10 domande che segretamente moriamo dalla voglia di fare agli uomini

Vivere nell'era moderna significa avere molteplici possibilità di comunicazione, ma significa anche la morte del quell'amore vintage e relazioni.

Anche se noi donne (proprio come gli uomini) abbiamo la libertà di fare ciò che vogliamo, ci sono ancora alcune domande che non poniamo mai agli uomini perché temiamo di apparire troppo serie o spaventate dalle possibili risposte.

Whatever it be, it is never a good idea to hush your inner voice whispering to you to ask certain questions; they might be of crucial importance for your relationship! So, here’s a list of questions to remind yourself to ask him because you definitely should!

1. “What are we?”

When you just start dating a guy, it is normal to start questioning in which direction the whole thing is heading. But, most of the times, women are afraid to ask this because they don’t want to appear too pushy and scare the guy away by doing it.

If you’re not sure about what you two really are, you should definitely ask him because there’s no point to living in a delusion when one question can resolve all the doubts you might have.

2. “How many people have you slept with?”

Molte donne trovano questa domanda davvero imbarazzante, e in effetti lo è, ma è necessaria. Chiedendogli con quante persone è stato a letto, potrete capire il suo livello di esperienza con le donne e anche che tipo di persona è. Potete anche chiedergli con quante persone ha fatto l'amore per vedere la sua reazione e i suoi pensieri in merito.

3. “What do you think about our relationship being public on social media?”

You don’t want to add thousands of pictures of him and you on your social media only to realize that he doesn’t want the relationship to be public. So, asking him what he thinks about the relationship being public on social media is of utmost importance if you want to see if he’s into mediocre, storia d'amore casuale o qualcosa di più serio.

If he says that he’s okay with it, it means he wants other people to know that you’re his and that he’s yours. But, if he’s not really okay with it, then it means he either needs more time or he’s actually interested in having an open relationship.

4. “Where do you see us as a couple in the future?”

Talking about the future on a first date is a big no-no, but you should definitely mention it later on to see his opinion regarding you as a couple. If he says that he doesn’t have any thoughts on this one, then it means he can’t yet see his future with you at the moment. But, if he’s already planned everything, then you can be sure that it’s the real deal.

5. “Have you ever had any substance abuse problems?”

È davvero difficile capire se una persona ha mai avuto problemi di abuso di sostanze ed è anche molto imbarazzante chiederlo. Tuttavia, per il bene del vostro benessere e della vostra relazione, dovreste assolutamente chiederglielo. Le persone con una storia di abuso di sostanze hanno maggiori possibilità di rivivere il problema e per questo è importante conoscere tutti i dettagli.

6. “Have you ever committed a crime or been arrested?”

If you’re going to be with someone in a relationship, it means you’ll spend lots of time with them. That is why it is important to be informed whether they have ever committed a crime or been arrested. The last thing you want is to inadvertently become his accomplice or be seen in a negative light because of his deeds. Also, this might negatively influence the quality of your relationship.

7. “Are you in debt?”

Being in debt after finishing college is one thing, but being in debt to the extent that you can’t see a way out of it is quite another. If your guy is in huge debt, it means he has a serious financial problem, which can affect your relationship negatively in future.

8. “What are your secret fantasies (in the bedroom)?”

Being intimate with someone includes reciprocity and you won’t be able to reciprocate in full until you’ve learned what your partner prefers in bed, their fantasie segretee simili. Per questo è importante parlarne con lui. In questo modo, aumenterete le possibilità di fare l'amore in modo straordinario e imparerete molto su di lui.

9. “Do you have a lot of female friends?”

Chiedergli delle sue amicizie femminili non è un segno di gelosia, ma saltare su ogni messaggio con un nome femminile lo è sicuramente. Quindi, è sempre saggio chiedergli delle sue possibili amicizie femminili, in modo da sapere come reagire in futuro quando vedrete spuntare dei messaggi sul suo telefono.

10. “What’s your phone password?”

If he asked you for your phone password, and you think it’s rude to ask him for his, then think again. You shouldn’t feel embarrassed to ask for his phone password, especially if you feel like you can’t trust him one hundred percent.

And if he becomes hesitant to give it to you, then you will know he’s probably nascondendovi qualcosache vi aiuterà a determinare il flusso della vostra relazione.