10 cose che gli uomini non notano di te (anche se tu pensi che lo facciano)

Alzi la mano chi ha mai temuto che le sue ciglia si incollassero!

Raise your hand if you’ve ever been worried about matching colors on your outfit! (Don’t worry; I’m sure we’re not the only ones).

Last night I was dressing for a date, and I couldn’t decide which lipstick I should put on—the only difference between the two was that one was a shade brighter than the other one!

So, I applied the first one, and I thought okay, this doesn’t look that bad at all. But, then I decided to try the other one, and the answer was the same.

Così, ho fissato questi due rossetti, aspettando che iniziassero a parlarmi o che in qualche modo mi inviassero magicamente un segnale su quale applicare.

Poi mi sono reso conto di quanto sono stupido.

I mean, why I am even bothering so much about it because my date won’t probably even notice that I’m wearing one (let alone if it is one shade brighter or darker)?!

La verità è che gli uomini vengono da un altro pianeta, and they simply don’t see things as we, women do.

They don’t really notice all those details about your makeup, outfit, shoes, body, and hair that you’re paying so much attention to.

Così, per risparmiarsi inutili problemi in futuro.

Here are 10 things men don’t really notice about you even though you think they do!

1. Le smagliature

No matter how much guys are self-critical about themselves, they will never beat a woman’s obsession about her stretch marks and “flaws”.

It’s simply in our natures to count and remember every hidden spot of our imperfections and remind ourselves daily of them.

But, the truth is that he doesn’t even notice any of it!

Quando un ragazzo vede il vostro corpo nudo, ne rimane troppo ipnotizzato per poter pensare alle sue imperfezioni.

L'unica cosa che vede e sente è la tua nudità, le tue bellissime forme femminili, la sensazione e il profumo della tua pelle.

As a matter of fact, guys are actually happy to see your stretch marks (especially in your most covered places) because to them, this is something that’s for their eyes only—no one else can see it or know about it. (Weird, I know).

2. La vostra abilità nel trucco

While you might be all fussy about applying the perfect amount of mascara so that your eyelashes don’t stick together, guys will only see that you have eyelashes.

While you might be all fussy about applying the perfect lipstick, guys will only see that you’re a woman, you have lips, and you’re wearing lipstick.

They don’t really notice the color of your lipstick or anything else.

They only see that your lips are nicely ‘colored’, and that they will have to be careful about kissing you in public, so that they don’t get ‘colored’, too.

3. La scelta del cibo al ristorante

A volte le donne tendono a preoccuparsi troppo di ciò che devono mangiare quando sono con i loro uomini.

You don’t want to order the XXL burger because you’re afraid that you’ll look funny while desperately trying to open your mouth wide enough in order to be able to consume it.

Or you worry that you’ll order troppo cibo e apparire ridicolo di fronte a lui.

But, guys don’t really pay attention to what you’re eating and especially how much you’re eating.

They only see that you’re eating, you’re healthy, and you’re confident enough to eat that XXL burger and not give a damn about anything else.

4. I vostri chili di troppo

While you might continually question your guy whether you look fat in that dress, he will instantly tell you that you don’t.

If you ask him whether you’ve gained some extra pounds, he will tell you that you didn’t because HE doesn’t notice it!

The only time a guy will notice that you’ve gained some extra pounds is if you become twice as big as you were.

5. Le vostre scarpe nuove (o qualsiasi scarpa)

Let’s say that you bought new shoes, and you’re about to show them to your guy to ask his opinion.

And the only thing he says is: “Nice shoes.” And the chances are if you didn’t show him, he will never even notice them! And do you know why?

Because they don’t pay that much attention to shoes (as long as you’re not barefoot), and guys’ dictionaries doesn’t have that much space for words about shoes.

They only know about the existence of SHOES—heels, boots, slippers, and that’s about it.

6. Le vostre rughe

While you keep counting those wrinkles on your forehead or around your eyes and you even start seriously thinking about getting some Botox, your guy won’t notice any of it if you don’t tell him.

L'unica cosa che i ragazzi vedono è il tuo sorriso e quanto sei bella!

7. Le radici non tinte e cresciute dei capelli

In un momento in cui è una tendenza avere radici cresciute, la vera domanda è: i ragazzi dovrebbero notarle?

Of course, they are not. (And no, they don’t notice them either way.)

L'unica cosa che notano dei vostri capelli è se sono lavati, se hanno un buon profumo e se sono lunghi o corti.

Quei dettagli come le radici cresciute, i colpi di sole e le altre stranezze non sono visibili ai loro occhi.

8. Le sopracciglia

Per ogni donna, le sopracciglia sono uno degli elementi più importanti per la bellezza del viso.

Perché le sopracciglia hanno il potere di accentuare e modellare il viso nel modo più presentabile.

And while you might be spending hours trying to get the perfect shape, guys don’t really notice your efforts unless your eyebrows look like the Nike logo.

9. La vostra abilità nell'abbinare i colori

Mentre voi vi preoccupate di abbinare i calzini al colore delle mutande, i ragazzi si preoccupano solo che abbiate ancora le mutande (se capite cosa intendo).

You could match deep pink with beige and some green, and guys won’t notice it.

They only see that you’re wearing clothes, and the only time they’ll notice your matching colors is if you go fluorescent from head to toe.

10. That you’re not wearing makeup

You might go all crazy when you’re not truccarsi, thinking that all of your imperfections will come to light, but guys won’t even notice that you’re not wearing it.

Anche senza ombretto, i vostri occhi sembrano ancora brillanti, le vostre labbra sono ancora attraenti per loro, e vedono ancora la stessa donna con lo stesso bel viso.

E quando ci si trucca, non sono in grado di notare alcuna differenza significativa, a meno che non si tratti di qualcosa di veramente eccentrico.