5 señales de que es algo más que un rollo de una noche

Son muy pocas las personas que tienen la capacidad emocional necesaria para tener una aventura de una noche.

Especialmente las mujeres, porque tendemos a enamorarnos de cualquiera que nos preste atención y nos olvidamos del hecho de que a veces recibimos esa atención de un hombre simplemente para que se meta en nuestros pantalones.

We’ve all found ourselves in that awkward situation where we continued to text a person with whom we’ve had sex, not seeing the signs that he is not interested in us anymore.

Para evitar estas situaciones, hay algunas señales que demuestran que para él eres algo más que un rollo de una noche y que también ha desarrollado verdaderos sentimientos hacia ti.

Te manda un mensaje

Most of the time, you will only get silence from a man whom you’ve hooked up with.

After that one night with you, he probably doesn’t want to stay in contact with you, simply because he wants to avoid awkwardness.

Because, hey, it was only sex for him, with no strings attached. So when he really does text you the next morning, it means that you made him think about you and the night you’ve spent together, so it was more than just sexual pleasure.

If that message is more than, “Thanks, it was fun,” and if he sends you a good morning text, it means that you’ve made an impression. It shows that he’s interested in you.

Menciona una segunda cita

He tells you that he wants to see you again. He even makes plans and tells you before he goes out the door the next morning that he’s looking forward to seeing you again.

Creo que el mensaje aquí es muy claro. Le gustas. Quiere llevarte a una cita de verdad para conocerte mejor. ¿Quién sabe?

Maybe he wants the same as you do—a meaningful relationship. Also, if the sex was great, he can’t get enough of you.

He doesn’t block you on social media

If he doesn’t mind having you on his Friends List after the hook-up, he does want to have you in his life.

If he blocks you, you know it’s over, and he won’t ever have to see your face again and he’s good with that.

But in case he doesn’t block you or even more than that, he adds you on Facebook (if he didn’t already have you there) then he wants to stay in contact after that. Cualquiera de estas son señales de que realmente te quiere en su vida.

Te dice sus intenciones de inmediato

Men don’t like to play around, so he will, most probably, spill the beans.

Si te quiere más de una noche, te lo demostrará con su comportamiento; te preparará el desayuno y te besará en la frente.

He won’t even make you think twice about his intentions and that’s what makes him so lovable and it shows that his intentions are good.

If he avoids the topic and is very awkward about it then it’s not likely that you two will continue to a relación seria.

Te invita a su casa

This is whether it’s for the first night that you hooked up or if some days have passed and he has invited you to come to his house.

Aunque sólo quiera follarte, estás allí con él, tienes el privilegio de comer su comida, usar su baño y ver la televisión juntos.

It’s the perfect setup where you can make him see how wonderful you are.

Si un hombre te deja entrar en su espacio privado, debes ser consciente de que eres muy especial para él.

It’s kind of weird what we are ready to do to impress a guy after a one-night stand, but the important thing here is that we don’t rush it. You need to remember that if it’s not meant to be, you can’t do much about it.

Actually, you can’t do anything about it if a guy doesn’t want you to be in his life.

If all he wants is sex, why would you want to be loved only under the sheets? It’s not worth your time. It’s not worthy of your love.