Puedes perdonarle, pero no dejes que vuelva a entrar en tu vida

A veces, es necesario que te hagan daño y que tu corazón se rompa en mil pedazos para darte cuenta de algunas verdades duras tanto en el amor como en la vida.

It’s not always easy seeing things for what they are as you’re going through them.

El amor tiene una forma de afectar a las personas y hacer que hagan la vista gorda ante cosas que tienen delante.

You’re not alone if love has sometimes made you feel like a total fool and completely bajó sus estándares.

No eres la única que pone excusas a tipos que no se lo merecían lo más mínimo.

We all think we’d never do it, but then life happens and catches you off guard…

But what’s important here is to realize that you’re only human. You’ve made mistakes, you’ve had errors in judgment, and it’s likely you’ll do it again.

¿Pero adivina qué más? Yo también, y un millón de mujeres más.

Recuerda de vez en cuando que nadie es perfecto, y que nadie espera que tú lo seas.

You try your best and sometimes, it just isn’t enough. You’ll pick el tipo equivocado and he will turn your life upside down before you’ve even realized what happened.

Será un capullo, te tratará como a una mierda e incluso puede que te engañe.

He won’t see your value and he’ll take advantage of your big heart and kind, forgiving soul.

Te hará llorar en tu cama a solas, sólo para que pongas tu mejor cara por la mañana,

And that’s on him. Remember that. His shitty actions say nothing about you and everything about him!

La forma en que te trata es una mierda por su parte, pero tú puedes elegir cómo reaccionar ante ello.

Being able to forgive someone for treating you like shit when they’re not even sorry takes a big person.

Only a huge heart can forgive someone who doesn’t regret their actions and shows no remorse.

Sometimes, forgiveness is really all about you. It’s not about letting him back into your life, but rather for your healing process and ability to move forward.

You need to forgive him for everything he’s done wrong in order to be able to truly déjalo ir y avanzar en una dirección más positiva.

A direction that doesn’t involve him.

Just because you’re finally ready to feel okay again does not mean you’re ready to go back to him. It’s actually the opposite.

Once you’ve been able to truly forgive him, you’ll feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off your shoulders.

Tu alma volverá a sentirse libre y ya no estarás agobiado por la ira y el arrepentimiento constantes.

Ya no estarás impulsado por tu deseo de vengarte, sino que avanzarás haciendo borrón y cuenta nueva.

And that’s what forgiveness is all about. It doesn’t make you weak and it doesn’t mean you’re a pushover.

It means you’ve finally reached a point where your inner peace has transcended any need for vengeance and bitterness.

And once you’ve achieved this, life will feel meaningful again.

Por fin verás la luz al final del túnel y recuperarás las ganas de vivir.

But don’t make the mistake of having this newfound sense of peace let you invite him back into your life!

Close that door, and never open it again. Just because you’ve forgiven him doesn’t mean you forgot about all the crap he put you through.

Claro, ahora puedes vivir libremente sin que esto te pese, pero tampoco quieres volver a dejar que te afecte tan profundamente. Una vez fue más que suficiente.

So leave this mistake behind. He belongs in the past. You’ve learned your lesson, you’ve healed, and you’ve grown from this.

Y el único camino ahora es hacia arriba. Ya no hay nada que te retenga, así que no mires atrás.

No dejes que vuelva a atraparte. Tu gran corazón no puede soportar tantos desengaños.

Cuando tu vida haya dado un giro a mejor, concéntrate en mantenerla así.

It’s not going to be easy and it’s going to require a lot of willpower and strength on your part.

Every time you’re tempted to call or text him, remind yourself of what he did to you.

Tú eres la única que sabe cómo te hizo sentir y cómo te afectó.

Don’t let anyone else tell you how to feel or what you should do. That’s entirely on you.

Once you get this far, don’t let this newfound freedom escabullirse. Deja el pasado donde pertenece y céntrate en crearte un futuro prometedor.

Now you know what you’re capable of – that should be motivation enough to keep going and not lose faith in love.

One bad guy doesn’t mean there’s more to come. For all you know, there could be the perfect man waiting for you just around the corner.

If you don’t give it a shot, you’ll never know. So close all doors you know you never want to open again and let your future keep you positive and hopeful.

Perdona, pero nunca olvides. Cura, pero nunca te dejes destrozar de nuevo.

You’ve learned your lesson the hard way, so let it keep you away from the one causing it in the first place.

You’re on a new path, and it has no room for old mistakes and broken promises.

You’re a new woman and you deserve your happy ending. So keep moving forward and don’t settle for anything less!