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When people tell you to ‘move on’ it sounds so easy. Like it’s something that could be done overnight. They make it sound like a magic trick, you just wish for that person to disappear out of your life and they just do. They make it sound like moving on is all about walking away from them and erasing todas esas emociones you had for that special someone, when in actuality it’s nothing like that. Moving on isn’t about not loving someone anymore!
Seguir adelante es muy duro. Puede que quieras apresurarte, puede que quieras que todo el dolor desaparezca ahora mismo, pero déjame decirte que no se trata de eso. Así que salva tu corazón roto de romperse una vez más, salva tus ojos de llorar y sálvate a ti mismo de este concepto erróneo que ha sido puesto en tu vida sin que tú lo consintieras.
Moving on is about still being able to say that you love someone, saying that you regret the things that you have done wrong, saying that you would love for things to have turned out in a different way, but still not wanting to go back. This is what moving on truly is because you’re able to say:
“I still love you but you do not deserve me because you weren’t able to treat me right!”
It’s that feeling of melancholy that makes you remember your heartbreak the moment you realized that they didn’t love you as purely as you loved them. Seguir adelante de esa sensación mágica cuando sabes que has sido lo suficientemente fuerte como para alejarte de alguien que te era tan sumamente querido y sigues poniendo un pie delante del otro mientras te alejas, tan lejos como puedes.
That’s why you should feel sad about not having them in your life anymore. They were there, by your side when you needed them the most, and now they simply do not deserve to be there and hold your hand any longer. You have put too much time and effort into this person and their love that now you have for yourself is a much bigger priority to you than they are.
It is better this way. It’s better for you to stop something at the right time instead of waiting para que cambie y convenciéndote de que algún día todo será como debe ser, aunque no veas que esa persona haga nada por mejorar y demostrarte su cariño y afecto. So why stay any longer and try to fix something that’s broken beyond repair?
Just because something ends, doesn’t mean that it should have never happened. You loved in a way that you didn’t think to be possible. You loved him so purely, so kindly and gently. You loved him like you never loved anyone before him and that was your success because you were able to look past everything and still love him. He has taught you a lesson. He has made you stronger, because he made you come to these conclusions and make these decisions. It should have happened just the way it did.
So do not beat yourself up about the fact that you still love him. Your heart is big enough to hold the love you have for him inside. It doesn’t mean that you should hate yourself for doing so, it means that you will just need more time. Lo amas. y lo amarás por un poco más de tiempo, pero eso está completamente bien.
Fuiste capaz de alejarte de un hombre al que amabas. I can’t even describe how impressed I am! I love the way your strength has increased, so do not stop here! Keep on walking, keep on building a road that leads away from him. One day you can say that you have let go for sure.
Pero por ahora, seguir adelante sin dejar de amarle es suficiente. No te presiones. No te culpes. No te sientas mal por amarle. Simplemente tienes un pasado que te hace seguir pensando en él y eso está muy bien. Acéptalo y deja que te inspire para seguir caminando.
