Una mujer fuerte no se hace la difícil, sino que lo es.
La primera vez que conoces a una mujer fuerte, das por sentado que es egocéntrica, imposible de complacer y demasiado difícil de manejar.
A primera vista, esta chica es demasiado exigente, demasiado reservada y demasiado desafiante.
Es evidente que tiene un nivel de exigencia demasiado alto y que le gusta que la persigan. Crees que esta chica es una puta de atención que actúa con cautela hacia todos los que se acercan a ella sólo para hacer que corran tras ella.
Pero la verdad no se parece en nada a esto. The truth is that this girl knows exactly what and who she wants. And she also knows what and who she doesn’t want or need in her life.
Yes, the truth is that she doesn’t want to bajar sus estándares for just anyone. Yes, she has strong deal-breakers which she isn’t willing to change.
Sí, es muy selectiva con la gente que deja entrar en su vida y en su corazón.
But that doesn’t mean that she pretends to be someone she is not. And it definitely doesn’t mean that this is all a part of her game.
La única verdad es que esta chica ha trabajado duro para convertirse en la mujer que es hoy y que se valora a sí misma, tal y como es.
The truth is that she knows her worth and that she won’t settle for less than she deserves.
So I guess that she doesn’t play hard to get — she is hard to get. And you’ll just have to deal with that.
Don’t get me wrong — this doesn’t mean that this girl wants you to beg for her attention or love.
It doesn’t mean that she needs your expensive presents or that she expects to become the only person you care about overnight.
This doesn’t mean that she expects to be above you in any way in your relationship. She doesn’t want you treating her like a queen or for you to be grateful that she even gave you a chance.
Pero lo que sí quiere es que la mimes con lealtad. Lo que sí quiere es que sea tu prioridad número uno y alguien a quien trates con especial cariño.
Trust me — a strong woman like her will never settle for being your segunda opción .
She will never allow you to play mind games with her and the last thing she’ll do is waste her time or energy on decrypting your mixed signals or decoding your feelings for her.
She won’t settle for an immature boy who isn’t sure about what he wants and who expects her to lead him through life.
She doesn’t want a guy who will act like a child; she needs a teammate and a partner in crime.
Necesita a alguien maduro y lo suficientemente fuerte como para seguirle el ritmo en lugar de frenarla o intentar menospreciarla.
Someone who won’t be intimidated by her independence and someone who won’t expect her to change just to please him.
I’m not going to lie to you- winning this girl over isn’t a piece of cake and if you want to have her, you’ll have to put some effort into it.
You’ll have to show her that you are worthy of her and that your intentions are serious and honest.
Remember that she doesn’t mind being single. Instead, she rocks at it and she won’t trade her single life for a miserable relationship.
She won’t give up her freedom for someone who wants to cage her and who tries to control her.
Así que, la próxima vez que una mujer así te rechace, no es una señal para que te esfuerces más.
No es un juego en el que ella quiera ver si estás lo suficientemente interesado y no es una forma de aumentar su ego o su nivel de confianza.
La próxima vez que una mujer así te rechace, significa que no eres el hombre con el que ella podría imaginarse.
It means that you don’t have what it takes to be her Mr. Right.
No, this doesn’t make her cocky or pretentious. Remember that it is her right to say no to someone she doesn’t see herself next to.
Y no hay nada que puedas hacer al respecto.
