5 segni inequivocabili del fatto che il tuo quasi-capo provi qualcosa per te
In the modern dating era, nobody is clear about their feelings anymore. When you’re involved with a guy, it’s unlikely that he’ll straightforwardly tell you he cares for you. Instead, you’ll have to guess his intentions.
This is especially true when we’re talking about casual dating. You two agreed that this wasn’t anything serious from day one but things have changed.
You don’t doubt yourself since you definitely caught feelings along the way but what about him? How can you know whether your almost is starting to fall in love with you?
1. Diventa personale
Fidatevi di me: quando un uomo espone le sue vulnerabilità davanti a voi, non c'è dubbio che ha provato qualcosa per te.
When you’re just a hookup to a guy, he will let you in his bed but not in his heart or mind. Well, that is where this man is different.
All of a sudden, he has got personal with you. Your conversations have become deeper and it’s clear that he is opening up to you, without you ever asking him to.
This man has started sharing his deepest thoughts with you. You’re the one he comes to when he has a problem, the one he asks for advice and the one he tells his secrets to, without a fear of being judged.
In fact, you two are no longer just lovers. Somehow, along the way, you’ve also become friends and the best part is that you both enjoy this change.
2. La comunicazione è regolare
Una delle differenze più significative tra un quasi e una relazione reale è nella qualità della comunicazione.
You see, when you’re just a hookup to someone, you guys only text and call each other to arrange sex.
Basically, everything between you two revolves around it; you exchange dirty texts and photos or you include some small talk. When you’re done with what you came to do, you don’t talk until the next opportunity arises.
Nevertheless, when a guy has feelings for you, he will make sure your communication is regular and of better quality. He’ll text you goodnight or ask you to call him when you get home after seeing him.
3. Ci sono segni di gelosia
The number one way to get to the bottom of someone’s feelings is to look for signs of jealousy. If a man is into you, he can’t stand seeing you next to someone else.
Technically, you’re a single woman. Therefore, you’re allowed to date whomever you want and your almost boyfriend doesn’t have a say in that.
Nevertheless, even though he knows that, he can’t help but feel jealous when you mention some other guy, let alone when he sees you’re involved with someone else besides him.
He can’t say anything since you’re not his girlfriend and he is trying to hide his jealous outbursts but he can’t seem to control himself, as much as he tries.
Despite all of his efforts, you manage to notice that he is jealous. No, he won’t tell you this directly but he will get all passive-aggressive when the possibility of other men in your life arises.
4. You’re included in his life
Un altro segno importante che il vostro aggancio La dimostrazione che prova qualcosa per voi è il fatto che vi include nella sua vita. Vi presenta i suoi amici, vi racconta del suo lavoro e vi parla dei suoi interessi.
Of course, he doesn’t make a big deal about any of this.
Instead, he just casually asks you to tag along while he’s hanging out with his friends, starts talking to you about some personal issues or asks you to watch a football game with him.
Why would he be doing all of this if he’s not interested in anything besides some bedroom activity?
5. Vuole sapere di più su di voi
Lo stesso vale per il contrario. Un uomo è senza dubbio innamorato di voi quando vuole entrare a far parte della vostra vita e vuole saperne di più su di voi.
Tutto è iniziato con alcune domande personali. Le ha chiesto della sua infanzia, della sua famiglia e dei suoi amici. In seguito, ha iniziato a scavare un po' più a fondo.
Ha iniziato a svelare gli strati della vostra personalità e vi ha fatto mettere a nudo, senza che foste consapevoli di farlo.
Moreover, this guy remembers everything you told him and pays attention to your life. He doesn’t forget some little things he knows about you, which is an indicator that everything you say matters.
