Perdónese por amar a la persona equivocada

If you don’t hold grudges against anyone, why are you holding them against yourself? If you’re able to forgive the people around you for doing things unintentionally, why can’t you forgive yourself? You didn’t know he was going to hurt you.

You didn’t know he would take you for granted. You didn’t know!

Así que perdónate por enamorarse de la persona equivocada.

No one will tell you that they’re messed up when they meet you. No one will tell you all about their faults, flaws or demons when they meet you.

And no one will tell you that their love is not the love for you. And there’s no way knowing if you don’t give it a chance.

And I know that you hate yourself for giving the wrong people chances, I know you’re angry with yourself for staying with the wrong people.

But you’re not a quitter and you never have been. When you love, you love wholeheartedly. And when you choose someone, you do it every single day with your entire being.

And that’s what makes you so special, that’s what makes you so amazing.

Nunca dejes que las personas equivocadas te quiten eso, porque las correctas están a la vuelta de la esquina de tu desamor.

Perdónate por confiar en las personas equivocadas.

Nunca sabes quién jugará con tu confianza y quién la mantendrá a salvo. Nunca sabes quién te respetará por confiar en él y quién te tratará como a un tonto.

But imagine how sad and lonely your life would’ve been if you had pushed everyone away and held it all inside yourself.

Imagine how pressured you would have felt and how fed up you would’ve been. Let it all go and let it all out.

Siempre habrá personas que te demostrarán que la confianza es complicada, pero también habrá personas que te demostrarán que they’re worthy de su confianza.

Perdónate por dejar entrar a la gente equivocada.

Cuando dejas entrar a alguien, confías en que mantendrá a salvo tu corazón. Cuando dejas entrar a alguien, le dejas ver las partes más profundas y oscuras de ti.

And sometimes it doesn’t work out. Sometimes they don’t know how to hold you, sometimes they don’t know how to share silence with you. And sometimes they don’t want to learn.

Pero habrá gente que se sentirá honrada de abrazarte por la noche. Habrá personas que tendrán el honor de amarte y escuchar los latidos de tu corazón.

Habrá alguien que te bese en la frente y sentirás como si te besara el alma.

Alguien que verá todos tus defectos y los besará de todos modos. Alguien que te ayudará a recoger todos tus pedazos rotos y a besarlos juntos. Perdónate a ti mismo por dejar entrar a las personas equivocadas, para que puedas dar una oportunidad a las correctas.

Perdónate por amar a la persona equivocada.

I know it hurts, I know you feel stupid for loving someone so bad. I know you’re angry for letting yourself fall for someone so shallow and mean. But you didn’t know. And don’t let him hurt you any longer.

Don’t let his toxic words poison you any longer. Let them go, let him go. Forgive yourself for loving an idiot, because it taught you something much more valuable.

It taught you that it’s not love if it hurts. It taught you that there is a bunch of assholes out there who are only interested in playing with your emotions and heart.

Te enseñó que hay psicópatas, fuckboys and shit-boys who don’t know how to love. But just because they don’t know how, it doesn’t mean you’re not worth it.

So, don’t deny yourself the chance of meeting someone who will be everything you ever needed and everything you never thought you needed, because you’re still mad at yourself.

Don’t let all those idiots from your past chase away your happiness.

Déjalos donde pertenecen y préndele fuego a todo. Te mereces más que estar atrapado en el pasado con las personas equivocadas.

Look to the future with the right ones. Even if you have to be the One for yourself, it’s still better than lost in the past.