5 señales definitivas de que casi sientes algo por ti

In the modern dating era, nobody is clear about their feelings anymore. When you’re involved with a guy, it’s unlikely that he’ll straightforwardly tell you he cares for you. Instead, you’ll have to guess his intentions.

This is especially true when we’re talking about casual dating. You two agreed that this wasn’t anything serious from day one but things have changed. 

You don’t doubt yourself since you definitely caught feelings along the way but what about him? How can you know whether your almost is starting to fall in love with you? 

1. Se vuelve personal

Confía en mí en esto; cuando un hombre expone sus vulnerabilidades frente a ti, no hay duda de que sintió algo por ti. 

When you’re just a hookup to a guy, he will let you in his bed but not in his heart or mind. Well, that is where this man is different.

All of a sudden, he has got personal with you. Your conversations have become deeper and it’s clear that he is opening up to you, without you ever asking him to. 

This man has started sharing his deepest thoughts with you. You’re the one he comes to when he has a problem, the one he asks for advice and the one he tells his secrets to, without a fear of being judged.

In fact, you two are no longer just lovers. Somehow, along the way, you’ve also become friends and the best part is that you both enjoy this change. 

2. La comunicación es regular

Una de las diferencias más significativas entre un casi y una relación real está en la calidad de la comunicación.

You see, when you’re just a hookup to someone, you guys only text and call each other to arrange sex. 

Basically, everything between you two revolves around it; you exchange dirty texts and photos or you include some small talk. When you’re done with what you came to do, you don’t talk until the next opportunity arises. 

Nevertheless, when a guy has feelings for you, he will make sure your communication is regular and of better quality. He’ll text you goodnight or ask you to call him when you get home after seeing him.  

3. Hay signos de celos

The number one way to get to the bottom of someone’s feelings is to look for signs of jealousy. If a man is into you, he can’t stand seeing you next to someone else.

Technically, you’re a single woman. Therefore, you’re allowed to date whomever you want and your almost boyfriend doesn’t have a say in that.

Nevertheless, even though he knows that, he can’t help but feel jealous when you mention some other guy, let alone when he sees you’re involved with someone else besides him.

He can’t say anything since you’re not his girlfriend and he is trying to hide his jealous outbursts but he can’t seem to control himself, as much as he tries. 

Despite all of his efforts, you manage to notice that he is jealous. No, he won’t tell you this directly but he will get all passive-aggressive when the possibility of other men in your life arises. 

4. You’re included in his life

Otra señal importante de que su conexión que siente algo por ti es el hecho de que te incluye en su vida. Te presenta a sus amigos, te cuenta más cosas sobre su trabajo y te habla de sus intereses. 

Of course, he doesn’t make a big deal about any of this.

Instead, he just casually asks you to tag along while he’s hanging out with his friends, starts talking to you about some personal issues or asks you to watch a football game with him. 

Why would he be doing all of this if he’s not interested in anything besides some bedroom activity? 

5. Quiere saber más sobre ti

Lo mismo ocurre a la inversa. Un hombre está, sin duda, enamorado de ti cuando quiere formar parte de tu vida y quiere saber más de ti. 

Todo empezó con algunas preguntas personales. Le preguntó por su infancia, su familia y sus amigos. Más tarde, empezó a indagar un poco más.

Empezó a desentrañar capas de tu personalidad y te hizo exponerte, sin que ni siquiera fueras consciente de hacerlo. 

Moreover, this guy remembers everything you told him and pays attention to your life. He doesn’t forget some little things he knows about you, which is an indicator that everything you say matters.