Una mujer fuerte no tiene "actitud", tiene normas
When men see a strong woman they can’t have, the first thing they’ll say is that she is demasiado exigente.
They’ll accuse her of being snobbish and for acting like she is better than them, without any reason.
When a man meets a powerful, self-confident woman who knows what she wants from life and isn’t afraid to get it, he’ll run as fast as he can. But not because he doesn’t like her.
No, he’ll run away from this woman because he is scared. Because he is intimidated by her strength and greatness and because he knows that he’ll never be enough for her.
And when a woman like this refuses him, he won’t take, “No,” for an answer. He won’t accept that she wants more from life or that her deal-breakers simply don’t allow him to be with her.
En lugar de trabajar para convertirse en la mejor versión posible de sí mismo y tener la oportunidad de conquistar a esta chica, la acusará de ser demasiado negativa y grosera.
La acusará de pensar demasiado en sí misma y de tener una actitud.
Well, let me tell you something—having an attitude and having standards are two completely different things.
Because a strong woman never has an ‘attitude’. Instead, she has strong los rompedores de acuerdos and high standards which she doesn’t want to lower for anyone.
Having boundaries and expecting everyone else to respect them isn’t attitude. It only means that you aren’t ready to go against your moral norms or values just to please someone. It means that you won’t do anything you aren’t comfortable with just for the sake of someone else.
Saying no to a guy you don’t like isn’t attitude. Tienes derecho a que te guste quien quieras y a salir con quien te dé la gana.
Just because you are not interested in a man doesn’t make you cocky or stuffy. Instead, it makes you fair because you clearly don’t want to string someone along just not to be alone.
Not wanting a relationship isn’t attitude. It means that you’ve embraced your single life and that you are enjoying every second of it. It means that you’re dedicating all of your time and energy to some more important things right now.
Walking away from a man who doesn’t treat you the way he should isn’t attitude—it’s not settling for less.
It is you showing yourself and everyone that you can’t be manipulated into staying in a lousy relationship just because you wasted years on it. You know you can do better and you are ready to remain single until the man you want and need comes along.
Cutting toxic people out of your life isn’t attitude. It means that you have enough courage to break all ties with someone who’s been in your life for a long time, simply because you see that they don’t have a good impact on your life.
It just means that you don’t want their negativity and toxicity exhausting you. You want to surround yourself with positivity and optimism and the last thing you need is emotional vampires to suck you dry.
Demanding appreciation isn’t attitude. Sólo significa que te respetas lo suficiente como para no dejar que los demás te traten de forma diferente.
Being yourself isn’t attitude. It only means that you’ve embraced your imperfections and that you are not trying to present yourself as flawless.
You’ve worked hard to become the woman you are today and you are not ready to change yourself for anyone.
You are not ready to mold yourself to fit into society’s standards or to be more likable to some and the last thing you plan on doing is comparing yourself to anyone. And whoever can’t accept the real you doesn’t deserve a place in your life.
Having high self-confidence isn’t attitude. Es no permitir que otros te disminuyan de ninguna manera posible y no permitir que la gente te trate como basura. Es saber de todo lo que eres capaz y tener fe en ti mismo.
Putting yourself first isn’t attitude. Es conocer tu autoestima y saber que darte prioridad nunca es egoísta. Es quererse a uno mismo por encima de los demás y no esperar que los demás compensen la falta de ese amor.
