Si la quieres, no hay excusas para tratarla como a una mierda
Cuando amas a una chica, lo haces de todo corazón y hasta el final, sin guardarte nada.
You don’t manipulate her into thinking you are the man you are not, you don’t lie to her, you don’t cheat on her and you don’t neglect her emotionally.
Cuando amas a una chica, la tratas en consecuencia. You don’t give her any promises you have no intention of fulfilling and you don’t make her beg for your attention.
You don’t deceive her with empty words and you don’t give her false hope that things will be better any time now.
You don’t play mind games, you don’t send señales contradictorias and you don’t make her question your feelings or doubt your intentions.
You don’t leave her hanging when she needs you the most and you never make her cry intentionally.
You don’t invest halfway, while waiting for a better opportunity to arise. You don’t take advantage of her loving and caring heart and you don’t use the fact that she’ll forgive you for whatever you do.
You don’t apologize for the things you plan on repeating and you don’t blow every second chance you get. You don’t treat her as your second choice and you don’t take her for granted.
Cuando amas a una chica de verdad, te aseguras de que sienta la profundidad de tu amor. Te conviertes en su mejor amigo, su amante, su protector y su compañero en todos los sentidos de la palabra.
Te esfuerzas a su alrededor y siempre la pones en primer lugar. La apoyas y la haces sentir segura, asegurándote de que sepa que siempre puede contar contigo.
You give her back everything you’ve been getting from her and more. You treat her with the respect and appreciation she deserves and you value all the sacrifices she’s making.
When you love a girl, you fight for her. You don’t do everything in your power to push her away from you and you never let her go.
Yes, it’s that simple. When you love someone for real, there is no excuse to make them suffer and you never become the cause of their pain, no matter the circumstances.
Sin embargo, no es así como tratas a tu novia, a pesar de saber lo mucho que te quiere, ¿verdad?
Even though you are aware that you mean the world to this girl, you still act like you don’t give a damn about her.
La mantienes a tu lado y le sigues dando largas, sabiendo que se merece mucho más que este amor a medias que le estás dando.
So, why exactly are you with her? Why do you keep lying that you love her when you obviously don’t and why do you keep on hurting her when that is the last thing she deserves?
¿Por qué sigues rompiéndole el corazón sin intención de permitirle nunca seguir adelante with her life? Why do you keep on leaving her and going back to her, expecting that she’d always be there, patiently waiting for you to make up your mind and to get your shit together?
So no—you don’t love her, no matter how you try to convince yourself of that.
Puede que te encante la idea de tener a alguien como ella a tu alrededor, puede que te encante el hecho de que ella te quiera o puede que simplemente la estés utilizando como tu red de seguridad.
It is also possible that you are very well aware that you’ll never find someone like her again or you need her to fix your broken ego and to make you feel better about yourself.
But the truth is that you don’t love her. Because you don’t hurt the one you love.
You don’t cause their sleepless nights, you don’t make their life a infierno en vida and you most certainly don’t make them wonder why they aren’t enough. You never make them cry and you don’t break their heart over and over again.
So, why do you keep on convincing yourself that you love this girl, when you clearly don’t and never will?
Why can’t you be the bigger man and let her find her the happiness which you obviously can’t give her?
Why don’t you give her the opportunity to wait for a guy who will treat you the way you never did? A guy who will love her the way she deserves to be loved?
