No pasa nada si quieres que te adoren, te lo mereces

Crecemos pensando que querer ser adorados es algo muy egoísta.

We are being taught that it’s wrong to think of ourselves as someone who is wonderful enough to be loved and appreciated to the point where someone actually puts in effort to keeping us around.

There is this misconception that if we want to be loved we need to be humble and act like we don’t know our own worth, so that we don’t scare off someone we’re interested in.

Pero, ¿por qué es así?

People get offended the moment you tell them that you know how good you are at what you’re doing or if you tell someone that you are a true catch. It’s like we automatically lower their worth, when in fact it’s nothing like that.

Si quieres que te adoren, no hay nada malo en ello. ¿Quieres saber por qué? Pues porque te lo mereces.

You deserve to be treated with the utmost respect someone can give you and you should be someone’s priority.

You aren’t looking for something impossible, but rather something every single woman on this planet should have in a relación cariñosa y atenta.

Te mereces que tu pareja te llame cada mañana para desearte un feliz día.

If you’ve been mad at your partner and he comes knocking on your door to ask for your forgiveness, don’t feel bad because he did; he’s just making up for what he did wrong.

Te mereces todo el cariño que alguien pueda mostrarte, porque tú también te entregas.

Haces todo lo posible por hacer feliz a tu pareja y mereces que te trate igual.

You love your partner to the point where you would do anything for him to be happy, so wanting the same in return isn’t selfish.

Yo, como cualquier otra mujer, quiero ser adorada.

Throughout the years, I’ve always considered myself not good enough for that because those women who are adored are these wonderful fairy-like creatures.

They are so beautiful that my low self-esteem didn’t let me see my own beauty, which led to me doing unbelievable stuff to please my partner and to make him feel loved and adored, when he wouldn’t do anything for me.

If you’re giving yourself away this much, you really do need to see your own value to get the same amount of affection, love and attention in return.

Pero, ¿qué hacer? if you’re not adored by the man que significa tanto para ti? Déjalo ir. Te mereces algo mejor.

You deserve all the best things in this world of ours and if he can’t provide you with them, then it’s not your fault.

He simply can’t see what a catch you actually are and that is what makes him not worthy of your time and energy.

Don’t just sit around waiting for it to change.

Eres una mujer fuerte y maravillosa, lo que significa que puedes quererte lo suficiente, hasta que aparezca alguien y vuelvas a sentirte lo suficientemente segura.

Sólo permítete darte cuenta de estas cosas y saber que eres todo lo que alguien puede necesitar y desear, sin ninguna duda en tu propia capacidad para crecer cada día y convertirte en alguien a quien los hombres correrán detrás, porque ya eres todo lo que quieres ser y los hombres te adorarán, en el momento en que decidas adorarte a ti misma.