9 señales que demuestran que eres el amor de su vida

With all these ‘men’ today it’s hard to know for sure if he really loves you or if he’s just messing around. Short-term flings have been so normalized that it’s easy to lose a sense of how a real committed relationship looks like.

If you have trust issues and carry a burden from your past relationships, you probably always wonder if he’s the one and overthink every little thing he does. I’ve been there too, wondering all the time if he loves me the way I love him. 

Con el paso del tiempo, me he dado cuenta it’s all about some small things we often overlook. They’re the real signs he’s head over heels for you and will never leave you. If you can relate to these signs, relax, because you’ve found your ride or die. 

1. Tu bienestar es su prioridad

Cuando alguien te quiere de verdad, te lo demuestra cada día. Como la vez que tuve un día horrible en el trabajo y llegué a casa y me encontré a mi novio esperándome con la cena preparada y mi programa favorito en la tele. 

A man who cares about you will always think about your well-being and make sure you’re well taken care of. Whether you’re sick, overwhelmed, or just tired, he’ll try to make you feel better and will know exactly how to do that. 

2. Siempre puedes contar con él

Reliability and trust are the foundation of every healthy relationship. Ask yourself if your man is someone you can call in the middle of the night if something goes wrong and you can be sure he’ll handle the situation.

Si lo que tienes es real, he’ll always give you a sense of security and peace, knowing you have someone who’s always there for you. He’s everything from your comfort zone to your biggest cheerleader. 

3. Te respeta en todos los sentidos

Un hombre que te quiere te respeta de todas las formas posibles. Respeta tus opiniones, valores, emociones y objetivos. 

Even when you have a disagreement, he listens to you carefully and tries to understand your point of view. He respects your decisions and tries to find common ground in every situation. The moment this changes, it’s a huge sign you shouldn’t ignore. 

4. Hablas a menudo de tu futuro

This is a sign as big as it can get! If he never forgets about you when he’s talking about his future, be sure that man is serious about you.

He’ll never leave you out of his plans and will happily discuss your shared goals. The moment my man started initiating conversations about our future together, dreaming about where we’d be 10 years from now, I knew he was serious. 

5. Nunca se cuestiona su lealtad

If you have even a bit of doubt your man is not completely loyal and can’t be trusted, you better look into that. I really believe our intuition tells us everything we need to know. We just need to listen carefully.

Cuando un hombre está listo para comprometerse, he’ll never give you a reason to doubt him or do something that will make you lose your trust. Instead, he’ll reassure you and strengthen the bond between you.

6. Se desvive por hacerte feliz

This is one of the easiest signs to spot and be sure someone really loves you. But don’t let social media fool you and convince you he’s not the one if he doesn’t fly you out somewhere every weekend or buy you expensive gifts.

El verdadero amor se esconde en pequeños gestos considerados como que se acuerde de tu flor favorita y te sorprenda con ella o te traiga caramelos que una vez mencionaste que te gustaban de pequeña. Este esfuerzo es lo que cuenta y tú deberías apreciarlo. 

7. There’s always room for quality time together

No matter how busy he is, he always makes room for you. Your quality time together is his priority and he’ll never put something else before it. He doesn’t care about what you do, he just wants to be near you.

Estar contigo es la parte favorita de su día. Whether it’s planning a dinner at a restaurant or staying home and watching movies, he’ll always come up with something.

8. Creces individualmente y como pareja

In a healthy relationship that’s heading towards something serious, both partners are making sure to support each other’s growth. My man always made sure I knew he’d support whatever I decided to do with my life.

If he sees his future with you, he’ll inspire and encourage you to work on your goals and be successful. Besides this, he’ll also ensure you grow as a couple, learn from your mistakes, and make your relationship stronger each day. 

9. Fomenta la empatía y la comunicación abierta

There’s nothing that can flourish without empathy and open communication. These are essential things to search for in someone you want to spend your life with. 

A man who’s serious about you will valida tus sentimientos y esfuérzate siempre por comunicarte abiertamente sobre todo. He’s not playing around when it comes to your relationship and that’s why he fosters these values as he realizes their importance. 

There’s no unique recipe that will tell you if what you have is real but el amor verdadero siempre se siente pacífico, comprensivo y seguro.