Razones reales por las que los hombres eligen el cobarde acto de Ghosting

Ghosting es la peor forma de ruptura con alguien, todo por ese sentimiento persistente que permanece en nuestro corazón debido a la falta de cierre.

Juega con nuestra cabeza, nos llena de dudas y destruye nuestra confianza en nosotros mismos.

Te deja incapaz de seguir adelante con tu vida porque estás constantemente cuestionándolo todo, preguntándote si has sido tú y sin saber cómo solucionarlo.

You make all these excuses for him but deep down… you know it’s not the case.

It’s a really crappy dating habit that is plaguing today’s society and here are some insightful reasons why men resort to this horrendous way of breaking our heart:

1. Es un vago

A veces, los chicos son así de inmaduros.

He may have lost the interest he previously had in you and instead of being a man and letting you down gently, he’ll stop any and all communication.

The worst part is that he probably doesn’t even see it as a problem.

He’ll just stop answering and act as if it’s the most normal thing in the world and move on to some other girl, while you’re desperately trying to figure out what you did wrong.

Los tíos pueden ser unos gilipollas inmaduros a veces.

2. He doesn’t have the balls to tell you how he feels

Sometimes, guys are afraid of how we’re going to react. As if women are some kind of time bombs that are going to explode when broken up with.

Vamos, ¡danos algo de crédito!

So instead of dealing with their emotions and sending us a text saying they’re not interested in continuing this, they’ll disappear and hope we won’t lose our shit at them.

And it’s just easier to resort to fantasma que tener que responder a nuestra simple pregunta, preguntándose qué ha ido mal.

3. He’s keeping his options open

Guys have this deluded belief that if they don’t technically end things with you, there’s a chance later if they decide to hit us up again while searching for someone better.

This is such a twisted way of thinking and keeping their options open, in case they don’t find anyone better than you.

They believe this to be okay since they never really broke it off in the first place. They just didn’t text, call or reply.

4. Quiere evitar tus sentimientos

A veces los chicos piensan que dejarte sin decir nada va a dejarte menos herida que hacer toda la charla de ruptura.

Como si de alguna manera estuvieran perdonando tus sentimientos.

Es gracioso, lo sé, pero algunos se lo creen de verdad.

Como si no tener ningún cierre y sentarse allí preguntándose qué diablos salió mal podría de alguna manera ser mejor que escuchar una razón válida de por qué quiere terminar las cosas.

In reality, this is all just about protecting his own feelings, rather than your own. He might actually believe that he’s doing it for you but deep down, he’s protecting himself.

5. He just doesn’t really care

This is the worst kind of guy. One who truly doesn’t give a shit about how he makes you feel.

He’ll be with you for as long as it’s convenient for him but the minute he gets bored or finds someone else, he’ll just leave without a word and not care how much it hurts.

He’ll know that it will suck for you not having any closure but he just won’t care to give it to you. Really classy.

6. No tiene ni idea de qué decir

He is really bad at breaking up. He panics and doesn’t know what to say as he will probably only make it worse, so he does the only thing he knows—leaves without a trace.

This kind of guy doesn’t really want to hurt you and even though he definitely is making it hard on you, he’s really just the type of guy who doesn’t handle pressure of any kind well.

It sucks, I know. And you should in no way feel sorry for him but hey, at least he’s better than the guy who genuinely doesn’t give a shit, right?

7. 7. Falta de tiempo

Pero es la excusa más absurda. Un mensaje de texto rápido son, literalmente, 20 segundos de tu tiempo.

Puede que esté ahogado en trabajo y obligaciones, pero todo hombre debería tener la decencia de terminar las cosas con gracia y respeto.

Si tienes tiempo para tomarte un descanso en el trabajo, tienes tiempo para una llamada o un mensaje de texto. Muy sencillo.