11 señales de que eres su prioridad

A menudo nos preguntamos qué lugar ocupamos en la vida de alguien y cuánto le importamos realmente.

Nobody wants to be an option and somehow we’d all like to be a priority to the people who we care about the most.

Porque resultar ser el último de la lista de los que están a la cabeza de la tuya apesta.

In case you’re wondering where you stand in the life of certain people and how much you mean to them, we bring you 11 signs that will answer your question and show you if someone treats you like their priority.

1. He’s never late

Hay excusas legítimas para llegar tarde, pero a veces, si una persona siempre llega tarde, eso te dirá qué lugar ocupas en su lista de prioridades; por lo tanto, no muy alto, por desgracia.

When you’re important to someone, they’ll never leave you waiting for them and they’ll respect your time by trying to show up at the agreed time.

2. Recuerda las ocasiones especiales

It’s not always about some enormous and expensive gifts, sometimes even the smallest ones can tell you how much you mean to them.

If they pay attention to important dates, if they never forget things that are important to you and if they always try to show up when you need them and they make an actual effort, it means you’re pretty important to them.

3. Nunca te decepciona

If you’re important to someone then they’ll know what not to do in order to not make you sad or decepcionado.

If someone makes you feel bad and doesn’t even bother to acknowledge it or at least apologize, then I’m afraid you’re not that important to them.

But if someone is making an actual effort to meet your expectations and to make you happy, to do the things that you love, then you must keep in mind that you’re high on their priority list.

4. Lo siente de verdad cuando meten la pata

¿Cuántas veces te ha pasado que metes la pata sin querer? ¿Que por alguna circunstancia haces algo que hiere a una persona que quieres?

We’ve all been there, but messing up doesn’t mean that someone doesn’t care about you.

Si una persona mete la pata y lo lamenta de verdad, si se disculpa y hace un esfuerzo adicional para que le perdones, significa que valora tu presencia en su vida y quiere que sigas ahí.

5. Se esfuerza por satisfacer tus necesidades

When you’re high on someone’s priority list, you’ll notice that they nos esforzamos por satisfacer sus necesidades.

Of course, it’s almost impossible to meet your needs all the time, but you’ll see how hard they’re trying.

If there is something that is bugging you and you speak about it, a person who truly cares for you will try to meet your needs and actually listen to what you’re saying.

6. Te dedica tiempo

Dr. Steve Maraboli said: “When someone tells you they’re busy, it’s not a reflection of their schedule, but your spot in their schedule.”

Know that when someone is making a spot for you, regardless of how mad their schedule is or if they’re willing to pause whatever they’re doing just to hear you out, you’re pretty important to them.

7. Hace planes

Not only that they don’t bail on you last minute, but they also don’t make plans with you last minute.

Sometimes making plans last minute is something really spontaneous, but in most cases, it’s a sign you’re their last resort and everyone else has already bailed.

Si una persona hace planes contigo y realmente los cumple sin cancelarlos en el último minuto (no es algo que veamos a menudo, por desgracia) es una obviedad. señal de que te quieren en su vida y quieren mantener los planes que hicieron contigo.

8. Presta atención a lo que dice en una discusión

No importa lo acalorada que se ponga la discusión o el tema de la misma, nunca decir algo para herirte deliberadamente.

They won’t use ugly words to bring you down or anything like that to make you feel bad about yourself.

Even though it’s hard to hold back in an argument, they always watch what they say and keep your feelings in mind.

9. Nunca deja pasar las cosas tan fácilmente

In a heated argument or in an endless discussion, they never say, “Whatever.”

Nunca hacen ver que lo que sientes o lo que ocurre es irrelevante para ellos.

And when you reply with just a short, “OK”, they never assume everything is okay.

They don’t let things go so easily and they always continue talking until the problem is completely solved.

They always want to make sure you’re really okay.

10. Te sientes importante para él

Independientemente de quiénes sean o qué estén haciendo, sabes que nada ni nadie podría sustituir tu lugar en su vida.

They make sure you know you’re one of a kind and that you’re special to them.

You feel like an important part of their life and they’ve shown you that you’re not replaceable.

11. Siempre está ahí cuando lo necesitas

You know you can count on them no matter what. They constantly tell you how much you mean to them and they’re in it till the end.

You know you’re someone’s priority when they answer your 2 a.m. call as fast as those 2 p.m. calls.