5 segni precoci che il tuo ragazzo non è giusto per te
Gli appuntamenti sono difficili. Ci vuole molto tempo ed energia per trovare qualcuno che faccia al caso vostro e, ad essere onesti, dovrete sopportare molti ragazzi che non fanno al caso vostro.
One thing is for sure—it’s better to end things sooner: The moment you realize he is not good for you, and there is no hope he’ll ever be, you should move on.
Vi presentiamo 5 segnali di cui dovreste essere consapevoli fin dall'inizio, perché significano che il vostro ragazzo non è la persona giusta per voi:
1. Vi fa sapere che ha altre opzioni.
He keeps telling you about all the other girls that flirt with him. He definitely doesn’t make you feel like you’re the one. This is a huge red flag because it means he isn’t ready to commit to you.
This is especially difficult for girls with low self-esteem because they already think they’re not good enough. Well, screw him if he can’t make you feel like you’re his one and only. You don’t deserve to feel like one of many.
2. Non ti porta mai ad un vero appuntamento.
He always invites you to hang around at his or your house, but you never actually go out and do things. This is alarming because it says he doesn’t really try to impress you and to show you you’re special to him.
Forse non è pronto a farsi vedere con voi. Forse è pigro, o sta solo cercando di essere economico, ma questo tipo di persona diventerà presto noiosa per voi.
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3. Ti tiene lontano dai tuoi amici.
Your friends and family are the people who know you best. They are usually the ones to recognize red flags way before you. If your new boyfriend avoids all contacts with your friends and family, that’s a sign that he probably doesn’t think your relationship is something serious.
4. He doesn’t support you.
He knows you have an important interview tomorrow, but he doesn’t even think it’s important. Only things that are important for him matter. He laughs at your ideas openly.
He doesn’t express his support for your plans and dreams, so how do you think you’ll make it work in the long run with this guy, huh?
5. Tiene il punteggio.
Every time he does something for you, it’s not a favor, but a debt. He will bring that up all the time and he will expect you to do something for him in return. He is the type of person with a huge pride, and he hardly admits he’s wrong about something.
He keeps score about your fights—who was right and who was wrong. This kind of person is annoyingly petty in a relationship. You don’t need that kind of additional mental work in your life.
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