5 segreti per gli sms che lo faranno impazzire per te

I segreti per gli sms che vi aiuteranno a fargli perdere la testa sembrano il sogno di ogni ragazza... giusto? Ma indovinate un po'?

It’s not! It’s a reality, and you’re about to be really happy you are reading this.

Al giorno d'oggi non si può fare a meno di inviare messaggi di testo.

Ever since the modernization of technology, people of all ages have found themselves in the midst of this texting craze, and whether we like it or not, it’s become as natural as breathing to us at this point.

But let’s all be honest. As nice as it may have been in the olden days when this type of communication was nothing but pure fiction, none of us can really imagine our life without being able to instantly message literally anyone we want on this Earth.

That’s a privilege in itself, and it makes our lives so much easier. And when it comes to dating, texting is pretty much our saving grace.

You’re on a date with a guy and you don’t want it to end, so when you get home, what do you do?

Tu mandagli un messaggio e probabilmente va avanti per un'ora o due.

And if you didn’t have that option, you’d just be rewinding the night in your head, totally paranoid, afraid he didn’t like it as much as you did, but not being able to know for sure, and it would be nightmarish for you…

But texting assures immediate affirmation and an incredible sigh of relief when the guy immediately texts you he had the best time as well and can’t wait for round two.

Ma se volete davvero fargli perdere la testa, c'è una serie di segreti per gli sms che potrebbero rendere l'intero processo molto più facile.

We, as women, oftentimes tend to get a little overly excited when we’re really crushing on a guy, that we let ourselves come off a little too overbearing while trying to seem effortless.

Texting secrets are really simple and nothing you can’t keep up with.

All that’s important here is that you don’t let your head get too lost while daydreaming of him in order to come off cool, collected and fun; all of which you are!

Invece di passare un sacco di tempo a cercare di trovare la cosa perfetta da dire e a pensare a ogni minimo dettaglio (e di impazzire nel frattempo), potete fargli provare desiderio per voi con qualche piccolo asso nella manica.

When texting, it’s advisable to try and be as clear as possible in a fun, casual way, so that your message is received loud and clear, and you’ve come off effortless and cute.

To make it as easy on you as possible, I’ve come up with a few cool, useful tips on texting to get your point across with ease and make him go crazy for you without having to break a sweat!

5 segreti per gli sms che lo faranno impazzire per te!

Don’t think about the perfect conversation starter, and focus on making him smile!

When you’re starting to text a guy, it can a be a lot of work just trying to say the right thing at the right time and just hoping he gets what you’re trying to say without things getting lost in translation.

Cerchiamo sempre di trovare la cosa perfetta da dire che permetta alla conversazione di continuare per un po' e che sia di sostanza e non solo di rispondere per il gusto di essere educati.

Che ne dite di questo? Invece di cercare di attirare la sua attenzione e di costringerlo a rispondere, provate a pensare a qualcosa di carino, leggero e divertente da dire, che gli strappi un sorriso non appena apre il messaggio!

You’re the only one who knows what that could be. Perhaps something from your first date that happened and he thought it was funny?

Forse avete detto qualcosa di impertinente a un ragazzo che stava cercando di lavorarvi, e lui ha pensato che foste una vera dura a gestire la situazione?

Think of something along the lines of that, remind him of how funny and cute you are, and he’ll start loving seeing your name grace his screen in no time!

Sii stuzzicante!

If you’re still in the friend stage (but trying to level up) or if you’re already dating, teasing over text is one the hottest things you can do without having to literally barely move a finger.

Teasing is the sexiest thing you can do to your guy while texting to drive him absolutely bananas and make him can’t wait to see you again.

Il segreto degli sms consiste nel torturarlo lentamente e fargli desiderare di teletrasportarsi da voi all'istante!

Accendete questa fiamma in lui e dategli una visione di ciò che lo aspetta in seguito.

Tentatelo con frasi che sapete che can’t resist and put all those sexy ideas in his head so that he won’t be able to think about anything else for the rest of the day.

Even if you’re still trying to get to the dating stage, you can totally innocently flirt and make him see just how sultry and eager you are, but in a subtle (though sexy) manner.

Let him know how much you’d enjoy his presence right now, but since you can’t… you’re just going to have to find something to do by yourself (which will make him want to come over ASAP).

Le domande aperte sono la chiave per una conversazione di qualità!

Don’t ask him things you know he can simply reply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ to. Try to be more innovative.

Fate in modo che voglia rispondere a qualcosa di più lungo di una o due parole.

Ask him personal things that he’ll have to (but also want to) elaborate on.

Create a positive, interesting texting environment where he’ll feel safe to share with you parts of himself that are personal and important to him.

Questo si trasformerà lentamente in una conversazione completa e sostanziosa e, prima che ve ne rendiate conto, questo ragazzo si aprirà con voi più di quanto entrambi vi aspettavate.

Just don’t be too invasive too soon. If you see he’s reluctant to speak on certain matters, table them for later when you’re more serious and more secure.

Follow his lead and go as far as you think he’d be okay with.

After the conversation, he’ll feel really pleased and feel safe to talk to you about almost anything, and you could soon become his number one confidante!

Condividete qualcosa di personale su di voi che lo farà sentire più vicino a voi!

Non c'è niente che colleghi le persone più delle storie personali che sono davvero importanti per noi e che ci rendono ciò che siamo.

And sharing something deep with the guy you’re texting with might make him feel like you’re comfortable enough to tell him deeper, vulnerable stuff.

Gli darà l'idea che questo sta diventando qualcosa di vero e autentico.

Naturalmente, il tempismo è tutto.

If you’ve only started texting and there are definite sparks there, wait it out, and keep it fresh and fun.

Ma quando sentite di poter condividere qualcosa di più significativo senza potenzialmente spaventarlo, potete decidere di raccontargli qualcosa di voi che non molti conoscono.

Test the waters first, and see if he’s ready for this. If you feel like he is, bring out the big guns.

As I’ve already mentioned, the texting secret here is nothing too complicated. It’s the simplicity of this that makes it so inviting.

Il tempismo e il ritmo sono gli unici due fattori a cui dovete prestare attenzione. Il resto verrà da sé, se il tipo è quello giusto.

Don’t become complacent; aim to be fun but grounded!

Things could really be going well for you two, and you’ll feel really good about yourself.

You’ve won him over, the job here is done, and you don’t have to really try anymore. Well that’s where you’d be wrong.

No matter how good you’ve become at texting and how crazy he may finally seem for you, you should never let it get to your head and completely stop trying.

Naturally, if he’s testa in giù for you, you’ve done your job, but don’t show him you don’t care to try any longer once he’s hooked.

The guy deserves to know that even though he’s totally mad about you know, you’ll never stop being your cute, fun, and eager self.

And even though you’ve won him over, neither of you should stop wooing the other.

Una volta diventare compiacentiDa lì in poi le cose non possono che andare a rotoli.

Sorprendetelo con un messaggio flirtante e sexy di tanto in tanto e dimostrategli sempre che la scintilla c'è ancora!

As long as you’re both putting in effort, you’ll be well on your way to a good, solid, healthy relationship.