Si realmente te amara, se aseguraría de que lo supieras.

El amor no es complicado. Cuando quieres de verdad a alguien, te sale de forma natural demostrar tus sentimientos y luchar por él pase lo que pase.

It comes to you naturally to make them your priority because you can’t imagine your life without them.

But, when you don’t love someone, you do the exact opposite. You treat them however you want because you don’t care how they’ll feel.

You let them wait because you don’t care about their time.

So, let’s get one thing straight: ¡Si realmente te amara, se aseguraría de que lo supieras!

Yup. It’s that simple. If he really loved you, he would never make you question his intentions in the first place or make you overthink even the smallest of things.

If he really loved you, he would not just say it – he would prove it to you.

And that’s the biggest difference between real and fake love.

When you love someone, you don’t wait a second to tell them how much you appreciate their existence and everything they do for you.

When you love someone, you don’t wait a second to show it to them with your gestures and not only words.

Si te quisiera de verdad, lucharía con todas sus fuerzas para no perderte.

Cuando crees en algo, luchas con todo tu corazón y toda tu alma para conseguirlo.

Si te quisiera de verdad, encontraría la forma de hacerte sentir especial y conquistarte. Y encontraría la manera de retenerte.

So, don’t you dare imagine things or finding excuses for his behavior, thinking that you’re the one to blame! You were there for him, but he didn’t want to see it or appreciate it. He wasn’t ready for love because he was incapable of loving. He never loved you.

Y tampoco estabas enamorada de él. Estabas enamorada de la idea de él.

You hoped that he will change, and he will start noticing your efforts, but he didn’t.

You hoped that one day you’ll wake up, and he will be there next to you, holding a flower in his hand, waiting to put it in your hair.

Pero, ¡nunca lo hizo! ¿Y sabes por qué? Porque nunca te amó.

I know it’s hard to accept, but it’s the only way to libérate from the limbo you’re in.

Esperabas que te mostrara lo que es el verdadero amor, pero en lugar de eso, sólo fue capaz de mostrarte lo que no es el amor.

And it’s not your fault for believing that something will change. You did the right thing. You waited, but he never came to his senses. You were there, but he never bothered reciprocating. He was feasting on your pure love while giving you crumbs of his toxic one.

And now it’s time to let go of it! It’s time to let go of the idea that he ever loved you or that he would ever be capable of it because he isn’t, and he’ll never be.

¿Y sabes por qué?

Because he doesn’t understand how it feels to love someone and watch them spit in your face.

He doesn’t understand how it feels to treat someone as your priority when you know that to them, you’re just an option.

Si te quisiera de verdad, entendería todo eso y más. Si realmente te queríanunca te haría llorar ni te haría maldecir el día que lo conociste.

If he really loved you, he would make damn sure to knock on your door and wait hours if needed, only to say that he’s sorry for everything he’s done and express his utter love for you.

But, he didn’t do it. He didn’t do it because he didn’t care whether you’re feeling loved or not. He was only thinking about himself and his wishes. And now it is time for you to think about yourself!

It’s time for you to start focusing on your own happiness and not only on the happiness of those who didn’t deserve your attention.

It’s time for you to accept the fact that he was never meant to stay because he was simply incapable of loving you, and all of this was just a test for you, preparing you for something bigger, greater.

Your bad choices don’t make you who you are! They enrich your life and teach you valuable lessons, but they never make you who you are.

Eres una mujer hermosa y fuerte que ha pasado por mucho y que se merece un trato mucho mejor que el que te estabas conformando.

Te conformabas con menos a pesar de merecer la luna y las estrellas.

Aceptabas mentiras aunque merecías la pura verdad.

Le diste tu corazón aunque sabías que acabaría rompiéndolo.

And now it’s time to do everything in reverse. It’s time to stop dwelling upon your past because nothing will ever change.

Tu vida sólo cambiará cuando tú lo decidas.

Cambiará cuando empieces a aceptar sólo las cosas más bellas de la vida.

Cambiará cuando empieces a aceptar el amor que te inspira en lugar del mediocre. Empieza a cambiarlo. ¡Sé el cambio!