10 segni che è solo un altro stronzo egoista
Quando siamo innamorati tendiamo a trascurare i difetti dell'altro, perché siamo così follemente innamorati che lo consideriamo perfetto.
But it’s one thing to ignore it if he never puts clothes in the washing machine or forgets to do the dishes, but it’s a completely different thing to ignore that his selfish ass is not capable of loving anyone but himself.
If you feel like you’re the giver in the relationship and like you’re screaming at a brick wall but nothing is happening, you could be stuck in a relationship with a selfish man.
Check for other signs that he’s just another selfish asshole you should cacciate dalla vostra vita!
1. Parla solo di se stesso
He’s so involved with himself that there’s hardly any time left for you to talk about yourself.
E c'è sempre qualche dramma nella sua vita o qualche lode da cantare a se stesso.
Quando cercate di parlare di voi stessi, vi interrompe con la stessa cosa che gli è successa l'altro giorno.
There’s no way in hell you can feel special, because that man is one hell of a one-upper and a show thief.
2. He never shows interest in how you’re doing
In healthy relationships, it’s normal to check up on your partner regularly and make sure that they’re doing okay.
Your partner is not there for you to vent to him and just go on with your life, while they’re the one taking the weight.
And if you feel like he’s constantly doing this to you, using you as a trash bin for his drama, but he never seems to be interested in how you’re doing, let him go.
Un uomo che non è in grado di chiederti della tua giornata è incapace di amarti nel modo in cui meritate di essere amati.
3. He’s selfish in the bedroom
He doesn’t really care if you finish or not, as long as he finishes. He’s extremely selfish when it comes to providing you with pleasure in the bedroom and the only time you’re actually getting it on is when he’s interested.
That behavior will soon transfer to other parts of your life, not just the bedroom—are you sure he’s worth it?
4. He doesn’t know the meaning of the word compromise
Quando abbiamo una relazione, uniamo due mondi, due vite, in una sola. Il compromesso è davvero necessario per far funzionare le cose.
If he’s not interested in compromising and his way is the only way, it means that he is too selfish to give up on his life and the things he loves for you but he expects you to do it for him.
A man who doesn’t care about your happiness doesn’t care about you. The only person he si preoccupa di se stesso.
5. He’s highly concerned about your looks
Another sign of him being selfish is that he’s highly concerned about the way you look and the clothes you wear.
If he’s going to be seen with you, he wants you to look your best. He has a reputation to keep, you know? It doesn’t matter if he hurts your feelings in the process.
6. You’re only doing things that are of interest to him
The thing with selfish men is that they’re interested only in the things they can benefit from.
Whether it’s being nice to you, so he can get something from you or taking you to a certain show where his boss will be, there is always a reason for him to do things.
And even if you don’t see it at first, trust me, it’s there. Just try to think of how many times he’s done something just because you felt like it.
7. He interrupts you—all the time
Especially in public. He needs to show that he is the man, he’s the one in charge and his opinion is the best one.
He is the smartest, the best and the most skillful man you could meet and you’re just his silly girlfriend.
Un uomo che non ha interesse a lasciare che la sua donna mostri la sua esperienza e le sue conoscenze è un uomo con problemi di autostima che ha bisogno di sminuire tutti per sentirsi meglio con se stesso.
And that’s a man who will try to hold you back from the future you deserve, just because he needs to be more successful than you are.
8. You’re always the one to apologize
He can never take the blame, simply because he’s the perfect one. How could he do something wrong? He did that only because he knows what’s best for you.
That’s a man who is so good at guilt-tripping that you actually end up feeling guilty for being the one who is hurt, so you apologize to him.
If you notice a pattern that you’re always the one apologizing, while he’s the perfect one, think about your relationship. You can’t always be the one to blame.
9. He always reminds you about how much he’s doing for you
While he’s incapable of apologizing and looking after your feelings, he’s perfectly capable of reminding you of the things he does for you.
Una volta ha portato i tuoi vestiti in tintoria e ne parla per tutto il mese successivo.
Ogni volta che gli chiedete di aiutarvi con qualcosa, lui ve lo sbatte in faccia.
Siete davvero pronti ad ascoltarlo per il resto della vostra vita? O anche per il resto della settimana?
10. Ti fa aspettare
You’re having dates when it’s convenient for him and going out only when he feels like it.
You’re texting only when he’s interested in doing so and that’s so rare you often think that the guy died. If he doesn’t make time for you, stop waiting for him.
Ti meriti di più di un uomo che ti fa fissare uno schermo vuoto e che ti fa aspettare solo perché sa che tu aspetterai.
Sai di meritare molto di più, quindi perché ti accontenti del suo culo egoista?
