Si haces 7 de estas 14 cosas, eres una buena novia

Hay tantos tipos de novias que ves todos los días y no puedes evitar preguntarte: "¿Qué tipo de novia soy yo?".

O una pregunta aún mejor que hacerse, “Which type of a girlfriend should I be?”

Las relaciones se han vuelto tan difíciles porque la gente se ha vuelto tan complicada. Nos enfadamos por pequeñeces, nos resentimos por estupideces.

Sólo hace falta un poco para ponernos al límite, lo que acarrea problemas en nuestras relaciones.

On the other hand, as we get so easily angry with our other half in a relationship, we don’t accept an apology so lightly.

Face it, all of us have that no-one-will-screw-with-me attitude because it’s hard to forget what someone said or did that bothered us.

Well, relationships are not about resentment or suppressing anger. They aren’t about keeping score of who did what and when.

Todos lo olvidamos. Las relaciones deberían basarse en el amor y en la capacidad de perdonar y seguir adelante.

Nadie es perfecto. Ni tú, ni él, ni vuestra relación.

¿Adónde quiero llegar?

Dicho todo esto, quiero que te des cuenta de que no importa el tipo de novia que seas, puedes ser ta mejor novia consultando estos 15 consejos para triunfar.

If you mean well and you sincerely love the person you’re with, you are indeed a buena novia.

No obstante, sé que aún tienes tus dudas.

That’s why we are going to move on to the more analytical part of the article, to make you totally confident you’re behaving exactly as you should.

Si haces al menos 7 de estas 14 cosas, eres un BUENA NOVIA

Eres una combinación perfecta de pegajosa e independiente.

Ningún hombre te dirá que le gusta que su novia esté cerca de él todo el tiempo.

No one likes people who act like a lost puppy in a relationship – women who don’t do anything by themselves and act like they have no life outside of the relationship.

On the other hand, no one wants a woman who is too independent and doesn’t need you for anything.

If she can do everything by herself, what’s the point of being in a relationship?

Una novia perfecta sabe moverse en el feliz término medio entre ser pegajoso e independiente.

Una novia perfecta sale con su novio, pasan tiempo haciendo cosas juntos, pero tiene una vida fuera de la relación con sus amigos y su familia, como se supone que todo el mundo debe tener.

You’re self-assured

You know you look good and you feel good about yourself. You don’t need anyone to keep telling you that you rock.

You are perfectly aware of that, but you don’t misuse it. You’re not an ass to others just because you are confident.

A los hombres les encantan las chicas que no se obsesionan con si son guapas o no y con gustar a la gente.

El hecho de que no pienses cambiar por nadie porque te gustas tal y como eres es lo que te hace único e interesante.

Tu personalidad y tu mentalidad, tal y como son, te convierten en una buena novia.

Haces cosas bonitas por él

La vida cotidiana puede llevarte a una rutina aburrida.

Antes de que te des cuenta, te encuentras haciendo las mismas cosas una y otra vez, lo que pone en peligro tu relación.

Incluso las parejas que llevan más tiempo juntas se enfrentan a estos problemas.

That’s why the fact that you do small nice things for your boyfriend makes you a great girlfriend.

Le preparas un café por la mañana, le dejas una bonita nota sobre una mesa o le escribes un párrafo de amor.

If you do these or any of other selfless things for him, it means you’re willing to keep the relationship alive even after so much time spent together.

You’re smart

You’re not childish; you’ve outgrown the high school phase of dating and all the problems that come with it.

Well, that’s what men are looking for – a mature and grown-ass woman who doesn’t act like a spoiled brat.

Los hombres quieren a su lado a una mujer que esté a su altura y que pueda desafiarles a nivel intelectual.

Los hombres necesitan el desafío y tú tienes el cerebro para hacerlo.

You never compare your relationship with someone else’s

Although it’s extremely hard not to compare what you have with what someone else has, you somehow manage it.

Seeing all those selfies of happy couples on social media doesn’t make it easier to only look at your relationship, but you are confident enough and smart enough to know that nothing is exactly what it looks like.

God knows what happens between that “happy” couple when they are not pretending to be the happiest by posting cute selfies on Instagram.

Sure, you’re not made of stone and you have critical moments too when you can’t help but wonder if you are as happy as they are.

Fortunately, you’ve always made it through.

Te dedicas

First, you’ll never cheat. You never even thought of cheating. Second, you always have your man’s back.

You’ll always stick up for him.

It doesn’t matter if he’s right or wrong, the point is you trust him and you care enough to defend what he believes in, even if you don’t.

La devoción es algo que todos los hombres aprecian. Si te comportas así en una relación, créeme, te devolverán el favor.

Le animas a seguir sus sueños

You talk to him about what he wants. You listen to him talking about his dreams, about things he’s passionate about.

Even if those things don’t mean anything to you, you’ll respect them and you’ll help him get there any way you know how.

If you can’t do anything except listen to him and hear out his problems, you’ll do it because that is the only way to encourage him to never throw in the towel.

Le dejas actuar como un hombre

You are well aware of the fact that men and women are from two different worlds. We don’t function or think the same way.

That’s why you won’t make him do girly stuff, the stuff he doesn’t feel comfortable doing. You don’t want to make him feel less manly.

You won’t follow him around making sure he doesn’t do something stupid.

Confías en él y sabes que tiene que tener tiempo para sí mismo, igual que tú tienes que tener tiempo para ti.

Necesita salir con sus amigos y hacer cosas que hacen los chicos.

You don’t force him to be a romantic

You know it’s not his thing. He shows that he loves you in different ways. So, you don’t pressure him into doing romantic gestures for you.

You know he won’t feel good because that’s just not who he is.

La mayoría de la gente demuestra su amor con grandes gestos románticos, escapadas sorpresa y regalos bonitos.

Even though you see this happening around you with your friends, you don’t care that your man is not like that.

Tiene un montón de formas únicas de demostrarle lo mucho que le importas – and you’re more than okay with that.

Haces que quiera superarse

You are going to bring out the best in him – you want to bring out the best in him.

Eres su apoyo en todas las situaciones y haces que quiera convertirse en una persona aún mejor de lo que ya es.

En algún momento de su vida, un hombre se siente responsable de su futuro y, en la mayoría de los casos, eso ocurre por culpa de una mujer.

Así es como influyes positivamente en su vida. Haces que quiera cambiar y ser mejor.

You won’t take your anger out on him, even if you’re having a bad day

I know it’s hard to keep your emotions under control. Some days you just feel simply bad; you aren’t in the mood to talk to anyone, not even him.

But when those days come, you don’t unleash that frustration on him.

If it’s necessary, you’ll go away; you’ll get out of his way to not cause a scene because you’re well aware that you’re a bit edgy, so you might misunderstand things he says or does.

Basically, if you’re feeling a bit bitchy, you’ll move out of his way.

You won’t let him neglect his friends and family

A lot of men do this when they enter relationships. A lot of them act like they no longer have friends, just because they’ve found a girlfriend.

This behavior is shitty and you’ll never let him do something like this.

Asegúrate de recordarle lo importante que es mantenerse en contacto con los que te importan.

Maybe it’s not as necessary to do this with friends as it is with his family.

Men get like that; they don’t have the need to call their mom just to say they love her, but that’s why they have you to remind them it’s a nice and loving thing to do.

You’ll try new things, even if you don’t like them

You’ll do it for him.

If something means so much to him, you’ll keep whatever your opinion is about that particular thing to yourself and you’ll try it because you love him and you want to make him happy.

Al fin y al cabo, si conseguir que hagas algo nuevo con él es otra oportunidad de pasar más tiempo con la persona que amas, ¿por qué no?

You don’t force him to change

I saved the best – or better said – the more important for last. If you’ve fallen in love with someone, you’ve fallen in love for a reason.

Puede que haya algunas cosas que quieras que cambie, pero en general, le quieres por cómo es.

When you think about it, it’s not fair to ask someone to change after you choose to be with that person the way they are.

Your boyfriend appreciates that you’ve accepted him with flaws and all.

After all, you aren’t perfect either.