Su atención no significa nada si no tienes su respeto

Eres una mujer atractiva y muy deseable, de eso no hay duda.

Vayas donde vayas, habrá muchos chicos mirándote fijamente, intentando comunicarse contigo e invitarte a salir.

No es diferente al resto. A primera vista, parecía estar encaprichado contigo.

Sólo tenía ojos para ti. Estaba encima de ti e hizo todo lo que pudo para conquistarte.

Así que, naturalmente, pensaste que él era el elegido. Te prestó mucha atención y actuó como si fueras la mujer de sus sueños.

However, as soon as he got what he wanted, everything changed. No, I’m not just talking about taking you to bed.

I’m referring to the fact that this guy started treating you differently as soon as you showed him that he had captured your heart.

As soon as he became aware that you’d fallen for him, he showed you his true colors.

A partir de ese momento, se notó que este tipo tenía absolutamente no te respeto.

Nunca tuvo en cuenta tus opiniones, sentimientos o deseos.

Así que.., empezaste a hacer cualquier cosa para captar su atención.

You just wanted the man from the beginning of your relationship back – at any cost.

Estabas dispuesto a hacer lo que fuera necesario para ser más agradable para este tipo.

He didn’t even have to directly ask you to change – you did it by yourself.

In the beginning, you started pretending to be someone you’re not. However, you didn’t do it with the intention of deceiving him.

Sólo querías que te viera mejor, más lista, más atractiva y más interesante.

Sin embargo, con el tiempo, te perdiste a ti misma. La chica que solías ser de repente no aparecía por ninguna parte.

Well, let me tell you something: I know that you want this guy’s undivided attention.

I know that you’re the happiest person in the world when he texts you or when he likes your social media posts.

Sé que tu corazón salta de alegría cuando encuentra tiempo para verte.

Sin embargo, while you were busy chasing him and trying to get his attention, you missed something much more important: his respect – which you’ve never got.

Believe me on this one: His attention means nothing if you don’t have his respect.

De hecho, este hombre no es diferente a cualquiera de los otros chicos que te miran en los clubes.

For someone like him, you’re nothing but a piece of meat. He sees you as a trophy – as a girl all of his friends would like to be with but can’t.

He doesn’t care about your reputation or future. Most importantly: he doesn’t care how you feel and whether you might suffer later on.

Deep down, he knows you’re a catch.

He knows that he is not enough for you, which is why he gives you breadcrumbs of his attention – so you will always come asking for more.

Utiliza toda esta situación para mantener el control sobre ti. Juega juegos mentales para mantenerte enganchada porque no tiene nada más que ofrecerte.

So please, don’t do whatever he asks you to do.

Don’t run into his arms every time he calls you, don’t sleep with him if that’s the only thing he wants, and don’t send him nudes in the hope of getting a text back.

Créeme: esto es cualquier cosa menos respeto.

This guy doesn’t really appreciate your presence in his life, nor does he cherish the deep love you feel for him.

¿A qué espera exactamente? ¿Cree que he’ll change? That he’ll grow to respect the real you with time?

If that is so, you’re just wasting your time. Things will remain like this forever and this guy will never start treating you right.

That’s why I’m begging you not to give him any more of your energy. Instead, be patient enough to wait for a guy who deserves you.

Instead of fighting for this immature boy’s undivided attention, wait for a real man who will give you many more valuable things, such as respect, loyalty, and appreciation.

Porque en eso consiste el amor verdadero.