you don’t get tired of them.

You don’t just decide that you’ve had enough of them for the day.

That’s not love, that’s convenience.

 

And that’s something you should never, ever settle for.

Take it from a girl who’s settled for ‘convenient’ one too many times.

When you find your one, trust me, he’s going to make you feel it.

Todo será diferente. Lo que sentiste con todos esos chicos no se te volverá a pasar por la cabeza.

This man will know how to treat a woman he loves—a real woman.

This man won’t be able to get enough of you.

Incluso en los días en que una mala racha and you’re falling out, he will always make sure you know he loves you regardless.

A real man will always text you goodnight so that you know you’re not alone.

Un hombre de verdad nunca te dejará irte a la cama sola, pensando que todo se está desmoronando.

Aquí nadie vive en una burbuja.

We’re all aware that shit happens and relationships take so much work and effort.

But when it’s with the right guy, you’ll never feel like you’re being too much or that everything’s your fault.

He won’t let you!

And that’s the only acceptable type of relationship you should get into.

Don’t let those immature boys who still live off their parents dictate your feelings.

 

Don’t let them take away your confidence or self-worth.

You’re way too strong and powerful to let anyone get you down like that.

Conoce tu valor. Conoce tu fuerza.

Once you do, you’ll see this for yourself.

A el hombre que te ama te amará a TODA.

He’ll love your chatty personality and your openness.

He’ll love your little jealous outbursts because he’ll know it only means you care.

He’ll love the way you need to know he got home safe.

He’ll love the way you hug him and don’t let go for what feels like forever every time you’re apart for a few short days.

And that’s because a real man knows what love entails.

And it’s all the messiness, craziness and jealousy.

And he’s totally fine with that because he knows that YOU are worth every second of it.

And that feeling is something you’ll hold precious in your heart.

It’s not about everything being perfect all the time.

It’s about knowing you can be your true, unedited self around him and still feel so freaking loved.

It’s about taking a leap of faith because you know he’s going to hacer que valga la pena.

 

So next time you feel the need to be less chatty, less opinionated and less censored in front of a guy—just leave.

A man who can’t get enough of you will never let you put yourself down like that.

You’re either your raw, authentic self or you’re out the door.

It’s up to him.

And trust me—a real man will make the right choice.