Si no quiere estar contigo, no le obligues a quedarse

Deja el teléfono. Don’t send that text. Don’t make that call.

Don’t ask him to come over. Don’t beg him to talk to you. He doesn’t deserve your efforts.

Wipe away your tears. Don’t waste them on him.

Stop fighting so hard to keep him by your side. There’s no need to do that. You are just going to exhaust all your emotions.

Let him be. Let him go. If he comes after you, if he matches your efforts, maybe there’s still something there. Maybe you still have a chance. If he doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.

And I know it’s easier said than done, but there is only one truth when it comes to love—love shouldn’t be forced.

You shouldn’t go to such lengths to make someone see you. You shouldn’t beg for his time. You shouldn’t be deprived of his affection.

Keeping in touch shouldn’t be so damn hard. Being there for you shouldn’t be an obligation. It should be something he does willingly.

You can’t make him ready for a true and committed relationship if he isn’t there yet.

You won’t do yourself or him any favors by waiting. He might never be ready, and you will end up waiting for forever. You will be stuck in a bad relationship in which you lack so much.

You shouldn’t hold your breath that things will change either. You shouldn’t hope that he will treat you better and pay more attention to your needs.

You shouldn’t hope that he will become more invested in your relationship or more present. He was supposed to do those things and be that man a long time ago. If nothing changed so far, it never will.

You shouldn’t become a different person to haz que se encariñe contigo . Debería amarte y apreciarte tal y como eres.

Debe aceptarte como tú a él, con todos sus defectos y virtudes.

Love isn’t about making pieces fit; it’s about those pieces coming together naturally.

It’s so simple and so true, but we forget about the natural and effortless course of things. We forget that love comes from both sides. We forget to take because we are so used to giving.

Love shouldn’t be hard. It shouldn’t feel like a never-ending battle that we always end up losing. It shouldn’t bring us more tears than laughter. That’s just not right.

It’s just that we sometimes become so wrapped up in the idea of love that we really start thinking that love involves pain and suffering.

Deseamos tanto que las cosas funcionen que aceptamos cualquier cosa que nos den, aunque sólo sean trozos de lo que merecemos y necesitamos.

It shouldn’t be like that, and you will realize that once you find your forever person.

Verás por qué todo tuvo que pasar de esta manera. Verás que tuviste que besar algunas ranas antes de encontrar a tu príncipe.

You will see that love, when it’s real, simply flows.

Cuando el amor es real, los dos estáis preparados. Das y recibes. Se encuentran a mitad de camino sin necesidad de forzar nada.

Cuando dos personas se quieren, gravitan la una hacia la otra. Encuentran tiempo y se esfuerzan sin que nadie se lo pida.

Hacen que funcione porque AMBOS quieren; porque ambos sienten algo tan profundo el uno por el otro que consiguen superar cualquier obstáculo.

Everything doesn’t always go smoothly, but love, affection and attention are never forced, and that’s the main thing.

Y aunque puede que no todo salga como te lo habías imaginado, cuando tienes a tu lado a la persona adecuada, obtienes algo aún más asombroso de lo que jamás habrías podido predecir.

Así que deja ir a cualquiera y todo lo que tiene que ser forzado, y despeja tu camino para el verdadero negocio. Espera a que fluya el amor.