8 errores que comete la gente cuando se da cuenta de que su relación va mal, en lugar de limitarse a terminarla

Todos deberíamos ser conscientes de que no todas las relaciones están destinadas a durar para siempre.

Sometimes you’ll realize that your relationship isn’t going the way you wanted it to and the only thing to do, la única opción razonable para ustedsería ponerle fin de inmediato.

Yes, that might hurt your partner but trust me, if you drag it out some more and pretend that everything’s okay, you’ll hurt them even more.

Here are some things, some very wrong things, that people do when they realize that their relationship isn’t the real deal.

Lo único que consiguen así es herir profundamente a su pareja.

Empiezan a evitar a su pareja

They don’t want to open up to their partner and speak directly about their problems, so they don’t know how to behave around them.

Piensan que evitar a su pareja es su única opción.

They want to seem distant to their partner as they think that is going to make them break up with them first and that they’ll be less hurt.

It’s so wrong. La comunicación honesta es siempre la mejor opción para todos.

El juego de las culpas ha comenzado

Empiezan a culpar a su pareja y, de alguna manera, siempre ganan. Con cada desacuerdo o problema en su relación, empiezan a culpar a su pareja.

They never want to admit when they have made a mistake or seek their partner’s forgiveness; instead, they always want them to apologize first.

Lo único que quieren es presionar a su pareja y dejarle sólo una opción: romper con ellos.

They tell other people they’re single

They start behaving like they’re single and they tell their friends and family that they’re no longer in a relationship.

They probably think that it’s going to be less painful for their partner to find it out from other people but the fact is, it’s going to hurt them even more.

Crean drama innecesario todo el tiempo

They’ll start arguing with their partner over some stupid little things.

Their partner won’t be able to please them anymore and no matter what they do or say, it won’t be good enough for their other half, who’s using these sneaky ways to put an end to their romantic relationship.

Con todo este drama innecesario, sólo quieren crear un ambiente emocional tóxico y hacer que sus parejas pongan fin a su relación.

Dar celos a su pareja es su principal trabajo ahora

If they’ve been in a relationship for some time, then they know their partner and the things that bother them the most.

If their partner has always been a little bit jealous, that’s the first thing they’ll use.

They’ll intenta darles celos first with some small things, like hiding their phone or going out every night but then if that doesn’t work, they’ll start flirting with other people in front of them.

Cortaron la comunicación

They’ll start avoiding them as much as they can. They’ll start canceling plans or stop going to the places where they go.

But the thing that’s going to bother their partner the most is that they’ll try to cut off all communication they had.

They’ll stop replying to their calls and messages, even though they’ll be active on their social media, and we all know that can make us all crazy.

Cualquier tipo de abuso

Esta es la peor. ¿Cómo puede ser más fácil abusar de alguien emocionalmente o de cualquier otra forma que hablar con él y decirle directamente que quieres romper?

If you ever even cared for that person, you won’t allow them to go through that.

Sobrevivirán a la ruptura y se recuperarán de ella tarde o temprano, pero la abuso emocional va a dejar secuelas en su corazón y en su mente para el resto de su vida.

Empiezan a ver a otras personas

Break up with your other half, leave them via a message or any other way you can but don’t ever cheat on them and start seeing other people while you’re still in a relationship.

It’s easier to be direct with someone even though it’s going to hurt them than to live with knowing that you broke someone’s heart just because you weren’t man enough to tell them the truth.

Cuando se trata de romper con alguien, especialmente si sabes que esa persona aún te quiere, no hay mentiras piadosas ni formas fáciles de dejarla.

There’s only one way; to be honest with them and tell them how you really feel and that the best thing for both of you would be ending your relationship.

Yes, someone will be hurt but that’s the only way neither one of you will be left with a broken heart.