10 tipi di manipolazione emotiva
Tutti noi abbiamo incontrato questo tipo di persone almeno una volta nella nostra vita, probabilmente in una relazione sentimentale, e fa malissimo sapere che il nostro partner ci ha manipolato che ci hanno fatto credere che quelli che ci hanno mostrato fossero sentimenti veri.
So, without further ado, I’m giving all the ways of emotional manipulation, so you can recognize it the next time you see it!
La vittima
You’ve met ‘the victim’ for sure at least once in your life. You simply know that it’s them every time they open their mouth.
“I’m just not good enough,” “You don’t love me anymore,” “You’re being so rude to me, I’m fragile, can’t you see?”
Qualunque cosa accada, queste persone sono sempre insicure di qualcosa nella loro vita e non sanno mai cosa fare. Il loro obiettivo è ottenere la vostra approvazione e farvi compatire.
Perché?
Well, they’re not called ‘victims’ for no reason. They want all of you to feel sorry for them and they give you all the power to make them feel better again because they can’t make themselves feel better.
Potreste sentirvi sopraffatti da questo tipo di persona e litigare spesso con lei a causa dei suoi continui cambiamenti di umore.
L'esperto di TUTTO
Queste persone mi prosciugano di più perché il loro costante bisogno di essere migliori di chiunque altro è così forte che in qualche modo riescono a non mostrare mai le loro insicurezze.
Ma immaginate quanto debba essere vulnerabile e insicura una persona per avere costantemente bisogno di paragonarsi a voi e cercare di sminuirvi dicendo quanto sia migliore di voi.
How they are above you and you aren’t worthy of their time. These people drain others with their toxic personalities.
Riescono a rendervi pieni delle loro insicurezze e ve le fanno notare costantemente, in modo che possiate vedere ogni piccolo errore che avete commesso. Scappate da queste persone.
Il tipo di flirt
Quando si tratta di queste persone, non si può fare altro che guardarle e ridere di loro.
Danno così tanto di sé agli altri da sembrare disperati.
Forse perché lo sono? Di sicuro hai un'amica che è un tipo civettuolo di una persona tossica. Yeah, you know, the one who doesn’t have boundaries.
She will flirt with every ex you’ve ever had, with your guy friends, maybe even your boyfriend. She has no limit.
Cercherà di distruggere la vostra relazione e di farvi sentire infelici senza che ve ne accorgiate!
Il difensore personale
OK, you’ve done something wrong and it hurt someone. You admit it right away. But not this person because everyone else is to blame but them.
They are never the one whose fault it is that something is broken or some project didn’t end up the way it should’ve.
They’ll make you believe that you’re the one who messed it all up and they will never be the one to blame for anything.
L'esplosione di rabbia
“WHY WOULD YOU EVEN ASK ME THAT? HOW STUPID CAN YOU BE?!” I’ve dated questo tipo di manipolatore emotivo.
In realtà, molti dei miei fidanzati erano così, ma non ho mai notato lo schema.
I just thought that I was too clingy and that I was the one to blame. But I wasn’t.
I never was. It’s just that they are angry at themselves for some reason, for not achieving a certain goal or something like that.
So don’t bother with these people. They have anger management issues and it shouldn’t actually be something you need to worry about. They are not angry at you. They are angry at themselves.
Il bugiardo innocente
They’ll make up a story just to sound more interesting.
They want you to like them so they won’t make any excuse for that because why would they? It’s an innocent lie. But be careful.
You won’t ever know if they’re telling the truth about an important matter.
They might even tell lies about you and claim that, “Well, you didn’t say it like that,” or, “Ohh, I must have misunderstood you.”
Il forte debole
You’ve probably seen girls who keep playing the victim in relationships just because they are the ‘weaker’ gender and they make their partner feel like they need to look out for them constantly just so they won’t be sad.
You want to make them feel better somehow, but it doesn’t work. They’re just a stupid crybaby.
Il triangolo
Weird name, right? I don’t know what else to call them. These are the people who are nice to their victim and play all innocent just to gain their trust.
Quando ce l'hanno, vanno da qualcun altro (o addirittura da tutti gli altri?) solo per raccontargli tutti i vostri piccoli segreti.
They want the approval and love of all the people they can surround themselves with, so they use the advantage they have to always know what’s going on and to simply gossip. Apparently, they don’t have their own life.
L'aggressivo
If you don’t do what they want you to do, potrebbero farvi del male.
Or at least threaten to do so. Their vocabulary is a combination of curse words and threats that they’ll hurt you.
Don’t take them seriously, just try talking to them in a nice manner. If that doesn’t work either, just leave. It’s not worth it.
The ‘all-in-one’
This is probably an exaggeration, but there are people in this world who are multiple emotional manipulators and we didn’t recognize them until now.
They can be the weak victims who threaten to kill you if you don’t do what you want. So it’s really an interesting combination.
Ora? Ora sapete cosa dovete osservare nelle persone per capire se sono manipolatori emotivi.
A volte si camuffano molto bene, ma credetemi, prima o poi mostreranno i loro colori.
Just keep your distance from these people and don’t dedicate your time and attention to them. You’ll feel more drained than you have ever felt before.
