El verdadero amor debe curar, no herir
How many times have you heard someone saying: “ El amor duele ”? And how many times how you believed it yourself?
I did, too. I used to believe that love hurts like hell because when you’re unable to fall asleep and wipe away all of your tears, when your heart is shattered into million tiny pieces, the only thing that seems logical is to say that love hurts.
Ojalá alguien me hubiera dicho entonces lo totalmente equivocada que estaba.
Love doesn’t hurt you. A person that doesn’t know how to love hurts you.
Yes. It’s the only truth in the whole, wide universe. Love doesn’t bring you tears. A person that doesn’t know how to make you happy does. Love doesn’t make you feel less worthy. A person that doesn’t know how to appreciate you does.
Love is not something that enters your life and changes its meaning without you being consent. The type of love you accept from others determines the outcome. When something bad happens, it’s silly to blame love for being harsh to you.
Se supone que el verdadero amor cura, no hiere.
El amor verdadero es tan hermoso y puro como un copo de nieve en invierno. Es desinteresado, reconfortante, generoso y humilde. Es tan fuerte que es capaz de mover montañas y, al mismo tiempo, tan frágil como una pluma.
Por todas sus características, se supone que el amor verdadero cura y no hiere. Se supone que te hace sonreír, que te llena de amor cada poro de tu ser, que te hace sentir dichoso y en contacto con tu verdadero yo.
Whenever you start doubting the healing power of love, ask yourself whether the love you’re accepting is true.
When your heart’s been broken too many times, it’s hard to believe in the healing power of love because you haven’t had the opportunity to experience it yet. When your tears have been streaming down your face for too long, it’s hard to believe in the healing power of love because you no longer trust anyone.
All of the pain and struggle you’re going through now is just a side effect of the person that didn’t know how to love you. It’s not love that has made you feel this way. Love, when it’s true, never makes you doubt it for a single second.
El amor verdadero debe abrirte los ojos, no cerrártelos.
True love makes you realize that all this time, you’ve been wasting your seconds on those who were never meant to stay. It shows you the difference between selfless love and selfish love.
Te hace sentir que renaces porque tiene el poder de borrar todos tus errores del pasado y evitar que los repitas. Te hace sentir amado por lo que realmente eres.
Se supone que el amor verdadero debe ser dichoso y espontáneo.
Todos esos gestos bonitos y románticos que haces por alguien para demostrarle cuánto le quieres son como el alimento del amor verdadero. Amar a alguien incondicionalmente significa esforzarse por arrancarle una sonrisa y hacerle sentir especial.
No tiene nada que ver con cuántos emoticonos has recibido en tu red social. No tiene nada que ver con cuántas veces alguien te ha dicho que te quiere.
Amor verdadero is in every spontaneous kiss you get from your loved one. It is in wiping tears from each other’s faces, holding hands while you’re sleeping, and never forgetting to let each other know how much you appreciate everything your partner does for you. True love is not jealous, selfish, poisonous, or toxic.
True love knows someone’s weaknesses, but it doesn’t use them against them. It accepts them.
Te ayuda a convertirte en la mejor versión de ti mismo aceptando todos tus defectos y peculiaridades. Te da espacio para mostrar tus verdaderos colores y no avergonzarte nunca de ellos. Te inspira, te motiva y te impulsa a alcanzar la grandeza y la felicidad supremas.
El amor verdadero permanece.
When something bad happens, true love doesn’t hide itself. It’s there with you, holding your hand and telling you that everything will be alright. True love is not afraid of being challenged because it knows that patience and persistence will make it win.
Remember that true love is not supposed to hurt. True love is supposed to heal your wounds, accept your flaws, keep you safe, and love you unconditionally. And if it doesn’t, it means you didn’t find it yet.
