5 segni che non è complicato: è solo uno stronzo manipolatore
Tendiamo a romanticizzare gli uomini che sono semplicemente SBAGLIATI per noi. È ora che le donne smettano di tollerare gli uomini che le trattano di merda, smettano di giustificarli dicendo che sono troppo "complicati". Basta.
Non dovremmo accettare chi ci fa cose orribili e poi usare la nostra compassione e comprensione.
If you’re with a guy who makes excuses by telling you he’s complicated, then you should read these 5 signs carefully, because it could easily turn out he’s just a manipulative asshole or even just un semplice giocatore.
Tutto sembra andare bene, ma poi improvvisamente si allontana da voi senza alcuna spiegazione.
Avete iniziato a frequentarvi e tutto va alla grande. Poi, si tira indietro all'improvviso e inizia a ignorarvi. He later justifies it by telling you he’s scared and confused by his love for you.
Actually, he doesn’t know what he really wants, so he plays mind games with you. You don’t need
Actually, he doesn’t know what he really wants, so he plays mind games with you. You don’t need this, because real men don’t play games.
He justifies his abusive behavior towards you by saying he’s having a very difficult time in his life
He treats you really badly; abuses you verbally, emotionally and/or physically; and then he explains that the reason behind all of the shit he does is just because he’s having a very difficult time in his life.
But the thing is—nobody has the right to treat you like crap just because they’re having
But the thing is—nobody has the right to treat you like crap just because they’re having hard time. You shouldn’t tolerate someone who doesn’t respect you at all, no matter what his excuse is!
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He is extremely romantic, BUT only when he needs something in return, OR when he wants to crawl back to you after you decided to ditch him because of all the bad stuff he’s done
This is the oldest trick in the book. They become so romantic and gentle when they need something in return. You will thank God that he finally started showing his “suppressed” love.
Mi dispiace farvi venire un dubbio, ma lo fa solo perché vuole qualcosa da voi. Il più delle volte si tratta di una tattica manipolatoria per entrare nelle vostre mutande. Dai, puoi fare di meglio!
Another disgusting reason for faking affection is when he sees you’re done with him after all the mess he made. Then, he will try to trick you by pretending to be so loving, just so you will forgive his manipulative ass.
Perhaps, it will make you think that he’s changed, but these people NEVER change.
Non ha amici veri
If you date a guy long enough, normally you meet the people around him. So, if you notice that there is literally not a single person who is his real friend—that is a huge red flag.
Non importa quanto siamo complicati, ci sono sempre persone che vedono il buono in noi.
However, if this guy doesn’t have any close friends, you should think about it a little. Why is it so?
It’s probably because all the people around him recognized him as a manipulator, and kicked him out of their lives.
He makes you do things you don’t like in order to prove your love
He’s sensitive. He’s fragile. He needs much more love and affection than anyone else. So, you decided to prove your love in every possible way.
Il risultato? Lui la sta usando per manipolarvi e ottenere le cose di cui ha bisogno, come la vostra presenza costante, il sesso, il denaro, ecc.
Alla fine vi sentirete in trappola e infelici. Ogni volta che sposterete la vostra attenzione su qualcosa o qualcun altro, lui vi accuserà di essere egoisti.
He can make you feel as if you’re neglecting him because he has power to manipulate you.
Care signore, siate prudenti e intelligenti. Il più delle volte le cose non sono come sembrano.
Don’t let toxic manipulators trick you. And remember—it’s not your fault, he’s just an ass!
