Esto es exactamente lo que significa cuando un hombre esconde su teléfono

¿De repente tu hombre es demasiado misterioso con su teléfono y tu intuición no deja de decirte que algo va mal?

When a man hides his phone from his better half, that doesn’t have to mean he’s cheating on her.

However, it’s considered a major red flag in every relationship.

If your man is spending too much time on the phone and he always hides it from you, there is definitely something going on there that you shouldn’t probably find out.

Even if the reason why he does it isn’t his infidelity, it still shows that your relationship isn’t so good.

Estar en una relación sana significa que dos personas deben compartirlo todo, incluso sus secretos más profundos y oscuros.

There is no lying or hiding. Both partners trust each other and are sure of each other’s loyalty.

El hecho desafortunado es que estos son tiempos muy difíciles para mantener una relación. Hay tantos tipos de medios sociales que definitivamente facilitan las cosas a los infieles.

They think they can cover up their infidelity but don’t you worry, la verdad siempre sale a la luz.

I know that just the thought of being betrayed by someone you love is always painful; however, you must know that it’s not the end of the world.

You’ll need time but you’ll heal and you’ll move on. And don’t even think about getting revenge, déjalo todo en manos del karma. Sooner or later, karma will hit the cheater and it’ll hit them back badly.

Si quieres averiguar la verdad y descubrir la verdadera razón por la que tu hombre te oculta su móvil, sigue leyendo a continuación y escucha algunos de estos eficientes consejos para citas de nuestra coach de relaciones.

18 warning signs your man is hiding his phone from you because he’s cheating on you

I agree that if a man hides his phone, it doesn’t have to mean that he’s cheating.

For example, he doesn’t like anyone going through his private messages or he doesn’t want anyone to snoop through his gallery but unfortunately, the most frequent reason is infidelity.

Afortunadamente, hay algunas señales de advertencia que pueden mostrar que la traición es la razón por qué un hombre esconde su teléfono.

So, if you’re doubting your man’s fidelity because of his sudden secrecy with his phone, pay good attention to these major red flags.

Le presta más atención a su teléfono que a ti.

El hecho es que todos nos hemos obsesionado un poco con nuestros teléfonos y eso es definitivamente insano.

However, we can all agree that it’s very rude when you go out with someone and they spend the whole night on their phone.

Si tienes una cita, deja el móvil en paz y disfruta del tiempo que pasáis juntos.

If you feel that he’s giving his phone more attention than you, then there must be something more interesting than you on it.

You should talk to your significant other and explain nicely to them that you aren’t okay with them spending so much time on their phone and neglecting you.

That doesn’t make you needy; you have every right to insist on more attention.

Siempre deja su teléfono boca abajo

It’s okay if it happens a few times because a lot of people do this unconsciously sometimes.

However, if your partner has done it a lot of times, then he’s definitely hiding something from you.

Maybe he’s expecting a text message that he doesn’t want you to see or he’s afraid that someone (read ‘the other woman’) might call him and that you might see it.

Se enfada si le quitas el teléfono aunque sea un momento.

¿Siempre se enfada si intentas coger su teléfono para ver algo, para llamar a alguien o incluso si estaba sonando y sólo querías dárselo?

If your boyfriend’s phone is always off-limits to you then there is definitely something in it that he’s trying to hide from you.

If you think that’s the case, you should politely ask your partner why he acts the way he does every time you try to take his phone.

Cambió la contraseña de su pantalla de bloqueo

If you’ve been dating for some time, you should definitely have access to your boyfriend’s phone and vice versa.

I know that a healthy relationship must be built on trust but giving someone your phone’s password is also a sign that you trust them.

The worst case is if you did know his phone’s password and he decided to change it all of a sudden and without any proper reason.

Of course you are now wondering if he’s hiding something and you have every right to do so.

He’s very secretive about with whom he is texting

You’ve noticed that he’s always texting someone on WhatsApp or Snapchat or some other social media and when you ask him a quién envía mensajes all the time, he tries to avoid talking about it or he tells you that it’s just one of his friends or a family member?

Come on, don’t believe those lame excuses of his. What can he possibly be texting his buddies about all the time?

No, it’s not his buddies, it’s someone else and you should try to find out who.

He’s always on his phone when you’re together but he never replies to your texts immediately

This one will definitely get on your nerves the most. When you’re together, he spends most of the time on his phone but when you’re texting him, he takes so long to reply to your messages.

That means you’re no longer su prioridad and that’s probably because there is someone else who he replies to immediately and who obviously became his priority.

You’ve found out that he has two cell phones

If you accidentally found out that your man bought a new phone and now uses two and he doesn’t need one for his work, then that’s definitely suspicious.

You should definitely confront him about this. Ask him why he needs two phones and more importantly, why he didn’t tell you about the existence of that other cell phone.

He doesn’t post photos of you two together and neither does he allow you to do so anymore

If you used to post photos of you two together on your social media and all of a sudden your boyfriend tells how he doesn’t want to post any anymore and asks you not to post them either, then you should find out the true reason behind it.

Of course, you can ask him but good luck with that, because he probably won’t give you the answer.

There are indeed some men who don’t like posting their photos on social media and exposing their private life in that way but they’ll say it to you at the beginning of your relationship.

De este modo, deberías aceptarlo o intentar llegar a un acuerdo con él para que al menos te deje publicar una foto de perfil de vosotros dos, pero si solía publicar fotos y eso ha cambiado, necesitas saber por qué.

Cambió su número de teléfono de repente

Si tu novio ha cambiado repentinamente de número de teléfono sin ninguna razón ni explicación, deberías empezar a preguntarte si está pasando algo en su vida de lo que no sabes nada.

De nuevo, deberías intentar tener una charla sincera con tu hombre y preguntarle por qué ha cambiado de número.

If he doesn’t give you an answer or you don’t quite believe it, then you should try to get at the bottom of it in a way that you think will be successful.

Siempre borra su historial de llamadas

Even if your boyfriend allows you to take his phone when you’re together but whenever you do that and go snooping around his phone calls and texts and there is absolutely nothing there, you should still be worried.

There is a reason why he always deletes his call history and messages before he goes out with you. He’s definitely hiding something that he doesn’t want you to find out.

However, he can’t be that careful and cover up all traces of his infidelity.

You should try to look at his phone sometimes when he’s taking a shower or when he takes out the trash and snoop around his call history then.

Let’s see what you find then.

Con frecuencia recibe llamadas telefónicas de un número desconocido

¿Le ha sorprendido un número desconocido llamándole unas cuantas veces o ha encontrado varias llamadas a algún número desconocido en su historial de llamadas y, cuando se lo ha planteado, ha intentado evitar contestarle o ha dicho que se trataba de algún número equivocado?

Well, my dear, don’t let him fool you. There are so many different ways and apps for smartphones (many apps that are compatible both with Android and iPhones) that can help you to find out whose number that is instantly.

Siempre sale de la habitación cuando alguien le llama

If he doesn’t want to answer a call around you, he whispers while he’s talking on his phone or even worse, he leaves the room when someone calls him, that is another warning sign that he’s hiding something.

Remember, there shouldn’t be any secrets between you if you’re in a healthy relationship. Of course, if it’s something related to his work, however, then that’s understandable.

He never wants to open a text message or an email while you’re around him

Whenever you’re together and he gets a text or an email, he just puts his phone in his pocket or leaves it on the table (of course, with the screen facing down), that’s a sign that he doesn’t want you to see it.

Why should he be hiding it if it’s something irrelevant or something business-related?

The next time you’re together and he does the same, ask him who’s texting him and ask him to show you his phone.

There are some nights when you can’t reach your man for hours

If he’s unavailable for several hours at night, you should definitely check what’s happening there and what the reason for that is.

I know that we’re all having a hard time wondering if our significant other may be cheating on us but if this kind of situation happens too often, you should get to the bottom of it.

As an example for what you can do, you can check the location on his Snapchat, if his Android or iPhone isn’t set to Ghost Mode, of course.

Encontraste algunos nombres extraños en su teléfono

If you’ve snooped through your boyfriend’s contacts and you’ve found some strange names, the first thing you should do is politely ask him who those people are.

Don’t jump to conclusions before you ask him to explain. Tal vez sean sus nuevos colegas o simplemente algunas personas que ha conocido recientemente.

Of course, if you don’t quite believe his answer, you can check those numbers yourself.

Solo tienes que introducir el número en tu cuenta de WhatsApp o Viber y, si esa persona utiliza alguna de esas apps, verás su foto de perfil o su nombre.

Cada vez que le pides que te dé su teléfono, se pone nervioso y se inventa una excusa para no dártelo

Of course, you should respect your partner’s privacy and not take his phone without his permission, especially if they aren’t okay with that.

Sin embargo, al menos deberían dártelo cuando se lo pidas educadamente o si necesitas que te lo presten para llamar o enviar un mensaje a alguien.

If he starts to behave awkwardly every time you ask if you can borrow his phone, then there is definitely something in it that he doesn’t want you to see or find out about.

Siempre apaga el teléfono cuando pasáis toda la noche juntos.

¿Su pareja apaga el teléfono cuando acuerdan pasar la noche juntos? ¿Crees que hay algo extraño en ello?

To be honest, I think there is. It’s okay to turn it off sometimes, when you’re on vacation, for example, because you want to relax and you don’t want to be disturbed but if it happens every time you spend the night together, then there is definitely something suspicious happening there.

Miraste en su teléfono y encontraste una aplicación de citas

Well, if this is not a sign that he’s been cheating on you or that he’s at least been thinking about it, I don’t know what is.

If you found a dating app while you were snooping through his phone, then that’s definitely an alarm sign for you to déjalo y termina esa relación.

If he truly loves you, he won’t be chatting to other women online, as you should and must be enough for him.

Puede que nunca haya tenido una cita con ninguna de esas mujeres y que nunca te haya engañado, pero instaló esa aplicación, lo que significa que se lo estaba pensando y que tarde o temprano lo haría.

You can ask him to explain why he has a dating app on his phone and why he uses it but I’m sure the only thing you’ll get is a lame excuse.

Sin embargo, no hay excusa para ello. Estaba pensando en salir con otras mujeres y that’s unforgivable.

¿Qué debe hacer?

Don’t do anything reckless before you find out the real truth. Si saca conclusiones precipitadas antes de darle a su hombre la oportunidad de explicarse, podría lamentarlo más tarde.

Maybe the real reason he’s being overly protective of his phone is that he is planning a surprise for you and doesn’t want you to find out.

If you form any conclusions regarding his infidelity without any credible proof, that’ll definitely hurt him and his feelings.

En lugar de llegar a conclusiones precipitadas, esto es lo que debes hacer para averiguar la verdad detrás de su repentino comportamiento extraño y misterioso con respecto a su teléfono móvil.

Intenta husmear en su teléfono, pero ten MUCHO cuidado.

It’s inappropriate to take someone’s phone without their permission and you should do this only if you’re almost convinced that he’s cheating.

Coge su teléfono cuando vaya a algún sitio o cuando creas que es la ocasión más adecuada para ello y revisa sus mensajes de texto y sus llamadas.

If you find some incriminating messages, don’t lose it right away. Try to talk to him first and ask him if anything is happening in his life that you should know about.

If he doesn’t admit it himself, then you should tell him that you found those messages on his phone and ask him to explain them to you.

Darle la oportunidad de explicarse es darle otra oportunidad de salvar vuestra relación, pero si sigue mintiendo al respecto, debería ser una buena razón para que termines esa relación y dejes que mienta a otra persona en su lugar.

Be careful though, as this is a very dangerous move. You shouldn’t be caught snooping on his phone because you might lose his trust then.

Busca otros signos de engaño

Si realmente tienes algunas buenas razones para empezar a preguntarte si la razón por la que esconde su teléfono es que he’s cheatingentonces debe buscar otras señales.

Habrá muchas pequeñas cosas en su comportamiento diario que pueden ayudarte a descubrir si tiene otra mujer en su vida.

Por ejemplo, si empieza a prestar más atención a su aspecto, si empieza a salir con más frecuencia o ha empezado a evitarte, todo esto es un comportamiento sospechoso y una buena razón para que empieces a dudar de su fidelidad.

Fíjate en su lenguaje corporal cuando le plantees tus dudas

Lenguaje corporal es una forma estupenda de saber cuándo alguien está intentando mentirnos. Solo tienes que prestar atención a su comportamiento y a sus movimientos cuando empieces a hablar con él sobre tus sospechas de infidelidad.

Si empieza a comportarse de forma nerviosa cuando lo mencionas, si evita el contacto visual when he’s trying to deny all of that or maybe if you’re sitting talking about this and his legs start shaking, those are all signs that he’s definitely guilty of something.

Su lenguaje corporal es uno de tus mayores aliados para descubrir la verdad. Confía en mí, incluso si tiene alta autoestima, you’ll be able to spot that he’s lying with his body language.

Presta atención a sus Tweets y publicaciones en sus redes sociales

Primero revisa todas las publicaciones en sus redes sociales de la semana pasada e intenta averiguar si hay algo sospechoso.

Did he share any songs or quotes that you can’t say are meant for you or your relationship? Did he share any Tweets about how he was feeling or what he was doing or anything else that sounds strange to you?

Again, even if you do see some posts that you can’t understand or think weren’t dedicated to you, you should ask your boyfriend about the meaning of them.

Maybe he posted something just because he liked it but maybe (and more probably), you don’t understand his posts because they weren’t meant for you but for another woman.

Conclusión

When a man hides his phone, it doesn’t have to mean that he is hiding something or that he is being unfaithful to his significant other.

Unfortunately, however, in most cases, that’s actually what’s happening when he hides his phone.

La traición duele. Que te mientan y te utilicen duele. Y lo que más nos duele es que esas cosas vengan de la persona que más queremos.

Even if you’ve found out some irrefutable shreds of evidence and you know for sure that the reason he has become so mysterious with his phone is his infidelity, the best thing you can do then is just confront him about your findings and end your relationship immediately.

Don’t even think about getting even because it will only make it all more painful for you. Accept it all as one gran lección de vida y tratar de seguir adelante lo antes posible.

Don’t give any more of your precious time to a man who never even deserved it.