10 cose che gli introversi desiderano nelle relazioni sentimentali

Sapete come sono. La misteriosa specie che chiamiamo "introversi".

They’re so shy and they don’t like to be forced to work in groups or go out to parties. This might be a problem if you’re an extrovert but still love and appreciate your introverted partner.

Quindi, per rendervi le cose un po' più semplici, in quanto introverso, sento di potervi dare qualche indicazione su ciò che un introverso vuole dal proprio partner romantico.

Sit down, have a cup of tea and let us dive into the world of the ‘complicated’ introvert.

Conversazioni consapevoli

If an introvert fell in love with you, that means that you’ve shown them the depths of your mind and that you have a lot to offer in conversations.

Now, don’t let them down, continue talking with them because they need it like you need oxygen to get through every day.

Se avete qualcosa da offrire, un argomento diverso ogni giorno, un introverso vi ringrazierà.

Tempo

An introvert isn’t an open book so that means that you will have to invest some time and energy to get to know them.

We don’t know how to talk about ourselves so you need to ask direct questions.

But, if you really want to get to know us, you will need to ask us about our opinions on certain topics and let us talk about things we’re passionate about.

Spazio personale

So quanto sia carino coccolarsi 24 ore su 24, 7 giorni su 7, ma... un introverso non è adatto a questo.

Abbiamo bisogno di allontanarci a un certo punto, per sentirci davvero vivi. Abbiamo bisogno di tempo per l'autosviluppo, per prenderci cura di noi stessi.

Which means that I will shut myself in a room with my books, so don’t interrupt me!

Fedeltà

As introverts, we don’t go around and cheat on our partners, so we expect you to be faithful as well.

This is something everyone wants, but, for sure, if you deceive an introvert, they won’t think twice about leaving you.

Don’t be overly suspicious

If I have a close group of friends with whom I spend a lot of time and if a couple of them are boys, you don’t need to be suspicious of me hanging out with them.

Just because I spend a lot of time with them doesn’t mean that I’m cheating on you, believe me.

I just don’t get along with too many people so I’d like to stay close to the ones who really like me for who I am.

We’re sensitive to conflict

As you might know, it’s not just that we don’t like raised voices, we also hate when we’re in a fight with someone we care about a lot.

This is sometimes not OK because we’ll be trying to avoid conflict at all costs and maybe even say that we’re sorry even if it’s not our fault.

Vogliamo trascorrere del tempo di qualità con voi

If you keep looking at your phone while you’re with us, we might get extremely offended and just stand up e allontanarsi.

You may think that this isn’t such a huge deal for us, but it is. If we’re on a date, then we want all your attention on us.

Vogliamo che sappiate che vi amiamo

Gli introversi non sono molto bravi a esprimere le loro emozioni, ma voglio che sappiate che il vostro introverso vi ama.

Just because they don’t say it that often doesn’t mean they don’t.

They simply don’t want to be too open about their feelings because they fear that they might get hurt.

Don’t force anything

I need and I want time. An introvert can’t just fall in love with you at the drop of a hat or even just do something for you that you asked them to do, because they might feel attacked by your outgoing personality.

Don’t try forcing them to go to a party or forcing them to do a simple task like meeting your parents. You might not know it, but those things are WAAAAAAY out of the comfort zone of an introvert and they will need time for that.

Hanno bisogno di riflettere su tutto. Quindi siate pazienti con noi.

Silence is golden; you don’t need to talk, show it with actions

Show us that you love us. We don’t need you to have a big talk about our future, about how much you love us.

Abbiamo bisogno di vedere le vostre azioni.

With that, I don’t mean expensive gifts, I mean with little things, like being nice to our closest ones. Those actions can make me go wild for you, I can promise you this.